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10 Things Only People Who Love Looking At The Sky Would Understand

10 Things Only People Who Love Looking At The Sky Would Understand

What do you see when you stare at the sky? Many fail to appreciate this breathtaking scenery enough, perhaps because there is no time afforded to them to stop and stare at the marvel and security above them. Here are some things those who can take a moment to pause and stare at the sky can understand.

1. You understand there are no boundaries

By staring at the sky, you find out that really there are no boundaries or limitations. You can see that there are no borders in space, time or gravity; that beyond this planet of ours there is a huge space of experiences unopened and unrevealed.

2. You are reminded of how small they are

Staring at the unknown yet massive sky with clouds rolling by, way past the trees and deep into the stars, you are reminded of how small they are. You know while you are inconsistent or uncertain, the sky and nature offers all the certainty and magnitude that is needed for the planet to keep on going.

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3. You can stare at and believe in beauty

What is above us is beautiful: the rainbows, the golden sun, the orange new moon and the stars all make the sky awesomely beautiful. In the sky you can conceal yourself in beauty, hope and solace.

4. You can find some perfection away from the world we are

According to Buddha, “When you realize how perfect everything is, you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky.”

When things around us look so unclear, fuzzy and disorderly, we can look above and see some awesomeness, magnificence and something to remind us that there can be a better direction in which you are going and things can turn out perfect.

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5. You are aware of their history

You know that to our present there is a past. The sky reminds us of our past and where we are coming from. When you stare at the sky you see a history of places and times before you. You can see beyond where you are right now and peer towards where you are coming from.

6. You can ask questions

Somehow the sky fills us with amazement and wonderment. Staring at the sky gears you to asking questions and watering your curiosity. Perhaps because you cannot get enough of it or because it always changes or because it is a door to a universe. While staring at the sky you just have to ask questions.

7. You can embrace freedom

Staring at the sky restores your hope and makes you connected to nature. Staring at the sky slows you down and offers you a choice and chance to take a deep breath to expand your soul and embrace freedom.

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8. You know the best things in life are free

It doesn’t cost anything to find that solace and peace the sky offers you. The serenity and beauty it gives doesn’t need to be paid for. Everyone in the world, everywhere, has access to this marvel and can enjoy its abundance of space.

9. You want to make a wish

Everything around is finite. But not the heavens or space. It captivates the viewer and adds to the mystery above us. Somewhere in between we wish we are a part of its journey and that the sky can offer us a way out and take us to somewhere unknown, perhaps opening a door to several more connections and journeys.

10. You are put in the right perspective

You can see things the way they are, real and pure. Beyond what we see on the media or what we are bombarded with by technology. Rather with the sky you can pu things in the right perspective and find some fun in doing this.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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