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Last Updated on November 14, 2017

20 Most Inspiring TED Talks of All Time That You Should Not Miss

20 Most Inspiring TED Talks of All Time That You Should Not Miss

1. Isabel Allende: How to live passionately–no matter your age

No. of views: 117,643

Message: Isabel Allende gives an incredible perspective on how to live your life. Regardless of how old you are, you have the choice to live passionately.

2. Ron McCallum: How technology allowed me to read

No. of views: 56,568

Message: Ron McCallum, a man who has been blind for over six decades, talks about how technology gives tremendous benefits to the visually impaired.

3. Dan Pink breaks down the science behind motivation

No. of views: 3,906,618

Message: Dan Pink talks about how incentive design doesn’t spark creativity. Traditional rewards aren’t always as effective as we think.

4. Brené Brown discusses her personal request to understand the vulnerability behind humanity

No. of views: 2,686,043

Message: The ability to feel connected is what makes us feel alive. Brené Brown teaches us that “shame” is the fear of disconnection, which results in our vulnerability.

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5. Simon Sinek shares the pattern of great leaders

No. of views: 3,348,336

Message: Simon Sinek shares how great leaders inspire others to take action.

6. Amy Cuddy: How your body language shapes who you are

No. of views: 4,974,714

Message: Amy Cuddy discusses the ways we use body language to change the way our life unfolds.

7. Sir Ken Robinson believes that schools are killing our creativity.

No. of views:  7,120,563

Message: Sir Ken Robinson discusses how children’s creativity is educated out of them. There needs to be an education system that nurtures (rather than undermines) creativity.

8. Angela Lee Duckworth defines the key to success in one small word

No. of views: 622,216

Message: Angela Lee Duckworth discusses how passion and perseverance can outweigh high IQs when it comes to success.

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9. Jane McGonigal promises to add 7.5 more minutes to your life

No. of views: 506,215

Message: Games can boost resilience, extend your lifespan and help avoid the five regrets of the dying, as Jane McGonigal explains in her talk.

10. David Pogue shares 10 simple, clever time saving tips for computer, web, smartphone and camera users.

No. of views: 475,454

Message: Save time to do more of what really matters to you. David Pogue shares his time-saving tips.

11. Alexander Tsiaras shares a powerful visualization of the human development.

No. of views: 1,674,559

Message: Alexander Tsiaras shares a powerful visualization of the development of the human body from conception.

12. Keith Barry shows how our brains can fool our bodies

No. of views: 3,059,461

Message: Our brains can be easily manipulated through the use of magic. Keith Barry shows us how.

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13. Shawn Achor shares the happy secret to better work

No. of views: 33,009

Message: Shawn gives a hilarious speech on the psychology of positivity and how happiness is what makes us work productively.

14. Pamela Meyer reveals how to spot a liar

No. of views: 4,217,711

Message: Honesty is a value worth preserving and recognizing. Pamela Meyer reveals tips and tricks on how to spot someone who isn’t telling the whole truth.

15. Elizabeth Gilbert believes that being a genius isn’t as rare as we believe

No. of views: 1,920,478

Message: Elizabeth Gilbert believes we all have a creative genius inside of us.

16. Dan Gilbert reveals the surprising science behind happiness

No. of views: 744,083

Message: We can feel truly happy even when things don’t go as planned, as Dan Gilbert explains in his TED talk.

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17. Tony Robbins discusses the invisible forces that inspires our action

No. of views: 744,083

Message: Emotion is the force of life. We have the ability to do things beyond ourselves. Tony Robbins explains more of this idea in his talk.

18. David Gallo shows jaw-dropping footage of the sea creatures of the deep

No. of views: 39,365

Message: More of our world should be investigated. You’ll be amazed at the footage David Gallo shows from the depths of the sea.

19. Susan Cain describes the secret power of introverts

No. of views: 3,381,559

Message: Introverts bring extraordinary talents and abilities to the world that should be celebrated. Susan Cain discusses in her talk what introverts bring to society.

20. Hans Rosling debunks myths about world development

No. of views: 1,219,945

Message: The U.S. may not be the best country in the world, and Hans Rosling tells the truths here.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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