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Happiness Is Indeed A Choice. With These 3 Habits You’ll Become A Totally Different Person

Happiness Is Indeed A Choice. With These 3 Habits You’ll Become A Totally Different Person

If you’re unhappy, you probably know it. So, what have you done to change it? Rather than taking a proactive approach much of us fall into self-pity, venting, and complaining. Sometimes it makes us feel a little better, but does in help? Not really. If you really want to make changes in your life then you need to start by developing daily practices and good habits.

Build Your Confidence Daily

What do you do when you get up in the morning? Do you get up, make yourself a cup of coffee then turn on the news? How do you feel after you watch a barrage of depressing and anxiety-inducing reports? Perhaps consider replacing your morning habit with something more positive. The News waited all night for you, so don’t worry, it can wait a little longer.

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Try reading a chapter from an empowering book, something that will make you feel confident and unafraid to face your day. It can be a practical self-help book, beautiful inspirational quotes, or something out of your favorite spiritual material; it doesn’t matter so long as it makes you feel good. If you drive to work early, make it an audiobook. Your co-workers will notice as you light up the day with a smile and a positive attitude!

Let go of the Things out of Your Control

It’s pointless to worry about the things that are in the far distant future. The habit just stresses you out. Have you ever noticed that the future rarely turns out like you expect but generally it’s not so bad?

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Instead of trying to control the things that you cannot, focus on measuring your smaller achievements. For example, if you’re a ballerina don’t focus all of your energies hoping you’ll someday star in a world renowned performance of “Swan Lake” try to notice the improvements you’re making each day in your routine and the efforts you’re making to be a part of other shows. You’ll feel happier and more motivated and you’ll actually be far more likely to achieve your dreams someday.

Reflect on Your Day

What do you do at the end of each day? Watch some TV, have a glass of wine, and go to sleep? Do you make every effort to forget about a stressful day? That’s understandable. In fact, it’s what most people do! But you may consider trying something a little different.

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Good or bad, each day is an important learning and self-improvement tool. Each day carries with it things we are proud of, glad about, and things that we wish we could have done differently. At the end of each day, try considering your day objectively. Think about what you did well and about the mistakes you made. What changes would you make if you could?

View life as a learning experience and it’ll seem far less intimidating. Each day is a new opportunity to put the things we learn into action! If you allow yourself time to reflect daily, you may find that you have changed the way you approach problems. You may also find yourself feeling a good deal more satisfied with your life.

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Don’t wait until tomorrow to start making your head a happier place to be in! The only person who can limit your happiness is you. Making simple changes in your life can have dramatic effects on your happiness and well-being. As you make them, you won’t just become a happier, better person; you’ll also attract more positive people and things in your life and positively affect the people around you. Who knows how many days you can brighten!

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Last Updated on February 18, 2019

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

The ability to reinvent and redefine yourself is a bold, daring and purposeful choice. It doesn’t just happen. You have to make a conscious, intentional choice and then follow through.

If the thought of forging a new path, changing habits, thought patterns and your inner circle of friends scares you – you’re not alone. Change can be a very scary thing. It takes courage, fortitude and a bit of faith to decide to shed your old self and don a new persona. However, it is one of the most critical processes one must repeatedly endure in the pursuit of destiny. Change unlocks new levels of potential.

The Need for Change

Everyday when we wake up, we make a decision. We decide to follow our routine or we decide to go off script and shake things up a bit. For those who are creatures of habit, routine is comfortable, easy and produces very little stress. The problem with this is, after a while you stop growing.

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We all reinvent ourselves at some point in our lives. It is absolutely necessary to achieve certain levels of success.

Reflect back on who you were as a teenager and then who you were at 25. Those are two very different people. Most of us are completely different. Your thought patterns changed, your appearance, job, level of education and even your friends– changed. We like to refer to this as “growing up” or maturing and consider it to be one of life’s natural progressions. However the changes you made were purposeful and deliberate.

This process must be a lifelong and continuous cycle. You are never too old to refresh yourself.

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    Signs It’s Time to Redefine

    “Just as established products and brands need updating to stay alive and vibrant, you periodically need to refresh or reinvent yourself.”– Mireille Guiliano

    So how do you know when it’s time for a system upgrade? There are signs along the way that alert you that it is time for an overhaul. The first sign is the feeling of being stuck. If you feel like you are in a rut, you’re bored with life or you need some newness and excitement, a self reinvention may be in order. Re-evaluate your life vision and your goals. Is that vision still valid and are your goals consistent with your vision and–are they achievable? If you are off course, it’s time for a change. If you are not moving forward and making progress, it’s time for a change.

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    In life, there’s no such thing as neutrality–you’re either moving forward or you are moving backward. Time constantly moves forward and if you are standing still, you are actually losing ground. No matter your age or stage in life– there is always room for improvement.

    “You’re never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream.” ~C. S. Lewis

    The second sign that you are due for a change is the occurrence of major life events in which change is forced upon you. Getting married, starting a new job, being promoted, ending a relationship, becoming a parenting or relocating are all prime opportunities to completely overhaul your life.

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    When these major shifts occur in your life–you have to shift with them. You can’t have a single mentality and have a successful marriage. You can’t remain selfish and irresponsible, and raise a healthy, well-adjusted child. You can’t be promoted to a supervisory position and keep the same subordinate attitude. Each level of success requires something different from you.

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      Consider, for a moment, Arnold Schwarzenegger. People may have different opinions about his character and some of his life choices, but he is a master at reinventing himself. He achieved the ultimate success as a professional body builder by earning the title “Mr. Universe” three times. He then earned a tremendous amount of fame and fortune in the entertainment industry making action/adventure films. And in his latest role, he served two terms as the Governor of California. He succeeded as a professional body builder, a film star and a politician. Each role required massive amounts of change, commitment, strength and hard work.

      And if Arnold can do it…so can you!

      Featured photo credit: BK via flickr.com

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