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How to Get Your Child Support Lowered

How to Get Your Child Support Lowered

Payments of child support can only be modified at the court’s discretion whether it is going up or down. To have payments decreased, you will have to prove that the financial situation of one or both of the parents has changed dramatically. Read carefully and plan your case according to your situation regarding your payments.

Request a Modification

At any given time, a parent has the right to have their child support reviewed and modified if needed. A “downward modification” is when child support is requested to be lowered. Many times, the state will not modify child support with no basis, you will need to have proof that justifies your request for a lower financial obligation. Extenuating circumstances would be things like the loss of a job, sudden disability, a new minor dependent, or the sudden loss of a job. Beware, though, that the court can deny the request if you do not provide sufficient exculpatory circumstances.

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Speak to the Other Parent

During a divorce emotions are all over the place and many times, the parents are not willing to communicate with each other. It is vital to remember that the court system likes it when two parents are willing to work out an arrangement with each other, and sometimes this includes a downward modification. If you don’t have a decrease in income but have an added expense, try to talk to the other parent and offer to help in another way in exchange for a reduction that is mutually agreed upon. This may be taking up more responsibilities during the week or being at the mercy of the other parent when they need care for the child. Whatever the agreement is, it will need to be notarized and presented to a judge or a hearing officer.

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If it is not possible to have the other parent agree with lowering the payments, propose the suspension of payments until your circumstances change and you are able to begin paying the full payments again.

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Provide Evidence for Your Change of Circumstances and Filing a Petition

What will you need in order to successfully lower the payments? Gather up your recent pay stubs or other evidence of your income if you are self-employed. If your familiar obligations have changed (like the birth of a child) provide evidence for this. If you have become disabled, collect your medical records. For instance, Beyoncé’s father had his payments lowered by about $9500 per month, in order to better fit his financial situation. If you believe you are paying more than what is required in other ways, like school tuition or medical insurance, this could qualify as substantial. When this has been gathered, you will need to file a petition with the court. Most courts have fairly simple forms that are basically fill in the blank. Some will as for a financial affidavit. You will also need to provide sufficient notice to the other parent. The easiest thing to do is to have the sheriff serve the papers to them for a fee.

Terminating Support Completely

In certain situations, the court will actually terminate the financial obligations of a parent. If you have no income, if you are going to be incarcerated, and if the child reaches the age of majority. On the other hand, your obligation for paying child support will be terminated if you obtain custody of the child. This will include filing a petition that outlines the change in circumstances, thus convincing the judge to grant you custody, and sometimes the assistance of an attorney is needed.

Often times, when parents get a divorce and custody, support is not split absolutely half and half – one of the parents will end up paying child support monthly. In some cases, the parent is not able to make the payments or feels that the payments need to be lowered. When the appropriate steps are taken, it is possible to have the payments lowered to an amount that is more sustainable.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

10 Reasons Why You Should Get Naked More Often

10 Reasons Why You Should Get Naked More Often

Getting naked is often thought of as an act that should only be reserved for intimacy—and even then some get squirmy! Many people are more comfortable believing that the more clothes you are wearing the better. However, getting naked more often can have great benefits for you. Here are 10 great reasons to get naked more often:

1. It burns more fat.

Your body’s main supply of brown adipose tissue (BAT), or good fat cells, are located around your shoulder blades and neck. When your body is exposed to the elements and is cooler, the BAT proliferates and essentially kills the white adipose tissue, aka bad fat cells. So, not wearing any clothes helps promote this and makes you healthier.

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2. You’ll become comfortable with who you are.

Self-acceptance is hard to come by today. Ask anyone you know and see if they are happy with themselves. Chances are they will say they are too fat, not pretty, and find all of the flaws that they can. In reality, others do not see this. They see that you are beautiful. When you begin to get naked, you learn to appreciate your body and realize how beautiful you really are.

3. It saves you money.

Being naked more often saves on buying new clothing since you are wearing nothing a lot of the time. Be careful when you are in public, though—you may have to put on some clothes!

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4. It increases your immune system.

Being naked and getting exposure to the sun’s rays actually increases your body’s vitamin D levels. Vitamin D is directly related to your immune system. When you have optimal levels of vitamin D, your body’s immune system is impeccable, and you will be better equipped to ward off viruses, including the common cold and flu. So go lay outside naked on your private balcony or in your yard.

5. It makes you face your fears head on.

People cringe today when you mention the words “get naked.” They are so afraid of it—and today’s children are so ingrained with this—that they must wear layer upon layer to deal with their body image. However, when you are naked, you face your fears of body image and self-acceptance, experiencing some of the best moments of your life.

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6. You will feel better in your clothes.

When you do wear clothes (because not everyone has yet accepted being naked in public), you will start to choose clothing that accentuates the parts of your body that you love. You will begin to notice that maybe that muumuu does not flatter your beautiful curves and start wearing clothes that you love.

7. You will embrace vulnerability.

When you put yourself out there, it is a natural reaction to have fear and worry. However, this is an opportunity to embrace being vulnerable. It allows you to think and get down to the core of what really matters and what is of importance to you. When you strip away all of the excess, you are 100% you and willing to take on anything that comes your way.

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8. You will show the world the real you.

Today, we have many ways of altering our appearance from our true body image when we wear clothing. Some people alter their image so much that they fear getting naked with the person they love. It seems crazy that this could even happen; however, the rise in use of breast-enhancing bras and Spanx products has put this idea into people’s minds. This all goes back to being comfortable with your true body image. If a person really does love you, then they should not love you based upon your image. If they do, then you may even decide that the ever-so-uncomfortable leggings that go up above your waist to hold in all of the imperfections may not be worth it after all.

9. You will have fun.

Well, this could go in all sorts of directions. But when you are comfortable with your naked body and see it as being flattering, then life is more fun. You start realizing that you are beautiful and are willing to do more things that you probably would not have done otherwise—with and without your clothes on.

10. You can have intercourse with the lights on.

Many people are self-conscious about the way they look and decide that the less lighting the better when they are intimate with their partner. It’s nothing new. If you survey your best friends, you will probably come to this conclusion too. They may say that it even gets awkward, because they are more concerned with what their partner thinks of their body than just having and enjoying amazing intercourse. When you love the way you look naked, you will also want to have your partner see you at your best.

What are you waiting for? Start spending more time in the buff today and begin to change the way you think about your body.

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