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How to Get Your Child Support Lowered

How to Get Your Child Support Lowered

Payments of child support can only be modified at the court’s discretion whether it is going up or down. To have payments decreased, you will have to prove that the financial situation of one or both of the parents has changed dramatically. Read carefully and plan your case according to your situation regarding your payments.

Request a Modification

At any given time, a parent has the right to have their child support reviewed and modified if needed. A “downward modification” is when child support is requested to be lowered. Many times, the state will not modify child support with no basis, you will need to have proof that justifies your request for a lower financial obligation. Extenuating circumstances would be things like the loss of a job, sudden disability, a new minor dependent, or the sudden loss of a job. Beware, though, that the court can deny the request if you do not provide sufficient exculpatory circumstances.

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Speak to the Other Parent

During a divorce emotions are all over the place and many times, the parents are not willing to communicate with each other. It is vital to remember that the court system likes it when two parents are willing to work out an arrangement with each other, and sometimes this includes a downward modification. If you don’t have a decrease in income but have an added expense, try to talk to the other parent and offer to help in another way in exchange for a reduction that is mutually agreed upon. This may be taking up more responsibilities during the week or being at the mercy of the other parent when they need care for the child. Whatever the agreement is, it will need to be notarized and presented to a judge or a hearing officer.

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If it is not possible to have the other parent agree with lowering the payments, propose the suspension of payments until your circumstances change and you are able to begin paying the full payments again.

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Provide Evidence for Your Change of Circumstances and Filing a Petition

What will you need in order to successfully lower the payments? Gather up your recent pay stubs or other evidence of your income if you are self-employed. If your familiar obligations have changed (like the birth of a child) provide evidence for this. If you have become disabled, collect your medical records. For instance, Beyoncé’s father had his payments lowered by about $9500 per month, in order to better fit his financial situation. If you believe you are paying more than what is required in other ways, like school tuition or medical insurance, this could qualify as substantial. When this has been gathered, you will need to file a petition with the court. Most courts have fairly simple forms that are basically fill in the blank. Some will as for a financial affidavit. You will also need to provide sufficient notice to the other parent. The easiest thing to do is to have the sheriff serve the papers to them for a fee.

Terminating Support Completely

In certain situations, the court will actually terminate the financial obligations of a parent. If you have no income, if you are going to be incarcerated, and if the child reaches the age of majority. On the other hand, your obligation for paying child support will be terminated if you obtain custody of the child. This will include filing a petition that outlines the change in circumstances, thus convincing the judge to grant you custody, and sometimes the assistance of an attorney is needed.

Often times, when parents get a divorce and custody, support is not split absolutely half and half – one of the parents will end up paying child support monthly. In some cases, the parent is not able to make the payments or feels that the payments need to be lowered. When the appropriate steps are taken, it is possible to have the payments lowered to an amount that is more sustainable.

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Last Updated on July 18, 2019

10 Small Changes To Make Your House Feel Like A Home

10 Small Changes To Make Your House Feel Like A Home

Your house is more than just a building that you live in. It should be a home that makes you feel welcome as soon as you open the front door.

Making your house feel like a home is not something that simply happens on its own. You need to make some changes to a house when you move in, to give it that cozy, warm feeling that turns it into a true home. To help you speed the process, follow this guide to 10 small changes to make your house feel like a home.

1. Make the Windows Your Own

When you move into a home, they often come with boring Venetian blinds or less than attractive curtains.

One of the best ways you can instantly warm your home and make it showcase your style is to add some new window dressing. Adding beautiful curtains not only improves your home’s appearance, but it can also help to control the temperature.

2. Put up Some Art

If you have a lot of bare walls in your home, it will seem sterile no matter how beautiful your paint or wallpaper is.

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Hanging art on the walls will instantly give it personality and make it feel like home.

3. Improve the Aroma

A house that is not filled with inviting smells will never feel like a home. There are loads of ways you can make your home smell nice. There are tons of air fresheners on the market you can use.

Incense and scented candles are a nice option as well. Don’t forget that baking in a home is also a great way to fill it with an aroma that instantly smells like home as soon as you open the front door.

4. Put out Lots of Pillows and Throws

A great way to make your home look warm and inviting is to place lots of pillows and throws out on the furniture. It is much better to have too many pillows than not enough.

There is nothing like the feeling of sinking into a cushiony pillow that feels like a cloud to make you feel like you are at home.

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5. Instantly Class up Your Closet

If your closet is filled with wire or plastic hangers, it will never truly feel homey. To instantly make your closet feel classy, change out your old hangers for wooden ones.

Not only do they look great, but they are better for hanging your clothes as well.

6. Improve Your Air Quality

One of the most overlooked ways to make your house feel more like a home is to improve its air quality.

The easiest and best way to upgrade the air quality in your home is to change the old, dirty filters in your furnace regularly. Get some air filters delivered to your home so that you always have some on hand.

7. Fill it with Plants

Another way to improve the air quality in your home is to fill it with plants. You should have plants in every room of your home.

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They help to improve the air quality and they look beautiful. As well as making your home appear homier, plants also help to boost your mood and lower your stress levels.

8. Change the Doorknobs

Most people don’t really give their doorknobs a second thought unless they are broken. That is a shame because changing your doorknobs is an easy way to add personality to your home.

Changing your old, boring doorknobs to new ones that are works of art will instantly brighten your home.

9. Upgrade Your Tub or Shower

There is nothing like luxuriating in a whirlpool bath or steam shower to make the cares of the day melt away. Your family deserves a bit of luxury when they are in their bathroom.

Install a new shower or tub today to make your bathroom worthy of a place in your home.

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10. Fresh Cut Flowers

You can make any room in your house feel homier by placing a vase full of beautiful flowers in it. The gorgeous look and intoxicating aroma of fresh cut flowers will immediately brighten your day when you encounter them.

You don’t have to make all these changes at once. Try one or two a day though, and your house will feel like a home before you know it. The trick is to constantly keep adding these homey touches to make your home a place worthy of its name.

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