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7 Reasons Why Your Workaholic Nature Is Harming You And Those Around You

7 Reasons Why Your Workaholic Nature Is Harming You And Those Around You

There have been quite a few articles recently saying that workaholism can be good for you! They claim that workaholics are unique in displaying dedication, energy, and drive. Obviously, I do not agree as an ex-workaholic myself. Workaholics are actually harming themselves and their families and friends. Here are 7 reasons why workaholism is definitely not a good idea.

1. Your health will suffer

Just think. If you are the type who has to skimp on sleep, meals and exercise because of your workaholic addiction, what is the result? Poor health, of course. Researchers at the Kansas State University have found that there is a startling reduction in physical and mental health when 50 hour weeks become the norm. The study took a sample from over 12,000 workers who were interviewed on a yearly basis between the years 1979 through 1994.

2. Your productivity suffers

Strange isn’t it? We have been raised to think that long hours are a sign of a really productive and dedicated employee. It is the old Protestant work ethic which still persists to this day. The opposite seems to be the case, however. Numerous studies show that long hours are synonymous with declining energy, concentration, poor decision making, and awful results.

According to the International Labor Organization, over 600 million workers are clocking up 48 hour working weeks and their productivity is suffering. Peru, Republic of Korea and Thailand are at the top of the list.

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One human resources company, Bamboo HR, insists that the maximum number of working hours a week is 40. They are very strict about this and the policy has paid off in that there is no burnout among their employees. They all leave they office at 5.p.m.on the dot. They decided this after seeing marriages break up and managers being hospitalized.

‘We trade a strict adherence to a 40-hour workweek for all employees in return for their commitment to making all of those hours productive and efficient.’- Ryan Sanders, co-founder of Bamboo.

3. Your working timetable is all over the place

If you insist on getting up very early and keeping irregular hours at the office, then you are in for a few nasty surprises. You will be more prone to irritability, your creativity will suffer and your morale will take a dive.

The best solution is to work towards setting clear boundaries between your work and your home life. You have to schedule in time for some quite time, exercise, or just relaxing and listening to music. Some employees are lucky enough to have napping facilities. These things can help to set limits.

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4. You are a perfectionist

Lots of workaholics are suffering from micro-managing and perfectionism which make things a lot worse. There is a dangerous side effect of this in that it can lead to a mindset which is all or nothing. There are no compromises and the task at hand is either going to be a success or a total failure.

If you are a perfectionist, there is a possibility that there are underlying mental health issues. These can range from anxiety and depression, to eating disorders and substance abuse.

The best solution is to try and change your mindset. There is, after all, a possibility of failure and this should not be forgotten. This means setting more realistic objectives and breaking the task down into smaller mini tasks.

5. You are neglecting leisure and pleasure

When workaholics stop enjoying themselves and their only satisfaction is reaching work deadlines, then there is something terribly wrong. They are likely to run themselves into the ground with disastrous consequences for themselves and the company.

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I know all about this as I ended up in hospital twice because I was incapable of putting these simple suggestions into practice. I was under enormous pressure and stress won the battle. But I risked my health. Lesson learned the hard way!

Try to set time and energy for doing things that you love such as taking your kids out, going to the gym or attending a school event. Another solution is to make sure that you are not available by iPhone or email. Urgent calls can wait till tomorrow.

6. You cannot switch off your laptop on vacation

How many workaholics do you know who go on holiday with their laptop? They are in touch with the office and they are always answering emails and urgent calls, You wonder why they bothered to waste money on the plane ticket.

The great thing when you switch off completely is that you can try out delegating which will give you a great way of assessing your staff. In addition, you will discover that there is life when you switch off your devices. Real life, relaxation, beauty, good food and wine, glorious sunshine are all waiting for you.

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7. You let work define you

This is all you are. Work defines you and boxes you in. Time to make a break. Just think about how many marriages break up because of workaholism. It makes sense because if you are married to your job, it gets tough being married to a real person.

You are also stressing those colleagues who have to work with you. This was the result of a study carried out by the International Journal of Stress Management.

It will not be easy to escape the workaholism addiction, quite frankly. Recognizing that you may have a problem is the first step. The second step is to repeat to yourself that long hours are unproductive. Let your mantra be: ‘work smarter, not harder’.

Featured photo credit: The workaholic NSA/ herval via flickr.com

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Author of Ziger the Tiger Stories, a health enthusiast specializing in relationships, life improvement and mental health.

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Last Updated on September 23, 2020

Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

Are you waking up each day looking for that perfect thing, activity, or job that will make your life work? Or, maybe you are looking for that perfect relationship. Once you “get” this new thing that will allow you to do what you love, you are sure that you will be happy forever.

In reality, life doesn’t work like that, and we would probably get bored if it did. There is likely no one thing, experience, or activity that will keep you feeling passionate and engaged all the time. What’s important is staying connected to what you love and continuing to grow in the process.

Here, we’ll talk about how to get started doing what you love and achieving more in life through the motivation it brings. Doing this doesn’t have to take a long time; it just takes determination and energy.

Most People Already Know Their Passion

So many people walk around in life “looking for” their passion. They look for it as if true passion is some mysterious thing that is difficult to find and runs away once you find it. However, the problem is rarely lack of passion.

Most of us already know what we love to do. We know what excites us, even if we haven’t done it for years. Instead, we focus on what we think we “must” do.

For example, maybe you love building model cars or painting pet portraits. Yet, each day you work a completely unrelated job and make no time for the activity you already know you love. The truth is you probably don’t need to find your passion; you just need to start doing what you already know you’re passionate about[1].

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No Activity Is Exciting All the Time

Even people who are living their dream lifestyle or working their dream job don’t love it all the time. Every job or lifestyle has parts of it that we won’t like.

Let’s say your dream is to become an actress, and you succeed. You may not enjoy the process of auditioning and facing rejection. You may experience moments of boredom when you practice your lines over and over again. But the overall experience is totally worth it.

Most of life is like that. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment by demanding that life be perfect all the time. If things were perfect and easy, you would ultimately stop learning and growing, and life would begin to lack even more meaning in that case.

Be grateful for both the good and bad moments as they are both entirely necessary if you genuinely want to do what you love and love what you do.

Doing What You Love May Not Be Easy

Living a life you love is unlikely to be easy. If it was, you would not grow very much as a person. And, if you think about a great book or movie, the growth of the main character is what matters most.

What if the challenges you meet along your path to living a life you love were designed to make you grow as a person? You may actually start looking forward to challenges instead of dreading them. An easy life hardly ever makes a compelling story.

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If you struggle to overcome challenges, try writing them down each time you encounter one. Then, write down three ways you could tackle it. Try one, and if it doesn’t work, try another. This way, you’ll learn what does and doesn’t work for you.

How to Do What You Love

There are many small steps you can take to ensure you are making time to do the things you love. Start with these, and you’ll likely find that you’re already on the right track.

1. Choose Your Priorities Wisely

Many people claim they want to do something, yet they don’t do it. The truth is they might not really want to do it in the first place[2].

We all end up following through on what matters most to us. We make decisions moment by moment about what we need to focus on. What we choose to do is what we deem most important in our lives.

If there is something you claim you want to do but you don’t do it, try asking yourself how much you really want it or where it’s currently placed on priority list. Are there other things you want more?

Be honest with yourself: what you currently do each day is a reflection of your priorities. Recognize that you can change your priorities at any time.

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Make a list of your priorities. Really take the time to think this through. Then, ask yourself if what you are doing each day reflects them. For example, if you believe your top priority is spending more time with your family, but you consistently take on extra hours at work, you’re not really prioritizing things in the way you think you are.

If this is happening, it’s time to make a change.

2. Do One Small Thing Each Day

As stated above, doing what you love doesn’t have to mean finding that perfect job that makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning. If you want to do what you love, start with one small thing each day.

Maybe you love reading a good book. Take ten minutes before bed to read.

Maybe you love swimming. Get a membership at the local YMCA, and go there for thirty minutes after work each day.

Dedicating even a short amount of time to something that brings you joy each day will improve your life overall. You may find that, over time, a career path related to what you love to do pops up. After doing the thing you love each day, you’ll be more than prepared to take it on when the opportunity arises.

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If you need help making time for your passions, check out this article to get started.

3. Prepare to Make Sacrifices

If you are an exceptionally busy person (aren’t we all?), you may have to make sacrifices in order to make space for the things you are passionate about. Maybe you take on less extra hours at the office or take thirty minutes away from another hobby in order to develop another that you enjoy.

Looking at your priority list will help you decide what can get put on the back burner and what can’t. Remember, do this thinking about what will help you feel good about how you’re spending your time. 

For example, if you love writing but rarely make time for it, consider getting up 30 minutes earlier than normal. Or instead of browsing your phone for 30 minutes before bed, you can write instead. There is always a way to find time for what you love.

Final Thoughts

If you love what you do, each day becomes a joyful adventure. If you don’t love what you are doing, life feels like a chore. The best way to achieve success is to design a life you love and live it every day.

Remember, doing something you love doesn’t have to include big gestures or time-consuming projects. Start small and grow from there.

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