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Building A Habit Will Be A Lot Less Painful With These 4 Simple Techniques

Building A Habit Will Be A Lot Less Painful With These 4 Simple Techniques

New Year’s has come and gone again and left you with the same goal as last year: develop a healthy exercise routine. Somehow between January 1st and March 1st, you tend to fizzle out and go back to your sedentary ways. Before you give up on your goal this year, consider using these four methods to keep yourself on track.

Develop Rituals

Most of us have trouble developing new habits because we don’t give ourselves exciting reasons why we need to change. If our only reason for exercising is to vaguely “feel better” or “look better” or “avoid people’s judgments,” we are unlikely to take action.

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Rituals help us come up with reasons for our new habit that will keep us motivated. According to the motivational website, Create Alchemy, rituals involve at least three out of six key areas in our lives. Create Alchemy describes these six areas as “mind, body, soul/spirit, nature, relationships, and passions.” The more areas of your life you incorporate them into your new habit, the more likely the habit will stick.[1]

Since exercise naturally involves your body, you already have one area down. To add “mind” to the mix, try listening to an audiobook or podcast while you are exercising. You can also find an exercise buddy, which will add the “relationship” area. Now you have included three life areas in your new habit, giving you even more reason to stay on track. 

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Create Triggers

Another great way to prime yourself for success when starting a new habit is to use triggers. These can be behaviors or activities you already do. For instance, most people have some kind of regular morning routine. You may get up, brush your teeth, and make a cup of tea. You can use one of these steps as a stimulus or “trigger” that will remind you to exercise.[2]

The most important thing to keep in mind when using triggers is to be consistent. If you want to use finishing your cup of tea as a trigger for your new exercise habit, make sure you start putting on your shoes or walking out the door as soon as you wash your empty cup. You want to train your mind and body that finishing your tea means start exercising. If you keep up this pattern consistently, within a few weeks you won’t even have to think about your new habit. Just like you wouldn’t leave the house without brushing your teeth, you now won’t “feel right” unless you exercise after finishing your tea. After all, brushing your teeth is just a habit!

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Share Your Goal with Others

Sharing your goal with others will force you to define your goal in specific terms and will also provide accountability. Once you tell someone else that you plan to start a new exercise routine, that person will likely check in with you next time you see him/her. He/She will be curious to see if you have been working toward your goal and may be disappointed if you have not.[3] Sometimes, just anticipating that conversation with another person is enough to make you follow through.

Make Your Habit into a Game

If you still need an extra boost that will inspire you to take action, try making your new habit into a game. Set up a system of rewards that you will give yourself if you achieve specific goals. Using a point system can also be helpful. For instance, you may give yourself ten points for running one mile and twenty points for fifteen minutes of strength training. As rewards, choose activities, experiences, and things you enjoy. Then, assign each reward a point value and give yourself the reward whenever you earn enough points.[4]

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Many people struggle to start new habits, but this does not have to be you! Just adopt some of these simple strategies to stay motivated. You may want to rotate these strategies to add variety or use them all at once to break through to the next level. Either way, you will experience the exhilaration of success as you follow through on your new goal. When the next New Year rolls around, you will be eager to celebrate your achievements and challenge yourself to even greater goals in the year to come.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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