“I know you think you understand what you thought I said but I’m not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”
An old joke, but painfully true.
Though we humans more or less invented verbal communications, we are still not very good at it. Miscommunication is so common that novelist Doug Adams once opined that if we actually understood everything everyone said, it would cause the end of the universe.
Jokes aside, clarity of communications is a primary job of business leaders, and one of the tough things first they must master. For without clear communications, employees cannot collaborate, and nothing useful happens.
In this article, we’ll look into 18 ways to improve communication in the workplace so you can avoid miscommunication and work more efficiently.
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What Is Communication About?
Radio engineers know that for good communications to occur, the transmitter should be strong, the receiver should have a good antenna, and there should be very little radio frequency (RF) interference.
It’s about sending, receiving and noise.
Likewise, with people, the person communicating (spoken, written, doesn’t matter) should be clear, the receiver should be attentive, and distractions should be kept at a minimum.
The problem is that all too rarely do these three things happen at once, and hence many office communications fail. Yet everyone has the tools they need to improve all of them. Interestingly, when leaders are good at these three factors, employees tend to improve their communication as well.
How to Have Effective Communication in the Workplace
Here are some easy-to-practice tips for improving communications in your workplace.
1. Be a Good Listener
You are a receiver and need that good antenna. In fact, you have two of them – your ears – which should be used twice as much as your transmitter – your mouth.
Good listening begins with being fully present and engaged. Anything less tells the other person you don’t really care.
These tips can help you to be a good listener:
2. Don’t Pass on Gossip
Gossip, aside from potentially being destructive, is noise. It is “information” unnecessary to conducting work, a big distraction, and a time waster.
If you’re not sure how to deal with gossips at work, take a look at this article:
3. Speak in a Soft Voice
Social media is teaching us that when everyone is shouting, the calm, quiet voice is heard the loudest.
Even when tempted to raise your voice, don’t, and you will be heard very clearly.
4. Praise Often for Anything Others Do That Is Worthwhile
People who feel unappreciated make lousy listeners. They might find it not worth their time, or that the speaker is not being forthright.
But when a person is valued, and told so in no uncertain terms, then they listen with eagerness. Authentic praise builds better antennae on the listener.
5. Be Honest and Ethical
There is a reason people dislike engaging politicians, lawyers and used car salesmen. These people try to please others by using flowery languages which are not true.
Be honest and ethical and you’ll gain trust from others and people will think that you’re reliable.
6. Never Use Condescending or Vulgar Language
It doesn’t matter how thick-skinned a person is, talking down to them or in a way that sounds abusive is noise that prevents them from fully engaging you.
Filter your mind and your mouth, and you will notice those around you more eager to hear what you have to say.
7. Have a Good Work Ethic
Nobody pines for the opinions of slackers.
Be responsible, work hard and go on the extra miles to help colleagues who need an extra hand.
Here’re some tips for you to have a good work ethic:
8. Treat Others Fairly
If you don’t think you are going to get a fair deal, you likely discount what a schemer tells you.
If people in your company perceive you as treating others without an even hand, someone will tune you out and pull down their antennae.
But when they know you will treat them with the same honor you treat others, then they want to hear what you have to say.
9. Be a Happy Person and Be Kind to Everyone
How often do you want to listen to a grouchy or antagonistic person? Likely, never. Neither does the person you are talking to.
Be happy, supportive and helpful even when you don’t feel like it.
10. Be Calm Under Stress
This is one of the most difficult tactics to master, but it pays well.
We all have been amazed by EMTs, police officers, surgeons and the like who can keep their cool in life-and-death situations. And if involved, we immediately followed their commands.
When you keep your head about you, others will too.
If you find it hard to handle stress, check out this advice:
11. Be Friendly and Courteous
Try this experiment:
The next time you are on the phone with a tired-sounding customer support representative, be as happy, friendly and polite as possible. You can hear their voice change as they happily engage you.
Now, imagine how well that works when you are face-to-face with your officemate. Honey beats vinegar every time.
12. Be Engaging
To engage means to occupy the attention or efforts of a person or persons. This requires being a bit outside of yourself, to holistically connect in both the give and take of a communication. When you do so, you occupy their attention.
If you are not ready to be fully engaging, then wait before starting an important communication.
13. Don’t Be Wasteful with Time
We all are born with a finite amount of time. So, it is little wonder that people dislike having theirs wasted (which is why so many office meetings are disagreeable).
Know what you need to say or learn, get to the point, and then disengage so the other person doesn’t feel the conversation is not worth their time.
14. Speak Slowly and Don’t Use Complicated Words
Talking fast either makes you sound like a huckster or causes your meaning to be lost. Using unnecessarily complex language or jargon is in the same sphere as speaking condescendingly.
Don’t rush and don’t talk above the lexicon of the listener.
15. Be More Concerned About Others Than Yourself
The attitude “It’s all about me” is a lousy way to engage others, in no small part because it isn’t all about you.
The skill you need here is empathy: 5 Tips for Empathetic Listening
It is about them, coworkers, teams, departments and the company at large. Put yourself, your needs and your interests on the back burner.
16. Be Truly Humble and Forgiving
The Golden Rule cannot be applied without humility and understanding. Likewise, with true, deep and fulfilling communications.
There is no shame in being human, but it requires giving as much as you would like to get if the roles were reversed. Always be human and humane when communicating with your boss, your teammates and your employees.
17. Keep Your Workplace Neat and Tidy
My partner, Warren Muller, was not tidy. But he was a genius, and thus worth listening to despite maintaining an office of perpetual clutter. Unless you are a genius, you will discover that people listen to you better when they perceive you to be well organized.
18. Be Aware of Your Personal Hygiene
This should go without saying in the 21st century. Hygiene is an ante, a minimal aid to social interaction. In the absence of it, the other person – regardless of whether they are the speaker or listener – has many reasons to not be fully engaged.
The Bottom Line
To have effective communication in the workplace, it goes beyond the words you speak.
With the right attitude and mindset, you will demonstrate the communication skills you need to work with your boss, your teammates and employees efficiently.
Practice the above 18 ways in your workplace and start to improve your communication skills at work!
More Resources About Communication Skills
- 7 Most Important Communication Techniques to Master in the Workplace
- How to Work with Different Communication Styles in the Office
- How to Master Effective Communication Skills at Work and Home
- Conflict Management Styles for Effective Communication at Work
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