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10 Things Only People Who Love Looking At The Sky Would Understand

10 Things Only People Who Love Looking At The Sky Would Understand

What do you see when you stare at the sky? Many fail to appreciate this breathtaking scenery enough, perhaps because there is no time afforded to them to stop and stare at the marvel and security above them. Here are some things those who can take a moment to pause and stare at the sky can understand.

1. You understand there are no boundaries

By staring at the sky, you find out that really there are no boundaries or limitations. You can see that there are no borders in space, time or gravity; that beyond this planet of ours there is a huge space of experiences unopened and unrevealed.

2. You are reminded of how small they are

Staring at the unknown yet massive sky with clouds rolling by, way past the trees and deep into the stars, you are reminded of how small they are. You know while you are inconsistent or uncertain, the sky and nature offers all the certainty and magnitude that is needed for the planet to keep on going.

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3. You can stare at and believe in beauty

What is above us is beautiful: the rainbows, the golden sun, the orange new moon and the stars all make the sky awesomely beautiful. In the sky you can conceal yourself in beauty, hope and solace.

4. You can find some perfection away from the world we are

According to Buddha, “When you realize how perfect everything is, you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky.”

When things around us look so unclear, fuzzy and disorderly, we can look above and see some awesomeness, magnificence and something to remind us that there can be a better direction in which you are going and things can turn out perfect.

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5. You are aware of their history

You know that to our present there is a past. The sky reminds us of our past and where we are coming from. When you stare at the sky you see a history of places and times before you. You can see beyond where you are right now and peer towards where you are coming from.

6. You can ask questions

Somehow the sky fills us with amazement and wonderment. Staring at the sky gears you to asking questions and watering your curiosity. Perhaps because you cannot get enough of it or because it always changes or because it is a door to a universe. While staring at the sky you just have to ask questions.

7. You can embrace freedom

Staring at the sky restores your hope and makes you connected to nature. Staring at the sky slows you down and offers you a choice and chance to take a deep breath to expand your soul and embrace freedom.

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8. You know the best things in life are free

It doesn’t cost anything to find that solace and peace the sky offers you. The serenity and beauty it gives doesn’t need to be paid for. Everyone in the world, everywhere, has access to this marvel and can enjoy its abundance of space.

9. You want to make a wish

Everything around is finite. But not the heavens or space. It captivates the viewer and adds to the mystery above us. Somewhere in between we wish we are a part of its journey and that the sky can offer us a way out and take us to somewhere unknown, perhaps opening a door to several more connections and journeys.

10. You are put in the right perspective

You can see things the way they are, real and pure. Beyond what we see on the media or what we are bombarded with by technology. Rather with the sky you can pu things in the right perspective and find some fun in doing this.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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