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The 10 Best Ways To Get Employees Or Team Members To Speak Up At Meetings

The 10 Best Ways To Get Employees Or Team Members To Speak Up At Meetings

How can you get employees or team members to speak up at meetings and briefings? There seem to be built in defence mechanisms which lead to people walking on eggshells around authority figures. Enlightened managers know that this is wrong and complain that they are not getting the ideas and feedback to complete projects successfully. Here are 10 ways to get round the problem.

1. Give employees advance warnings of new proposals or procedures

Nobody likes to be taken by surprise and asked to speak about it something he or she hasn’t prepared for. Many managers make the mistake of introducing a new plan or idea or policy without any warning. Of course, employees are reluctant to speak because they have not had time to think about it. They naturally fear that there may be consequences for them when speaking in an improvised way.

2. Don’t let silence fester

In other situations, managers may find that there is a worrying period of time from when problems arise to when they are finally aired. Usually, the delay may be due to some or all of the following:

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  • Fear of being blamed
  • Worry about losing a bonus
  • Scared of being seen as overcritical of management
  • Afraid of criticizing current practice
  • Passing the buck or brushing the matter under the carpet.

The key to getting things out in the open is suggested in the bestselling book by Joseph Grenny, Crucial Conversations: Tools For Talking When Stakes Are High. He recommends using a technique in which the team members know when they can be totally open. The manager can use a term like ‘frank conversation’ or ‘crucial conversation’ to signpost that this is about to happen. It can be on a one-on-one basis or in a group setting, whichever is most appropriate. Team members should feel secure when they contribute with their ideas and feedback.

3. Don’t dominate the discussion

When managers were observed chairing meetings, many of them fell into the trap of talking far too much. When they asked for feedback, they made the mistake of immediately giving their own views on the issue which of course discouraged everybody else. Participants may actually feel that as the boss has answered his own question, there is nothing left for them to say!

4. Ask precise questions

Asking team members what they think of a new product or changed customer service procedures may get a stony silence. It is much better to use precise questions such as the following to get the discussion going:

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  • What can we do to improve safety standards?
  • What incentives can we offer to gain more customer feedback?
  • In what ways can we simplify the accounting procedures?

5. Take ideas on board

If the boss or manager regularly shoots down new ideas for improving products or customer service, then silence will reign. Employees will feel snubbed and worse still, demoralized. A much better approach is to take the idea on board. The LCS approach is one of the best I know:

  • L- stands for what you like about the idea or suggestion.
  • C- stands for some concerns that might make it less profitable or impractical
  • S – represents suggestions for dealing with the concerns or issues that might arise.

6. Give credit for suggestions

Usually, having a list of action points from a meeting is a good way to get things down on paper. It also gives space to acknowledge the originator of a new suggestion or proposal for improving a certain procedure.

7. Ask each member to contribute

I hated this at the management meetings we had every week. The director would always go round the table and ask each member for their views on a problem, reporting on a successful event or anything else. If you are shy, like me, you will know that this can be agony.

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But managers can make it easier by using eye contact effectively. Nodding in the person’s direction can encourage the shyest of people. Empathizing and making comments which show that the manager has actually listened and rewording it are all ways of encouraging people to speak up. Using the person’s name is also helpful. Ask other members if they have felt the same way about an issue or had a similar problem with implementing a new procedure.

8. Encourage them to think of long term success

Building a great company depends on superb teamwork. An integral part of that is making sure that your employees’ feedback is being used to give the best service possible for your clients. That guarantees the success of the company and secures their own jobs. This is why contributing and talking openly at meetings is crucial. Make sure that progress towards achievement of goals is regularly logged and updated.

9. Don’t call too many meetings

It is all very well getting feedback but calling too many meetings is a sure way to kill that valuable process. If the meetings are badly organized and do not follow a set agenda or time limit, then you are wasting valuable resources and time. A good question to ask yourself is what would happen if we do not have this meeting? If the answer is ‘nothing’, then do not bother having it. An email may be more effective.

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10. Don’t discourage dissent

Many managers try to get people to agree to things as soon as they can. The point to note here is that when there are diverging views, this actually generates more discussion. It can lead to better problem-solving. Managers can also play devil’s advocate to stimulate even more discussion. It is a great way of drawing hesitant participants out and getting everyone involved.

Let us know what your techniques are for getting people to speak up at your meetings.

Featured photo credit: Client Meetings at Dynamic Signal/ Jim Larrison via flickr.com

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How to Get Promoted When You Feel Stuck in Your Current Position

How to Get Promoted When You Feel Stuck in Your Current Position

Have you been stuck in the same position for too long and don’t really know how to get promoted and advance your career?

Feeling stuck could be caused by a variety of things:

  • Taking a job for the money
  • Staying with an employer that no longer aligns with your values
  • Realizing that you landed yourself in the wrong career
  • Not feeling valued or feeling underutilized
  • Taking a position without a full understanding of the role

There are many other reasons why you may be feeling this way, but let’s focus instead on learning what to do now in order to get unstuck and get promoted

One of the best ways to get promoted is by showing how you add value to your organization. Did you make money, save money, improve a process, or do some other amazing thing? How else might you demonstrate added value?

Let’s dive right in to how to get promoted when you feel stuck in your current position.

1. Be a Mentor

When I supervised students, I used to warm them — tongue in cheek, of course — about getting really good at their job.

“Be careful not to get too good at this, or you’ll never get to do anything else.”

This was my way of pestering them to take on additional challenges or think outside the box, but there is definitely some truth in doing something so well that your manager doesn’t trust anyone else to do it.

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This can get you stuck.

Jo Miller of Be Leaderly shares this insight on when your boss thinks you’re too valuable in your current job:

“Think back to a time when you really enjoyed your current role…You became known for doing your job so well that you built up some strong ‘personal brand’ equity, and people know you as the go-to-person for this particular job. That’s what we call ‘a good problem to have’: you did a really good job of building a positive perception about your suitability for the role, but you may have done ‘too’ good of a job!”[1]

With this in mind, how do you prove to your employer that you can add value by being promoted?

From Miller’s insight, she talks about building your personal brand and becoming known for doing a particular job well. So how can you link that work with a position or project that will earn you a promotion?

Consider leveraging your strengths and skills.

Let’s say that the project you do so well is hiring and training new entry-level employees. You have to post the job listing, read and review resumes, schedule interviews, make hiring decisions, and create the training schedules. These tasks require skills such as employee relations, onboarding, human resources software, performance management, teamwork, collaboration, customer service, and project management. That’s a serious amount of skills!

Are there any team members who can perform these skills? Try delegating and training some of your staff or colleagues to learn your job. There are a number of reasons why this is a good idea:

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  1. Cross-training helps in any situation in the event that there’s an extended illness and the main performer of a certain task is out for a while.
  2. As a mentor to a supervisee or colleague, you empower them to increase their job skills.
  3. You are already beginning to demonstrate that added value to your employer by encouraging your team or peers to learn your job and creating team players.

Now that you’ve trained others to do that work for which you have been so valued, you can see about re-requesting that promotion. Explain how you have saved the company money, encouraged employees to increase their skills, or reinvented that project of yours.

2. Work on Your Mindset

Another reason you may feel stuck in a position is explained through this quote:

“If you feel stuck at a job you used to love, it’s normally you—not the job—who needs to change. The position you got hired for is probably the exact same one you have now. But if you start to dread the work routine, you’re going to focus on the negatives.”[2]

In this situation, you should pursue a conversation with your supervisor and share your thoughts and feelings to help you learn how to get promoted. You can probably get some advice on how to rediscover the aspects of that job you enjoyed, and negotiate either some additional duties or a chance to move up.

Don’t express frustration. Express a desire for more.

Present your case and show your boss or supervisor that you want to be challenged, and you want to move up. You want more responsibility in order to continue moving the company forward. Focus on how you can do that with the skills you have and the positive mindset you’ve cultivated.

3. Improve Your Soft Skills

When was the last time you put focus and effort into upping your game with those soft skills? I’m talking about those seemingly intangible things that make you the experienced professional in your specific job skills[3].

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Use soft skills when learning how to get promoted.

    According to research, improving soft skills can boost productivity and retention 12 percent and deliver a 250 percent return on investment based on higher productivity and retention[4]. Those are only some of the benefits for both you and your employer when you want to learn how to get promoted.

    You can hone these skills and increase your chances of promotion into a leadership role by taking courses or seminars.

    Furthermore, you don’t necessarily need to request funding from your supervisor. There are dozens of online courses being presented by entrepreneurs and authors about these very subjects. Udemy and Creative Live both feature online courses at very reasonable prices. And some come with completion certificates for your portfolio!

    Another way to improve your soft skills is by connecting with an employee at your organization who has a position similar to the one you want.

    Express your desire to move up in the organization, and ask to shadow that person or see if you can sit in on some of their meetings. Offer to take that individual out for coffee and ask what their secret is! Take copious notes, and then immerse yourself in the learning.

    The key here is not to copy your new mentor. Rather, you want to observe, learn, and then adapt according to your strengths.

    4. Develop Your Strategy

    Do you even know specifically why you want to learn how to get promoted? Do you see a future at this company? Do you have a one-year, five-year, or ten-year plan for your career path? How often do you consider your “why” and insure that it aligns with your “what”?

    Sit down and make an old-fashioned pro and con list.

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    Write down every positive aspect of your current job and then every negative one. Which list is longer? Are there any themes present?

    Look at your lists and choose the most exciting pros and the most frustrating cons. Do those two pros make the cons worth it? If you can’t answer that question with a “yes,” then getting promoted at your current organization may not be what you really want[5].

    The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. —Mark Twain

    Here are some questions to ask yourself:

    • Why do you do what you do?
    • What thrills you about your current job role or career?
    • What does a great day look like?
    • What does success look and feel like beyond the paycheck?
    • How do you want to feel about your impact on the world when you retire?

    Define success to get promoted

      These questions would be great to reflect on in a journal or with your supervisor in your next one-on-one meeting. Or, bring it up with one of your work friends over coffee.

      Final Thoughts

      After considering all of these points and doing your best to learn how to get promoted, what you might find is that being stuck is your choice. Then, you can set yourself on the path of moving up where you are, or moving on to something different.

      Because sometimes the real promotion is finding your life’s purpose.

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      Featured photo credit: Razvan Chisu via unsplash.com

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