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Why It’s Really OK If You Don’t Want To Be A Leader

Why It’s Really OK If You Don’t Want To Be A Leader

You don’t feel like being a leader. But everyone says their career goal is to be a manager, or the CEO. It seems that you should do the same if you want to make progress and get promoted…

However you can’t convince yourself. Something doesn’t feel right. Being a leader is just not your thing. And it doesn’t mean you are not ambitious. It just means you want something else, something different.

Let me tell you, it’s really OK if you don’t want to be a leader.

Being the leader does not equate to higher ability

Being a leader does not mean to be better than everyone else at everything. It just means he/she is better at putting people together to work towards the same goal.

In every successful company, a great leader also needs loyal supporters. Without talented supporters, a leader can’t achieve anything.

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Instead of forcing yourself to follow the crowd, you should first understand yourself and go for what’s suitable for you. If you go in the wrong direction, you may never fully appreciate and realize the unique talents and potential that you have.

The Cambridge personality test (Link)[1]

This test was developed from the work of the prominent psychiatrist Carl Jung.

It helps indicate people’s personality based on 4 pairs of characteristics:

Extraversion VS introversion

Sensing VS intuition

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Thinking VS feeling

Judgement VS perception

And these four pairs of characteristics combine to form 16 types of personality.

In the test, there are 100 questions which take around 15 minutes to finish answering. Don’t be scared yet! Though it’s a bit long, the accuracy is higher too.

When you finish, a detailed report will be shown:

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    From your personality to the right career path

    After knowing which type of person you belong to, you can find out more about the kinds of careers that are suitable for you.

    Truity is a site that tells you all the details about your personality type and the good and bad career options for you.

    To check it out, first click this link and select your personality type.

      When you get into your personality type page, you can find a much more detailed description about your personality.

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      The career column specifically tells what kind of jobs best suit people with that type of personality.

        For the example listed above, people with ISFP are said to enjoy more “hands-on activities”. It is said ISFP people like to keep a “low profile and do not usually like to be in positions that require them to speak publicly or lead large groups”.

        In other words, they perform better being a supporter, rather than a leader.

        So, it is really okay for you if you don’t want to be a leader. It is just who you are!

        Reference

        [1] The Psychometrics Centre: My personality

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        Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

        Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

        Are you waking up each day looking for that perfect thing, activity, or job that will make your life work? Or, maybe you are looking for that perfect relationship. Once you “get” this new thing that will allow you to do what you love, you are sure that you will be happy forever.

        In reality, life doesn’t work like that, and we would probably get bored if it did. There is likely no one thing, experience, or activity that will keep you feeling passionate and engaged all the time. What’s important is staying connected to what you love and continuing to grow in the process.

        Here, we’ll talk about how to get started doing what you love and achieving more in life through the motivation it brings. Doing this doesn’t have to take a long time; it just takes determination and energy.

        Most People Already Know Their Passion

        So many people walk around in life “looking for” their passion. They look for it as if true passion is some mysterious thing that is difficult to find and runs away once you find it. However, the problem is rarely lack of passion.

        Most of us already know what we love to do. We know what excites us, even if we haven’t done it for years. Instead, we focus on what we think we “must” do.

        For example, maybe you love building model cars or painting pet portraits. Yet, each day you work a completely unrelated job and make no time for the activity you already know you love. The truth is you probably don’t need to find your passion; you just need to start doing what you already know you’re passionate about[1].

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        No Activity Is Exciting All the Time

        Even people who are living their dream lifestyle or working their dream job don’t love it all the time. Every job or lifestyle has parts of it that we won’t like.

        Let’s say your dream is to become an actress, and you succeed. You may not enjoy the process of auditioning and facing rejection. You may experience moments of boredom when you practice your lines over and over again. But the overall experience is totally worth it.

        Most of life is like that. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment by demanding that life be perfect all the time. If things were perfect and easy, you would ultimately stop learning and growing, and life would begin to lack even more meaning in that case.

        Be grateful for both the good and bad moments as they are both entirely necessary if you genuinely want to do what you love and love what you do.

        Doing What You Love May Not Be Easy

        Living a life you love is unlikely to be easy. If it was, you would not grow very much as a person. And, if you think about a great book or movie, the growth of the main character is what matters most.

        What if the challenges you meet along your path to living a life you love were designed to make you grow as a person? You may actually start looking forward to challenges instead of dreading them. An easy life hardly ever makes a compelling story.

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        If you struggle to overcome challenges, try writing them down each time you encounter one. Then, write down three ways you could tackle it. Try one, and if it doesn’t work, try another. This way, you’ll learn what does and doesn’t work for you.

        How to Do What You Love

        There are many small steps you can take to ensure you are making time to do the things you love. Start with these, and you’ll likely find that you’re already on the right track.

        1. Choose Your Priorities Wisely

        Many people claim they want to do something, yet they don’t do it. The truth is they might not really want to do it in the first place[2].

        We all end up following through on what matters most to us. We make decisions moment by moment about what we need to focus on. What we choose to do is what we deem most important in our lives.

        If there is something you claim you want to do but you don’t do it, try asking yourself how much you really want it or where it’s currently placed on priority list. Are there other things you want more?

        Be honest with yourself: what you currently do each day is a reflection of your priorities. Recognize that you can change your priorities at any time.

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        Make a list of your priorities. Really take the time to think this through. Then, ask yourself if what you are doing each day reflects them. For example, if you believe your top priority is spending more time with your family, but you consistently take on extra hours at work, you’re not really prioritizing things in the way you think you are.

        If this is happening, it’s time to make a change.

        2. Do One Small Thing Each Day

        As stated above, doing what you love doesn’t have to mean finding that perfect job that makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning. If you want to do what you love, start with one small thing each day.

        Maybe you love reading a good book. Take ten minutes before bed to read.

        Maybe you love swimming. Get a membership at the local YMCA, and go there for thirty minutes after work each day.

        Dedicating even a short amount of time to something that brings you joy each day will improve your life overall. You may find that, over time, a career path related to what you love to do pops up. After doing the thing you love each day, you’ll be more than prepared to take it on when the opportunity arises.

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        If you need help making time for your passions, check out this article to get started.

        3. Prepare to Make Sacrifices

        If you are an exceptionally busy person (aren’t we all?), you may have to make sacrifices in order to make space for the things you are passionate about. Maybe you take on less extra hours at the office or take thirty minutes away from another hobby in order to develop another that you enjoy.

        Looking at your priority list will help you decide what can get put on the back burner and what can’t. Remember, do this thinking about what will help you feel good about how you’re spending your time. 

        For example, if you love writing but rarely make time for it, consider getting up 30 minutes earlier than normal. Or instead of browsing your phone for 30 minutes before bed, you can write instead. There is always a way to find time for what you love.

        Final Thoughts

        If you love what you do, each day becomes a joyful adventure. If you don’t love what you are doing, life feels like a chore. The best way to achieve success is to design a life you love and live it every day.

        Remember, doing something you love doesn’t have to include big gestures or time-consuming projects. Start small and grow from there.

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