Having been on my own journey of self-improvement for the last two years, I have learnt that personal development is an endless journey with no final destination. The results of this journey are important, but the aspect that is most important is the journey itself. But why is this journey so important?
Every so often, we all have those moments where we strive to do better, to be better. Maybe it’s something as small as becoming more punctual, or something that takes more time and effort, such as changing your behaviours, your attitudes. But that journey often feels like a dead end, like nothing is improving. Sometimes it makes you ask yourself, ‘What is the point?’
This article aims to explain the purpose of personal development, and hopefully encourage you to keep pursuing this route to a better version of yourself. I believe that it is important to know why personal development is important in order to stay motivated on your journey.
So, why should personal development be a goal of yours? What are the benefits of self-improvement? What will this journey give you?
1. Your own ‘mission statement’ and life purpose
Personal development can allow you to see what you want from life and what your values and beliefs are. From my own journey, it has shaped what I want to do with my life, and has made me more passionate about my beliefs. I am starting to realise what I want to do with my life by becoming more self-aware.
2. A sense of direction and motivation
Once you have figured out your goals and mission statement, you are able to pick and choose how you want to develop yourself to achieve these goals. This will give you motivation, as it will give you a starting point. For example, if you would like to help human beings, empathy may be a good skill to start working on. It will also give you more motivation to undertake the personal development journey as you will be able to see a clear end-goal.
By understanding yourself, you will be able to appreciate yourself more. You can learn about overcoming your weaknesses, and feel proud of your strengths. You will realise that weaknesses aren’t a bad thing; rather, they show you self-awareness. You will learn to find happiness on this journey by looking back at how much you’ve achieved in a short time, and how much you have changed.
When you start to develop yourself, you will be able to see all your potential and this will open the doors to numerous opportunities. When you strive to be better, you are more likely to push yourself out of your comfort zone and seek out opportunities that would usually scare you.
Personal development will unfortunately not stop obstacles or undesirable things from happening. However, it will allow you to build resilience and deal with whatever life throws at you. It will give you the strength to power through. Like the old saying says: when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.
6. The ability to handle change
Similar to the point above, personal development will allow you to build the skills and qualities to overcome hurdles and difficulties. Before I started trying to change myself, any small change in my life would create an impending sense of doom and dread. But now, I have come to realise that change is inevitable. I have learnt to realise that I can work through change.
As you aim to improve your personal limitations you will become more confident in the person you are becoming, along with how much you’ve changed. I feel more self-confident as I look back on how shy and timid I was a couple of years ago, compared to now. I still have a long way to go, but I can see how much I’ve changed. This will give you the confidence to keep going and keep improving yourself.
8. Better relationships
Self-improvement can improve how you build relationships with people and will also allow current relationships to thrive. Being more self-aware will allow you to be more open with people. You will feel much more confident in yourself, and be able to let people see you for who you are. You will be true to yourself and to others.
Personal development will allow you to learn about yourself and what you want from life. When you’ve invested in personal development you will want to keep going. Personal development in itself will change the way you live your life – you will always be strving to be better. It will allow you to flourish and live in the moment. It will give you the feeling of wellbeing and happiness, and will help you to succeed and reach your full potential.