“Gossip is the art of saying nothing in a way that leaves practically nothing unsaid.”- Walter Winchell
Office gossip is alive and well and likely to continue into the next millennium. One study done by the University of Amsterdam has revealed that 90% of the conversation in the workplace can only be defined as gossip. It has also wormed its way into office emails where it is estimated that it occupies about 15% of office communications.
Now, gossipy colleagues may actually perform a useful function, if the gossip remains at a harmless level. It can also be quite funny and entertaining as in the BBC’s classic TV show The Office. Gossip can also fill a gap when office communications and management are inadequate.
But what can you do if you have gossipy colleagues who are hell-bent on character assassination or who are determined to gain an advantage by spreading certain rumors? It can be a negative force and can fuel resentment, fear, envy and low morale. This is when office gossip becomes the ugly face of office politics.Advertising
Here are 7 actions to take when you have gossipy colleagues.
1. Take action to stop negative gossip
If you are in a team leader role, you may have to take decisive action against individual colleagues who are indulging in negative gossip which is affecting morale and also productivity. This will have to be done on a one-on-one basis.
It will be up to you to keep the lines of communication open so that negative gossip never gets a foothold. Damaging gossip is fueled by a lack of appropriate communication.
2. Ask penetrating questions
“I know nothing more annoying when people I don’t know jump to conclusions on my person based on nothing but gossip or speculation.”- Nikolaj Coster-Waldau
If you find a colleague who is telling you doubtful details about a co-worker, try to pin her/him down. You can also ask for more details which will usually get a rather vague response. You can ask detailed questions about when and why various incidents occurred. The idea is to put the gossipy colleague in a difficult position which will expose him or her for what they really are – a gossip-monger.
3. Stay out of the gossipy colleagues’ radar
“Gossip is the Devil’s radio” – George Harrison
If you decide to have no part in this type of gossip, you can very frankly say that you are just not interested in harmful conversations about colleagues. The gossiper will then leave you alone as he will view you as a poor gossip-monger. You can feel proud that you have taken such a stance. If all your colleagues did that, then this destructive gossip would dry up. Gossipy colleagues with no audience are dead in the water.
4. You can threaten to repeat the gossip to the victim
Gossipy colleagues hate this because they know that they will be exposed. Just say that you intend to repeat back to the hapless victim what you have just heard.Advertising
5. Being friendly with the office gossip will not protect you
“Who gossips to you will gossip of you” -Turkish proverb
You might prefer to take a more friendly approach. You might think that tolerance will go far and that you can handle the gossip in a light-hearted way. The only problem is that gossips talk about everyone so you may soon be a target!
6. Teamwork can work well
Try teaming up with your other co-workers. You can play a prank with their help. Invent some gossip about yourself and tell the gossiper that it is top secret. Let your colleagues know and when the gossiper tells everyone, you can confront her and ask her why she betrayed your trust on such a confidential matter. That should silence the muckraker.
7. Talking at the water cooler
This is where you will hear a lot of office gossip. If you find that the topic is the usual one about the uncertain future of the company, or some nasty back stabbing, then try to change the subject. Bringing up a neutral topic like a sports competition, food, sleep, or weather can often break up the gossipy colleagues. If you do not want to be involved at all, then tell them you have an urgent deadline to meet.Advertising
Avoiding harmful and horrible gossip is feasible if you follow the pointers above. The best solution is to steer clear of gossip when possible, and when you can’t, invent an excuse to get away. Urgent phone calls and meetings are very useful!
Have you worked with gossipy colleagues and how did you deal with them? Let us know in the comments below.
Featured photo credit: Gossip Girls / Art G. via flickr.com
Published on December 17, 2018
15 Important Interview Questions to Ask Employees During an Interview
The importance of asking great questions cannot be overstated. Great questions help you discover new things, diagnose existing problems, and explore how well solutions are working in your life or business. Whether you work with consultants, executives, or entry-level employees, you cannot skip questions.
Now imagine running a company where sustainability and profitability depends on your ability to determine the brightest minds and skills in the industry in a single conversation:
How do you know they’re the perfect fit for you? How do you assess their communication skills? How do you know they won’t cost your team in the long run?
You know it already; ask great questions!
The concept of asking questions isn’t new but there is a great chance that you’re not taking full advantage of it. A Harvard Business Review article refers to questioning as a powerful tool that unlocks value, fuels innovation and performance improvement. As a hiring manager or recruiter, how to you get this information when you’re meeting a candidate for the first time?
Ask great questions, of course.
Without further ado, here are 15 interview questions to ask employees during an interview:
1. “What are your career goals?”
Another version of this question is “What types of problems do you see yourself solving in the future?”
This question is almost never asked and when it is asked, most questions are geared towards knowing how long the employees intends to stay in the company.
Instead of asking leading questions that would steer employees into declaring undying loyalty for the organization, ask what types of problems they hope to solve in the future.
This does two things:
- It reveals the skills and interest in your employees.
- It lets you know what types of candidates you are attracting in the first place.
With this, you’re able to trend this data to improve how you market your job opening. And if employee retention is pertinent to you, you can use this information to improve the job function so that future employees can see their future selves in this role.
2. “Why do you think you’re a great fit?”
It is important to go beneath the surface to ask questions that make the candidates speak about themselves in their own words. However, a surprising benefit of asking this question is that you’re able to determine how well-versed a candidate really is with the company’s challenges and goals, in addition to their personal attributes.
Instead of listing off accomplishments, an exceptional employee is able to help you see how these previous accomplishment can translate into helping your organization solve its current business problems.
3. “What do you hope to learn from this role?”
The answers to this question can reveal if there is a job-skill match and if a linear career progression is expected.
As you listen carefully and mind these answers from candidates, you begin to see trends in responses that help you refine how you develop roles, responsibilities, how employees see themselves, and what they want their career to look like.
4. “How do you deal with conflict between colleagues?”
Almost every breakdown in relationship is caused by miscommunication or lack of effective interpersonal skills. But a solid indicator of how well a person communicates is how they manage interpersonal conflict.
Conflict management skills is no longer something required only for corporations who wish to settle million-dollar lawsuits. It’s an essential skill that every worker ought to possess and can make or break an organization.
Tip: Ask for a time when they didn’t get along with a co-worker and how they resolved the conflict.
5. “How did you learn about this position?”
Asking how they learned about the position reveals how the brand is perceived by the outside world. This way, you know if your current employees is your biggest source of referrals for qualified applicants.
This also lets you know how effective your current staffing processes are and which channels are worth the effort.
6. “Why are you interested in this position?”
Again, another seemingly basic question. But when you field applications from candidates who are transferring their skills from a different department or industry, you want to know why the change was made.
What led to the aha moment? What was the internal struggle like for them? What stands out to them about this particular position? Very important.
7. “What excites you the MOST about this position?”
After establishing how passionate they are about this position, it’s not unusual that you would want to know what tasks and responsibilities excite them most. With this knowledge, not only are you aware of their sense of ownership, you help nurture these skills by encouraging and facilitating the discovery of hidden potential in your employees.
For example, a hospital nurse might detest inserting intravenous catheters in patients but jump at the task of motivating colleagues and initiating stress-reduction activities on hospital units. An office employee might cringe at the thought of public speaking but excel at creating world-class presentations.
While you can’t exempt your employee from every task in the role because they favor one thing over another, you are more aware of how rich your existing talent pool is in your organization and can utilize your talents effectively.
8. “What do you consider your weakness?”
Why should you ask a candidate what his or her weakness is when all you want is someone perfect?
Admitting a weakness shouldn’t automatically disqualify a candidate. Rather, it reveals to you how self-aware the candidate is.
Self-awareness is essential to personal and professional development, and this is sometimes a precursor to how self-directed a person is regarding their career goals.
There are arguments about the need to abolish the weakness question from interviews because it reduces candidates’ accomplishments. I disagree.
Asking employees about weaknesses lets you understand your employees better so you can not only create a work environment that is smart, you’re able to design professional development programs that can strengthen these weaknesses.
9. “What will you find challenging about this position?”
Maybe you don’t want to ask the ”weakness question.” Maybe you’re more concerned about the capacity to perform in the current job rather than their job history.
Still, you want to know if you have a creative problem solver and how they feel about potential problems when they arise. You also want to anticipate how your employees will adjust to their roles once they are successfully hired. Self-awareness about one’s ability and limits can be observed by asking this question during an interview.
Note: This question should never be asked with a malicious intent. Exceptional employees come with flaws and this should be expected. They key is knowing whether the successful candidate is willing to be a problem solver.
10. “What additional support will you need during your transition?”
This is a very important question during the interview question because not only is the labor market diverse, the response to this question can be used to develop the orientation process and additional training materials.
As a mentor to newer nurses, this is a question I repeat more than 50 percent of the time during the orientation period. The responses I get provide me with insights into what employees really consider as constraints so that I can make their transition as smooth as possible.
11. “What qualities do you desire in a leader or manager?”
Not everyone desires a manager who provides direction while giving you free rein to make your job your own. At the same time, some employees might prefer a manager who is detail-oriented and provides all the answers.
Knowing this before a candidate is hired can prevent conflict arising from differences in communication or management styles.
12. “What do you do if you don’t agree with your manager’s decisions?”
Conflict not only happens between employees. According to a study of conflict in the Canadian workforce, about 81 percent of people leave the organization as a result of conflict.
The purpose of this question is to determine how adaptable an employee is to different communication styles, what they consider deal breakers, and how they model desired behavior when conflict arises.
The responses to this question allows you to manage expectations and an indication for leaders to continuously work on their communication and conflict management skills.
13. “What would make this company an amazing place to work?”
Maybe you can’t provide free lunches or paid hours of free time at work like bigger companies. But answers to this question can reveal a lot about what employees think is crucial to well-being.
In a study of nearly 17,000 employees, it was noted that an increase in stress level is directly correlated to workplace injury. While this interview won’t eradicate organizational constraints or stressors, feedback from candidates and employees on what makes a company a great place to work is the perfect place to start.
14. “What other questions do you have for me?”
Although this is a conversation to determine the best fit for your team, company, or organization, the interview goes both ways. Yes, you are also being scrutinized by your interviewee.
The purpose of this question is to create space to answer the candidate’s questions about your organization. You also get to provide insight on processes, expectations, team culture, and information that isn’t readily available on the company website.
15. “Tell me about yourself”
If everything else seems too much, lead with this timeless question. You simply cannot go wrong here.
Sometimes, the best answers come from open-ended queries. This is your best chance to know the candidate’s history, career accomplishments, and get a feel for their career goals all at the same time.
It is less intrusive and leading with this question makes it easier to approach other questions––depending on how sensitive the position is.
The Bottom Line
Conversation is a two-way street. Good questions can give you great insights into the value an employee can bring to your company. But there is an art and science to asking questions.
While you won’t become an expert right off the bat, these questions provide a good foundation to start from if you want to attract and retain top talent in your organization.
More Resources About Job Interview
- 10 Things Strong Interview Candidates Do That Make Them Get Hired Every Time
- How I Get Interview Opportunities Every Time with One Impressive Letter
- What to Do When Asked About Weaknesses in a Job Interview
- Best 10 Interview Questions for Managers to Hire Exceptional Employee
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