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Last Updated on May 6, 2022

How to Start Setting Intentions That Set You up for Success

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How to Start Setting Intentions That Set You up for Success

My body feels tight, and my muscles are sore from sitting hunched over my computer as I write.

“I really need to exercise more,” I think as I feel the tension in my shoulders, “and I need to get in better shape.” We all have those things that don’t match up with how we think our lives should be, where setting intentions would be wildly beneficial.

While our instinct might be to put something on our to-do list and muscle our way through making changes (often beating ourselves up with self-judgment when we fail), this rarely works.

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.” –Carl G. Jung

Making a change requires self-compassion and setting intentions that set us up for success.

How Intentions Really Work

Imagine you have a problem in some area of your life where you would like to act differently.

While it might seem counter-intuitive, when setting intentions for success, it’s important to consider why things are the way they are right now.

Assuming that your unconscious mind is always working for your highest good, what benefit might you gain from not getting what you think you want?

While it might not always seem like it, we always have a positive underlying reason for doing what we do, even behaviors that aren’t so good for us.

Ask yourself, “What is a positive reason my unconscious mind might want me to continue this unwanted behavior?” The answers are always personal and different for each of us.

In the case of my own exercise problem (or lack of exercise), when I asked this question, I realized my unconscious mind might be seeing exercise as in direct opposition to my writing.

I had newly freed up a lot more space to write, and I was coveting it. From an outside perspective, it might have seemed obvious that there was enough time to both write and exercise. However, I had a feeling my unconscious mind saw time spent exercising as threatening to this other habit that was also in the interest of my well-being.

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Writing was good for my soul, and finding time to do it more often was something I had only recently worked back into my life. Therefore, I needed to come up with a new intention that encompassed both of my needs.

In addition, if you want to learn about the difference between intentions and goals, check out this video:

How to Create a New Intention for Success

I like to think of the intentions we consciously choose for our lives as a big safety net, a foundation arching under us, holding our energy, making sure we don’t fall too far from where we want our lives to go.

The more we spend time setting intensions with purpose, the more successful we become in achieving our desired outcomes.

Integrating the combined power of our unconscious and conscious minds ensures that we channel all our resources—our full self—when it comes to manifesting change.

I have recorded an audio-meditation and checklist to accompany this article, just for Lifehack.org readers, to help you take the information in this article even deeper. You can get your free copy of these tools on my website at LaurieSmith.com.

10 Steps for Setting Intentions

The following ten-step process is something I call an Activation Meditation(TM), which I developed and have been using in workshops and private sessions with my clients for several decades.

Activation Meditations(TM) are designed to help you access your own intuitive wisdom and direct your own transformation.

Activation Meditations(TM) incorporate the latest in neuroscience research, NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP), Ericksonian hypnotherapy, energy medicine, creative visualization, and meditation techniques to help people activate their own power within to create deep and lasting change.

1. Ask Yourself: What’s Not Working?

In my case, sitting for hours at my computer without taking breaks or moving my body more was not working. When you’re going to start setting intentions, there needs to be something that you’re aiming to change. This comes from what isn’t working for you in your life right now.

2. Imagine: How Do You Want To Feel Instead?

I wanted to feel more relaxed, strong, and to have better posture.

Once you have found your new intention, turn it into an affirmation. An affirmation is written in the first person and present tense. It often begins with “I am” (for example, “I am strong and relaxed”).

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3. Check in With Your Intuition

What is your gut instinct telling you about the intention you have chosen? Our intuition is communicating with us all of the time through our bodies.

Is your new intention what you really want, and how do you know? How does this new intention make you feel?

It’s important to listen to our intuition since our intentions are so personal.

In my example regarding trying to exercise more, when I checked the intention “I am strong and relaxed” with my intuition, I didn’t get that feeling in my gut that to me means a definite YES.

When I asked myself what might be an even better intention, the word “open” popped into my mind.

Previously, I believed that there wasn’t enough open time on my schedule to exercise. My muscles were tight, which meant there wasn’t enough open space in my body.

Even though it might not have seemed related to my desire to exercise at first glance, for me the phrase “I am open” was a perfect choice for my new intention.

4. Imagine a Symbol That Represents the Way You Want to Feel

This is a step most people skip and is perhaps the most powerful one when setting intentions.

As psychologists Carl Jung and Freud both discussed in their work[1], the unconscious mind communicates with us in symbols.[2]

Using symbols can help accelerate our changes and make them stick. When seeking a symbol that represents your intention, trust whatever you come up with.

Research shows visualizing is even more effective when we access all of our senses.[3]

If your symbol had a sound, smell, taste, or feeling associated with it, what might those be? Is it dark or light? Is it large or small? (There are no right answers, so trust whatever first pops into your head.)

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People see all kinds of different symbols when doing this exercise. Your symbol might be an object, an image, a color, a sign, something you have seen before, or something new you created in your imagination. Some people don’t visualize easily and instead might just feel a feeling or associate their intention with a word or phrase, sound or scent.

The symbol I saw was a spot of sparkling white light with a few colors speckled in. It was expansive and silent, calm yet energetic. This is the way I wanted my body, my life, and my inner spirit to feel as a result of exercising.

5. Visualize Your Symbol in Your Heart

Imagine bringing the symbol that represents your new intention to the top of your head. Then, imagine bringing it down through the crown of your head through your body and into your heart.

You can do this very quickly by simply closing your eyes or in the form of a longer meditation.

6. Choose an Aligned Action

While still in a relaxed state, ask yourself: “What is an action step I can make to manifest my intention?”

Having an action plan is essential to acting on intentions and turning them into goals later. Choose several small, possible steps you can take in the coming weeks and months.

For me, the action step I thought of was to stretch more often. More than anything, I realized my body needed to stretch more throughout the day, especially after long periods of writing. Interestingly, stretching also helps muscles grow and relax, literally helping the body become more open and expansive, which was my intention.

7. Connect Your Action With an Existing Habit

What is a habit you already have that makes you feel the same way?

The idea is to start slowly and build upon areas where you are already experiencing success. Instead of finding a new window on your calendar to add a new habit in, add it to something you already do.

For example, I decided every time I sat down or stood up from my computer or notebook, I would take a few minutes to stretch.

8. Brainstorm More Ideas

After setting intentions, brainstorm new ways you can integrate your new intention into your life. As you do, imagine your symbol. This will help bypass any inner resistance you might have to the new behavior.

Brainstorming helped me to come up with many other creative ways to work small sessions of exercise into my day. I realized hiking could be a great time for coming up with new ideas for my writing.

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By continually building on the success I had already experienced with my writing, I allowed my two positive habits to support each other, rather than being in opposition to my unconscious mind. As a result, I retrained my mind to see exercise as improving my writing practice, rather than being in a separate compartment of my life.

9. Connect With Your Symbol and Intention Often

Imagine your symbol and repeat your affirmation/intention to yourself when you first wake up and right before you fall asleep. Research shows focusing on our intentions before sleeping can increase our ability to achieve our desired outcomes.[4]

Imagine your symbol as you go through the actions of your day. This increases the chance that your intention will expand and positively affect other aspects of your life, as well.

10. Check In and Celebrate Successes

Check in with yourself at the end of the day to see how well you’ve done.

Celebrate your successes, and use periodic check-ins. Consider creating a ritual where you check in with yourself in the morning and before sleep, at the same time imagining your symbol and repeating your affirmation.

This can help you keep your momentum going and help you find new ways to fine-tune the way you are integrating your intention into your life.

Final Thoughts

Our intuition is the key to setting intentions and making them successful.

As you go through all these steps, experiment and discover ideas that work for you. Remember, you have within you the wisdom and positive energy that is always striving to help you create whatever is in your highest good.

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