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The Only Best Selection Of Inspirational Quotes You Need In Your Life.

The Only Best Selection Of Inspirational Quotes You Need In Your Life.

We have all been there.

At some points in life, we struggle, frustrate and lost. We don’t know what we want to do with our lives, we lost sight about how to move on, worry about all the uncertainties that life might throw us or simply had a bad day where things just not goingthe way we expected.

We can always train up ourselves to live a positive life by practicing gratitude and developing habits that maintain our positive attitudes.But after all, we are only human, it’s normal to have down times.

For me, I find it very useful to read through some inspiring quotes when I have my bad days. Not only they provide me with an instant mood boost, but also valuable guidance and inspiration when I feel stuck in relationship, work or life in general.

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Here I have collected and orgainsed a list of quotes that I have been revisiting throughout the past years. You can read them when you feel low or just read 1 quote every day to keep yourself motivated and inspired! Feel free to make it your habit and I am sure this small change will have a great impact to your life!

1. Read Inspirational QuotesWhen You Feel Lost

When we have been dealing with the same problem (any problem you can call) for too long, we tend to lose sight about the big picture and then we feel stuck and frustrated. Apart from allowing yourself to stay away from the situation for a while,it’s very helpful to get that instant “click” from quotes. They are handy, easy to digest and able to inspire you in just a second. I find them useful when I feel stuck, they NEVER failed to lead me to new thoughts and directions.

    2. ReadThese Motivational QuotesTo Keep Yourself Going!

    We have all failed at least once in our lives (who said they haven’t must be lying!). We are all particularly vulnerable at those moments and we’ll allow those failures and scars define us. But it’s ok to make mistake, it’s ok to fail! What’s more important is you know how to stand back up, face the adversity, bounce forward and grow stronger.

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    Take these quotes as your best friends. Let them talk to you when you feel down and demotivated! It’s ok to struggle but never ever give up!

      3. You Can SendEncouraging Quotes To Your Friends!

      Have you ever had that feeling of not knowing what to say when your friends are having a down time or experiencing something that’s too much for you to handle?

      How about sending your friends some positive quotes? They can help you do a nice job! Remember the days when you feel bad, comments or opinions might not be the thing you are looking for from a friend, all you need it’s just an act of caring! So I do recommend you to send these lovely quotes to boost their mood and show your love!

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        4. When You Are Sad, You Can Always Read These Quotes About Happiness.

        Being happy is so much harder nowadays. Thanks to social media, people are often comparing themselves to the one glamorous side that the others show on their Instagram and Facebook.

        But happiness is more JUST than that. Happiness comes naturally once we have found our core self. Doing something that we love, feeling healthy every day or simply being around the person you love can be your true happiness! There’s no point to compare with others and if you try really hard to chase happiness, you will never be happy.

        You don’t have to chase it, it will just come when you find yourself. It’s easy for us to lose sight and direction on the journey to happiness because there are just too much distractions. All we need are just reminders of how happy we already are!

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          5. If You Are Chasing Your Dreams, These Quotes About Dreams Are What You Need!

          People are often too easy to put off their dreams. Some say they don’t have the time. Some say dreams are just dreams and they are not achievable. However, ask yourself, Have you grabbed the chance tight when it comes? Are you working you full potential towards your dream? If you want to achieve the goal so badly how come you are not taking any actions?

          I have came to learn that it’s called a dream only if you let it. Once you have started the journey, dreams become goals and goals will derive actions.

            6. No Matter you Are Finding Love or In a Relationship, These Quotes About Love Will Help You Anyways!

            It took me years to learn that love is about compromising while not losing your core self.We learn to appreciate and at the same time embrace the differences between us and our partners. We need to figure ways to live a life TOGETHER where both parties feel comfortable being themselves.

            If you love the person, love who they are instead of changing them to who you want them to be.

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              Published on May 4, 2021

              How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

              How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

              They say we are the average of the five persons we spend the most time with. For a minute, consider the people around you. Are they truly who your “tribe” should be or who you aspire to become in the future? Are they really genuine people who want to see you succeed? Or are they fake people who don’t really want to see you happy?

              In this article, I’ll review why it is important to surround yourself with genuine individuals—the ones who care, bring something to our table, and first and foremost, who leave all fakeness behind.

              How to Spot Fake People?

              When you’ve been working in the helping professions for a while, spotting fake people gets a bit easier. There are some very clear signs that the person you are looking at is hiding something, acting somehow, or simply wanting to get somewhere. Most often, there is a secondary gain—perhaps attention, sympathy, or even a promotion.

              Whatever it is, you’re better off working their true agenda and staying the hell away. Here are some things you should look out for to help spot fake people.

              1. Full of Themselves

              Fake people like to show off. They love looking at themselves in the mirror. They collect photos and videos of every single achievement they had and every part of their body and claim to be the “best at what they do.”

              Most of these people are actually not that good in real life. But they act like they are and ensure that they appear better than the next person. The issue for you is that you may find yourself always feeling “beneath” them and irritated at their constant need to be in the spotlight.

              2. Murky in Expressing Their Emotions

              Have you ever tried having a deep and meaningful conversation with a fake person? It’s almost impossible. It’s because they have limited emotional intelligence and don’t know how they truly feel deep down—and partly because they don’t want to have their true emotions exposed, no matter how normal these might be.

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              It’s much harder to say “I’m the best at what I do” while simultaneously sharing “average” emotions with “equal” people.

              3. Zero Self-Reflection

              To grow, we must accept feedback from others. We must be open to our strengths and to our weaknesses. We must accept that we all come in different shapes and can always improve.

              Self-reflection requires us to think, forgive, admit fault, and learn from our mistakes. But to do that, we have to be able to adopt a level of genuineness and depth that fake people don’t routinely have. A fake person generally never apologizes, but when they do, it is often followed with a “but” in the next breath.

              4. Unrealistic Perceptions

              Fake people most often have an unrealistic perception of the world—things that they want to portray to others (pseudo achievements, materialistic gains, or a made-up sense of happiness) or simply how they genuinely regard life outside themselves.

              A lot of fake people hide pain, shame, and other underlying reasons in their behavior. This could explain why they can’t be authentic and/or have difficulties seeing their environment for the way it objectively is (both good and bad).

              5. Love Attention

              As I mentioned earlier, the biggest sign that something isn’t quite right with someone’s behavior can be established by how much they love attention. Are you being interrupted every time you speak by someone who wants to make sure that the spotlight gets reverted back to them? Is the focus always on them, no matter the topic? If yes, you’re probably dealing with a fake person.

              6. People Pleaser

              Appreciation feels nice but having everyone like you is even better. While it is completely unrealistic for most people to please everyone all the time, fake people seem to always say yes in pursuit of constant approval.

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              Now, this is a problem for two reasons. Firstly, these people are simply saying yes to things for their own satisfaction. Secondly, they often end up changing their minds or retracting their offer for one reason or another (“I would have loved to, but my grandmother suddenly fell ill.”), leaving you in the lurch for the 100th time this year.

              7. Sarcasm and Cynicism

              Behind the chronic pasted smile, fake people are well known for brewing resentment, jealousy, or anger. This is because, behind the postcard life, they are often unhappy. Sarcasm and cynicism are well known to act as a defense mechanism, sometimes even a diversion—anything so they can remain feeling on top of the world, whether it is through boosting themselves or bringing people down.

              8. Crappy friend

              Fake people are bad friends. They don’t listen to you, your feelings, and whatever news you might have to share. In fact, you might find yourself migrating away from them when you have exciting or bad news to share, knowing that it will always end up one way—their way. In addition, you might find that they’re not available when you truly need them or worse, cancel plans at the last minute.

              It’s not unusual to hear that a fake person talks constantly behind people’s backs. Let’s be honest, if they do it to others, they’re doing it to you too. If your “friend” makes you feel bad constantly, trust me, they’re not achieving their purpose, and they’re simply not a good person to have around.

              The sooner you learn to spot these fake people, the sooner you can meet meaningful individuals again.

              How to Cope With Fake People Moving Forward?

              It is important to remind yourself that you deserve more than what you’re getting. You are worthy, valuable, precious, and just as important as the next person.

              There are many ways to manage fake people. Here are some tips on how to deal with them.

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              1. Boundaries

              Keep your boundaries very clear. As explained in the book Unlock Your Resilience, boundaries are what keep you sane when the world tries to suffocate you. When fake people become emotional vampires, make sure to keep your distances, limit contact, and simply replace them with more valuable interactions.

              2. Don’t Take Their Behavior Personally

              Sadly, they most likely have behaved this way before they knew you and will continue much longer after you have moved on. It isn’t about you. It is about their inner need to meet a void that you are not responsible for. And in all honesty, unless you are a trained professional, you are unlikely to improve it anyway.

              3. Be Upfront and Honest About How You Feel

              If your “friend” has been hurtful or engaged in behaviors you struggle with, let them know—nicely, firmly, however you want, but let them know that they are affecting you. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, you’ll feel better and when you’re ready to move on, you’ll know you tried to reach out. Your conscience is clear.

              4. Ask for Advice

              If you’re unsure about what you’re seeing or feeling, ask for advice. Perhaps a relative, a good friend, or a colleague might have some input as to whether you are overreacting or seeing some genuine concerns.

              Now, don’t confuse asking for advice with gossiping behind the fake person’s back because, in the end, you don’t want to stoop down to their level. However, a little reminder as to how to stay on your own wellness track can never hurt.

              5. Dig Deeper

              Now, this one, I offer with caution. If you are emotionally strong, up to it, guaranteed you won’t get sucked into it, and have the skills to manage, perhaps you could dig into the reasons a fake person is acting the way they do.

              Have they suffered recent trauma? Have they been rejected all their lives? Is their self-esteem so low that they must resort to making themselves feel good in any way they can? Sometimes, having an understanding of a person’s behavior can help in processing it.

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              6. Practice Self-Care!

              Clearly, putting some distance between the fake person and yourself is probably the way to go. However, sometimes, it takes time to get there. In the meantime, make sure to practice self-care, be gentle with yourself, and compensate with lots of positives!

              Self-care can be as simple as taking a hot shower after talking to them or declining an invitation when you’re not feeling up to the challenge.

              Spotting fake people isn’t too hard. They generally glow with wanna-be vibes. However, most often, there are reasons as to why they are like this. Calling their behavior might be the first step. Providing them with support might be the second. But if these don’t work, it’s time to stay away and surround yourself with the positivity that you deserve.

              Final Thoughts

              Remember that life is a rollercoaster. It has good moments, tough moments, and moments you wouldn’t change for the world. So, look around and make sure that you take the time to choose the right people to share it all with.

              We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, so take a good look around and choose wisely!

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