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Helpful Things Your Child Should Learn Before They Turn 18

Helpful Things Your Child Should Learn Before They Turn 18

People who experience a broad range of life experiences tend to enjoy themselves more and find happiness in many different ways. Learning some essential skills during your teenage years is one of the worthwhile personal endeavors that broaden your perspective. For an 18-year-old to fit into the society, and enjoy life, it is pertinent to have some skills that will help them get through all stages of becoming an adult without regrets.

1. Communication

Every 18-year-old you must be able to communicate with strangers, teachers, and people from all walks of life irrespective of affiliation or background. Give them the freedom to communicate freely with people under your close watch throughout their childhood. This means your child will grow to be able to communicate with strangers and handle the communication politely. but a lack of this skill or experience could come with some serious consequences because a young adult might find him or herself in a situation where communication with a stranger might be required resulting in untold hardship.

Hence, every child should be encouraged by a parent to build communication and interrelation skills.

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2. Primary Knowhow (DIY)

Most parents have resorted to helping their children do every single task not thinking about the consequence of such actions. We drive or accompany our children everywhere, and practically stop them from doing the very basic things they should be able to do. Regularly doing things for them can hinder their ability to be self-reliant.  A parent who is often too involved is not in any way helping a child grow. Hence, before your child turns 18, you should help that child to know the fundamentals of independence. Ensure your child can use the basic public services and perform basic adult tasks.

3 Learn a Musical Instrument

This is something every parent should encourage their children to do before they turn 18. Perhaps the biggest reason for your child to learn a how to play a guitar, piano and other musical instrument is to bring the joy of music to others. Not everyone has the ability or resources to learn to play and as an adult. An instrumentalist can bring joy and vitality to every social occasion.

While learning to play is healthy and entertaining, it is also mentally stimulating as it can help you child build patience, confidence, self-esteem and other vital skills necessary for integrating properly. The joy of music itself can open up a new world of inspired interests and possibilities for your young adult to become successful.

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4. Household Chores

Since the dawn of the 21st century, parents are increasingly excusing their teens from participating in some essential household chores. But the question that should pop out is, what if your young adult finds himself in a situation where he or she will require the use of the hands to carry out the task such as sweeping the floor, doing dishes, or otherwise contributing to a different household? It could be disastrous. This young adult may not know how to satisfy their needs or even make an appropriate contribution to themselves.

Learning some household chores will help your child integrate into any society and blend with others in a shared apartment.

5. Problems Solving

We tend to intervene in misunderstandings and protect our children’s feelings quickly without thinking of the psychological disadvantages. Young adults can find it difficult to deal independently with problems and resolve conflicts without an adult’s intervention.

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The disadvantages are that this carries with them to the university level, which often results in low performance. They could get stuck and give up because they are not used to solving problems for themselves.

6. Teach Freedom

Parents can sometimes form the habit of planning their child’s entire career. They might even find themselves clearing out all obstacles and stumbling blocks between their child and that envisioned future. Thus children develop no understanding of how success comes only by trying and trying again. Parents should teach freedom, and allow children the ability to decide on what to become in future. Forcing a child into what he or she doesn’t want to do can cause resentment.

Every 18-year-old should be able to navigate the world without a parent. These acitivities can help prepare a child for the world of independence ahead of them.

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Published on April 9, 2021

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

Being a mom is not easy. Being a single mom is even more challenging. Having children means you are on the job 24/7. Even while you are sleeping, you are still ready to wake at the slightest peep because that is what moms do.

Moms, especially single moms, need more people cheering them on. Your love and care matter to your kids. You are their superhero. I think single moms are superheroes, too.

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The quotes below are words of encouragement for all of the single moms out there. Keep up the great work! Your hard work will pay off. Someday, they will be grown up and living on their own. Your job will never truly be done as a mom, but you can pat yourself on the back today and every day for doing mom duty day in and day out.

Here are 50 single mom quotes to encourage all the single moms out there.

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  1. “Being raised by a single mother, I learned to appreciate and value independent women.”—Kenny Conley
  2. “As a single mum you’ll discover inner strengths and capabilities you never knew you had.”—Emma-Louise Smith
  3. “One thing I know for sure – this motherhood thing is not for sissies.”—Jennifer Nettles
  4. “Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.”—Gail Tsukiyama
  5. “And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.”—Mark Anthony
  6. “She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t take them along.”—Margaret Culkin Banning
  7. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”—Alice Walker
  8. “Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is.”—Anne Frank
  9. “Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.”—Jennifer Lopez
  10. “You are more powerful than you know; you are beautiful just as you are.”—Melissa Etheridge
  11. “Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing.”—Ricki Lake
  12. “You don’t take a class; you’re thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”—Jennie Finch
  13. “If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”—Oprah Winfrey
  14. “I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”—Charlotte Brontë
  15. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.”—Nora Ephron
  16. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg
  17. “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.”—Margaret Thatcher
  18. “Women have discovered that they cannot rely on men’s chivalry to give them justice.”—Helen Keller
  19. “Successful mothers are not the ones that have never struggled. They are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.”—Sharon Jaynes
  20. “Success, they taught me, is built on the foundation of courage, hard work, and individual responsibility. Despite what some would have us believe, success is not built on resentment and fears.”—Susana Martinez
  21. “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”—Maya Angelou
  22. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”—Ayn Rand
  23. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.”—Rudyard Kipling
  24. “The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because stuff worked out. They got that way because stuff went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
  25. “There will be so many times you feel like you failed. But in the eyes, ears, and mind of your child, you are a SUPER MOM.”—Stephanie Precourt
  26. “Motherhood is the ultimate call to sacrifice.”—Wangechi Mutu
  27. “We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.”—Maya Angelou
  28. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  29. “There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”—Jill Churchill
  30. “There’s no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It’s all that really matters.”—Courtney Cox
  31. “I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.”—Mitch Albom
  32. “I have found being a mother has made me emotionally raw in many situations. Your heart is beating outside your body when you have a baby.”—Kate Beckinsale
  33. “Single moms, you are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.”—Mandy Hale
  34. “I’m not really single. I mean, I am, but I have a son. Being a single mother is different from being a single woman.”—Kate Hudson
  35. “Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love, and twice the pride.”—Unknown
  36. “For me, motherhood is learning about the strengths I didn’t know I had, and dealing with the fears I didn’t know existed.”—Halle Berry
  37. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things… a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Denice Williams
  38. “You do the best you can. Some days you feel really good about yourself and some days you don’t.”—Katie Holmes
  39. “I would say to any single parent currently feeling the weight of stereotype or stigmatization that I am prouder of my years as a single mother than of any other part of my life.”JK Rowling
  40. “Just because I am a single mother doesn’t mean I cannot be a success.”—Yvonne Kaloki
  41. “I didn’t plan on being a single mom, but you have to deal with the cards you are dealt the best way you can.”—Tichina Arnold
  42. “Nothing you do for children is ever wasted.”—Garrison Keillor
  43. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things, a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Deniece Williams
  44. “Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.”—Meryl Streep
  45. “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”—Maria Shriver
  46. “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.”—Cheryl Lacey Donovan
  47. “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”—Agatha Christie
  48. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  49. “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.”—W.R. Wallace
  50. “Being a mother is the greatest blessing and the hardest challenge in all of life.”—Dr. Magdalena Battles

Final Thoughts

Single moms are remarkable women. They are to be respected and honored for all that they do. If you know a single mom, then share this article with them. Tell them “you are doing a great job as a single mom.” They need our encouragement and support.

They may be parenting alone, but it is good to let them know that there are people in their life who care for them. We can all be there for the single moms out there. Even if it is just to say, “keep up the great work, you are an amazing woman!”

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If you are a single mom, keep up the good work! You are amazing, and your kids are lucky to have you!

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