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Firefighters Help Dying Man Fulfill His Final Wish, The Story Behind Is Amazing

Firefighters Help Dying Man Fulfill His Final Wish, The Story Behind Is Amazing

When we grow up as young men, we develop bold and aspirational goals that will shape our future destiny. These can relate to both our personal and professional lives, whether you want to follow the time-honoured tradition of saving three months’ wages to buy your loved one an engagement ring or wish to build a business that will change the lives of millions.

Former forest ranger Edward Reis probably held many of these aspirations himself during his youth, before fate struck a cruel blow and left him suffering from multiple sclerosis (MS). This aggressive illness left him bedridden, forcing him to leave his home and move into a hospice in Washington. Not only this, but the illness also changed his perspective on life, forcing him to realign his goals and expectations.

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How the Snomish County Fire District Made a Dying Dream Come True

Gradually Reis’ condition became terminal, but this did little to dampen his spirit and love of the great outdoors. Passionate about the natural world, Reis discovered that he had an overwhelming desire to go outside just one more time, before his time came to pass. He shared this with a registered nurse by the name of Leigh Gardner, who was a nurse at the hospice and whom Reis had struck up a close and lasting bond.

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    After a brief discussion Leigh, who described Reis as a ‘gentle soul’, visited her hospice chaplain that her patient wanted to go outside one, final time. He shared her belief that they should make this happen, so they contacted the local Snomish Country Fire District and implored them to help making a dying man’s wish come true.

    They, of course, were only too keen to make this happen, an on March 26th, 2014, a team of firefighters arrived on-mass at the Evergreen Hospice and helped Reis onto their truck. From here, they took him on an emotional, three-hour excursion to Meadowdale Beach Park in Edmonds, WA, granting his final wish as he was led across numerous trails, allowed to take in the fresh, spring air and left awe-struck by the sound of chirping birds. And with this, a loving and passionate soul had been restored, as its one, final wish came to pass.

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      How Reis Touched Hearts and Lives Across the Globe

      Little is known about Reis’ personal life, such as whether he ever experienced the joys of marriage or parenthood. After his last outdoor adventure, however, the firefighters who had accompanied Reis became his family, often visiting him as his life began to ebb away. It was not long afterwards that Reis finally passed, with his heart full of happiness and his final wish fulfilled.

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      While this story has touched millions across the globe and reinforces the spirit of generosity that exists within us all, it is also a warning to enjoy life and make the most of every single day. Remember, while your goals an aspirations may change as you get older, you must always strive to make your dreams a reality and your life as memorable as possible.

      Featured photo credit: Little Things via littlethings.com

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      Last Updated on January 21, 2020

      How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

      How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

      If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

      Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

      So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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      1. Listen

      Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

      2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

      Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

      “Why do you want to do that?”

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      “What makes you so excited about it?”

      “How long has that been your dream?”

      You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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      3. Encourage

      This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

      4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

      After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

      5. Dream

      This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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      6. Ask How You Can Help

      Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

      7. Follow Up

      Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

      Final Thoughts

      By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

      Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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