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To Live a Much More Fulfilling Life, Aim at Self Actualization

To Live a Much More Fulfilling Life, Aim at Self Actualization
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What makes it so difficult for people to accept who they really are? In a simple word, let me say pressure. There is so much pressure in this 21st Century of ours especially in today’s hyper-competitive and hyper-informed society for people to call themselves something they’re not.

As Abraham Maslow highlighted, we all follow our own paths, it matters only how completely we dedicate ourselves to reaching the personal and psychological greatness that is placed at the top. For the top of the self-acceptance pyramid lies the concept of self-actualization.

With self-actualization, you achieve expert control of your imagination, spontaneity, and problem-solving skills. You have assumed a comfortable and sensible values. You operate with the ability to separate truth from fiction, while reducing prejudice. It is, in its own way, the clearest definition of what it takes to be enlightened as a person and as a business owner.

The first part of self-actualization is accepting your true self, but the second part is understanding that the journey has no end point. To self-actualize, you should always make an effort to expand your dream as a human being. To achieve success, you must always seek it. The dream to self-actualize is something that lies within all of us[1]. You must only make her willing to progress and then take the steps necessary to unlock that self-actualization. Having explained this, here are four important steps to consider on your path to self-actualization:

Avoid measuring yourself with others.

Many people have the tendency to measure our self-worth by comparing our accomplishments and skills to those of the people around all of us. If you want to observe how you’re doing, the easiest way is to see how you measure with your alternatives. It is the definite way to demonstrate how long along are you in relation to reaching success.

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Also, self-actualization doesn’t have everything to do with the people who are around you. Notice the word “self” part of the term. The only thing that matters is your progress, not the improvement of others. If you hope to self-actualize or at least get on the way to self-actualization you must stop gauging yourselves against other people’s accomplishments.

Figure out how to agree to yourself holistically.

It’s so easy to become disappointed with who you are and what you have accomplished. Oftentimes, when you look in the reflection, it actually serves to raise the negativity with which you think about yourself. You can not fall into that trap. To access self-actualization, you must accept your personality, your strengths and weaknesses, then you must embrace them all. You cannot downplay your weaknesses or exaggerate your strengths if you wish to get anywhere in life.

Don’t stop, just keep growing.

Those who self-actualize realize that the journey is never over. To self-actualize requires self-awareness and self-awareness requires a comprehension that there is no such thing as a finished product. Generally, there is no such thing as perfection with no such thing as an endgame. To be self-actualized methods to understand that you must never stop growing as a person and learning as a professional.

To obtain self-actualization, when you get over one thing, you must begin the next. Self-actualization does not require any tricks or tools. To reach this level, you will need only to accept who you are and then take those steps necessary to becoming the best version of you that you can be.

If perhaps you would like to do this highest level of personal development, Maslow has trained us that you have some effective methods that will permit you to reach self-actualization:

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Experience life vividly to the maximum

Maslow taught us that the process of self-actualization commences when we learn to become completely immersed in our experience – living totally, vividly and selflessly.

Make your life choices with honesty

Think of life as a series of choices, one after another. If you are being truthful with yourself as you make the options, then you are on the right way to being self-actualized.

Know who you are without others shaping your own self

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As you realize that you are unique and get started to learn how to express yourself along with your feelings truthfully, alternatively than reflect what you believe others want you to do or say, then you are recorded the right path.

Be accountable with your own actions

If you have a choice, take action in a way that is honest and true to your nature. As you may take responsibility for your own actions you will be working on the way to self-actualization.

Have the courage to speak up in all situations

Figure out how to have the courage to exhibit your likes and disfavors and speak up if someone’s actions are certainly not desirable to you.

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Understand that it is a journey to reach your goals.

Becoming self-actualized is rather than an end-state, rather it is a process. Maslow spoken about it being the process by which you ‘are working to do well the thing that one wants to do’.

Engage in activities that make you feel completely peaceful and satisfied

Maslow talked a lot about ‘peak experiences’, describing them as ‘transient occasions of self-actualization’. These activities are times that you feel truly at peace and in harmony with your environment and the universe and are marked with a feeling of euphoria and deep joy.

Get rid of those ego defense mechanisms

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Learning to let go of troublesome defense mechanisms that you may use to protect yourself is a necessary part of the process. For example, if you have a tendency to blame your partner for your frustrations or to become angry when things do not go your way, then learning to react in another type of manner is part to become self-actualized.

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20 Amazing Facts About Dreams that You Might Not Know About

20 Amazing Facts About Dreams that You Might Not Know About
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Dreams — Mysterious, bewildering, eye-opening and sometimes a nightmarish living hell. Dreams are all that and much more.

Here are 20 amazing facts about dreams that you might have never heard about:

Fact #1: You can’t read while dreaming, or tell the time

    If you are unsure whether you are dreaming or not, try reading something. The vast majority of people are incapable of reading in their dreams.

    The same goes for clocks: each time you look at a clock it will tell a different time and the hands on the clock won’t appear to be moving as reported by lucid dreamers.

    Fact #2: Lucid dreaming

    There is a whole subculture of people practicing what is called lucid or conscious dreaming. Using various techniques, these people have supposedly learned to assume control of their dreams and do amazing things like flying, passing through walls, and traveling to different dimensions or even back in time.

    Want to learn how to control your dreams? You can try these tips:

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    Lucid Dreaming: This Is How You Can Control Your Dreams

    Fact #3: Inventions inspired by dreams

    Dreams are responsible for many of the greatest inventions of mankind. A few examples include:

    • The idea for Google -Larry Page
    • Alternating current generator -Tesla
    • DNA’s double helix spiral form -James Watson
    • The sewing machine -Elias Howe
    • Periodic table -Dimitri Mendeleyev

    …and many, many more.

    Fact #4: Premonition dreams

    There are some astounding cases where people actually dreamt about things which happened to them later, in the exact same ways they dreamed about.

    You could say they got a glimpse of the future, or it might have just been coincidence. The fact remains that this is some seriously interesting and bizarre phenomena. Some of the most famous premonition dreams include:

    • Abraham Lincoln dreamt of His Assassination
    • Many of the victims of 9/11 had dreams warning them about the catastrophe
    • Mark Twain’s dream of his brother’s demise
    • 19 verified precognitive dreams about the Titanic catastrophe

    Fact #5: Sleep paralysis

    Hell is real and it is called sleep paralysis. It’s the stuff of true nightmares. I’ve been a sleep paralysis sufferer as a kid and I can attest to how truly horrible it is.

    Two characteristics of sleep paralysis are the inability to move (hence paralysis) and a sense of an extremely evil presence in the room with you. It doesn’t feel like a dream, but 100% real. Studies show that during an attack, sleep paralysis sufferers show an overwhelming amygdala activity. The amygdala is responsible for the “fight or flight” instinct and the emotions of fear, terror and anxiety. Enough said!

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    Fact #6: REM sleep disorder

    In the state of REM (rapid-eye-movement) stage of your sleep your body is normally paralyzed. In rare cases, however, people act out their dreams. These have resulted in broken arms, legs, broken furniture, and in at least one reported case, a house burnt down.

    Fact #7: Sexual dreams

    The very scientifically-named “nocturnal penile tumescence” is a very well documented phenomena. In laymen’s term, it simply means that you get a stiffy while you sleep. Actually, studies indicate that men get up to 20 erections per dream.

    Fact #8: Unbelievable sleepwalkers

      Sleepwalking is a very rare and potentially dangerous sleep disorder. It is an extreme form of REM sleep disorder, and these people don’t just act out their dreams, but go on real adventures at night.

      Lee Hadwin is a nurse by profession, but in his dreams he is an artist. Literally. He “sleepdraws” gorgeous portraits, of which he has no recollection afterwards. Strange sleepwalking “adventures” include:

      • A woman having sex with strangers while sleepwalking
      • A man who drove 22 miles and killed his cousin while sleepwalking
      • A sleepwalker who walked out of the window from the third floor, and barely survived

      Fact #9: Dream drug

      There are actually people who like dreaming and dreams so much that they never want to wake up. They want to continue on dreaming even during the day, so they take an illegal and extremely potent hallucinogenic drug called Dimethyltryptamine. It is actually only an isolated and synthetic form of the chemical our brains produce naturally during dreaming.

      Fact #10 Dream-catcher

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        The dream-catcher is one of the most well-known Native American symbols. It is a loose web or webs woven around a hoop and decorated with sacred objects meant to protect against nightmares.

        Fact #11: Increased brain activity

        You would associate sleeping with peace and quiet, but actually our brains are more active during sleep than during the day.

        Fact #12: Creativity and dreams

        As we mentioned before, dreams are responsible for inventions, great artworks and are generally just incredibly interesting. They are also “recharging” our creativity.

        Scientists also say that keeping a dream diary helps with creativity.

        In rare cases of REM disorder, people actually don’t dream at all. These people suffer from significantly decreased creativity and perform badly at tasks requiring creative problem solving.

        Fact #13: Pets dream too

          Our animal companions dream as well. Watch a dog or a cat sleep and you can see that they are moving their paws and making noises like they were chasing something. Go get ’em buddy!

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          Fact #14: You always dream—you just don’t remember it

          Many people claim that they don’t dream at all, but that’s not true: we all dream, but up to 60% of people don’t remember their dreams at all.

          Fact #15: Blind people dream too

          Blind people who were not born blind see images in their dreams but people who were born blind don’t see anything at all. They still dream, and their dreams are just as intense and interesting, but they involve the other senses beside sight.

          Fact #16: In your dreams, you only see faces that you already know

            It is proven that in dreams, we can only see faces that we have seen in real life before. So beware: that scary-looking old lady next to you on the bus might as well be in your next nightmare.

            Fact #17: Dreams tend to be negative

            Surprisingly, dreams are more often negative than positive. The three most widely reported emotions felt during dreaming are anger, sadness and fear.

            Fact #18: Multiple dreams per night

            You can have up to seven different dreams per night depending on how many REM cycles you have. We only dream during the REM period of sleep, and the average person dreams one to two hours every night.

            Fact #19: Gender differences

            Interestingly, 70% of all the characters in a man’s dream are other men, but women’s dream contain an equal amount of women and men. Also men’s dreams contain a lot more aggression. Both women and men dream about sexual themes equally often.

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            Fact #20: Not everyone dreams in color

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