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How Being a Better Boss Isn’t as Difficult as You Think

How Being a Better Boss Isn’t as Difficult as You Think

Being in charge can be great, but it can also be overwhelming, and you can find yourself doubting your leadership skills. Not to fear! Keep these eight tips on how to be a better boss in mind and you’ll soon be receiving a “Best Boss Ever” mug at the office’s next secret Santa party.

1. Get to know your employees.

This may sound like a no-brainer, but some bosses really don’t get to know their employees personally. This can be difficult, depending on how big the organization is, but even just walking around the office and spending a few minutes asking how someone’s day is can really make a difference. Personal connections matter to people, and your employees will feel valued thanks to your efforts.

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2. Be consistent.

If you’ve instituted a policy in the workplace, stick to it. If you let some employees slide, it may seem like you’re giving them preferential treatment, and you can appear too easily controlled by others. You’re running the place, so put your foot down and run it consistently. That being said, make sure you’re being moral in your decisions, even if it’s hard or uncomfortable at the time. You have to be able to defend any decision you make because, as the boss, all eyes are on you.

3. Get your hands dirty.

Even though you are in charge, that’s no reason to put yourself on a pedestal. Help out on a project that your employees are working on, even if it’s not really in your job description. Good leaders are also good contributors, so make sure you remind your employees what a hard worker you really are.

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4. Do what’s right, even when it’s hard.

Whether that means standing up for your employees, giving someone a stern lecture, or even firing someone, a good boss has the courage to do what’s ultimately right for his or her organization. Don’t be afraid to do what you feel is the right thing. Ultimately, your organization will be the better for it.

5. Be your own person.

When you get that promotion to management, don’t be afraid to make the organization yours. Shake things up a bit. It’s likely that everyone would benefit from some changes, and it just might make the organization run more smoothly in the process.

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6. Reward hard work.

Your employees work hard, so you should recognize that. Compliment them on successes, and reward them when they’ve produced really great work. Whether that means a pat on the back or lunch on you, show them you care. Your employees will want to work harder when they know their work is being noticed and recognized.

7. Have fun.

All work and no play makes for a lackluster organization. While you’re not paying your employees to have fun, your employees are also not a bunch of robots. People need to get out and have fun every once in a while. Plus, having fun as a group can strengthen bonds and form friendships within the organization that will work in your favor. Consider hosting a company-wide retreat. If an all-day affair is a little too daunting, try buying bulk tickets to a sports game, or, if the organization is small enough, host a dinner party.

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8. Take courses in management and communication.

As the boss, it’s your job to manage everyone who works for you. If you’re not used to managing people, or are feeling a little rusty, consider taking a seminar to brush up on your management skills. Many universities and community colleges have courses specifically for professional development. You and your employees will benefit from some of these topics. Communication is key to running a smooth operation, and taking a course in communication can really help teach you the best way to get your point across when talking to your employees.

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Last Updated on September 23, 2020

Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

Are you waking up each day looking for that perfect thing, activity, or job that will make your life work? Or, maybe you are looking for that perfect relationship. Once you “get” this new thing that will allow you to do what you love, you are sure that you will be happy forever.

In reality, life doesn’t work like that, and we would probably get bored if it did. There is likely no one thing, experience, or activity that will keep you feeling passionate and engaged all the time. What’s important is staying connected to what you love and continuing to grow in the process.

Here, we’ll talk about how to get started doing what you love and achieving more in life through the motivation it brings. Doing this doesn’t have to take a long time; it just takes determination and energy.

Most People Already Know Their Passion

So many people walk around in life “looking for” their passion. They look for it as if true passion is some mysterious thing that is difficult to find and runs away once you find it. However, the problem is rarely lack of passion.

Most of us already know what we love to do. We know what excites us, even if we haven’t done it for years. Instead, we focus on what we think we “must” do.

For example, maybe you love building model cars or painting pet portraits. Yet, each day you work a completely unrelated job and make no time for the activity you already know you love. The truth is you probably don’t need to find your passion; you just need to start doing what you already know you’re passionate about[1].

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No Activity Is Exciting All the Time

Even people who are living their dream lifestyle or working their dream job don’t love it all the time. Every job or lifestyle has parts of it that we won’t like.

Let’s say your dream is to become an actress, and you succeed. You may not enjoy the process of auditioning and facing rejection. You may experience moments of boredom when you practice your lines over and over again. But the overall experience is totally worth it.

Most of life is like that. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment by demanding that life be perfect all the time. If things were perfect and easy, you would ultimately stop learning and growing, and life would begin to lack even more meaning in that case.

Be grateful for both the good and bad moments as they are both entirely necessary if you genuinely want to do what you love and love what you do.

Doing What You Love May Not Be Easy

Living a life you love is unlikely to be easy. If it was, you would not grow very much as a person. And, if you think about a great book or movie, the growth of the main character is what matters most.

What if the challenges you meet along your path to living a life you love were designed to make you grow as a person? You may actually start looking forward to challenges instead of dreading them. An easy life hardly ever makes a compelling story.

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If you struggle to overcome challenges, try writing them down each time you encounter one. Then, write down three ways you could tackle it. Try one, and if it doesn’t work, try another. This way, you’ll learn what does and doesn’t work for you.

How to Do What You Love

There are many small steps you can take to ensure you are making time to do the things you love. Start with these, and you’ll likely find that you’re already on the right track.

1. Choose Your Priorities Wisely

Many people claim they want to do something, yet they don’t do it. The truth is they might not really want to do it in the first place[2].

We all end up following through on what matters most to us. We make decisions moment by moment about what we need to focus on. What we choose to do is what we deem most important in our lives.

If there is something you claim you want to do but you don’t do it, try asking yourself how much you really want it or where it’s currently placed on priority list. Are there other things you want more?

Be honest with yourself: what you currently do each day is a reflection of your priorities. Recognize that you can change your priorities at any time.

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Make a list of your priorities. Really take the time to think this through. Then, ask yourself if what you are doing each day reflects them. For example, if you believe your top priority is spending more time with your family, but you consistently take on extra hours at work, you’re not really prioritizing things in the way you think you are.

If this is happening, it’s time to make a change.

2. Do One Small Thing Each Day

As stated above, doing what you love doesn’t have to mean finding that perfect job that makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning. If you want to do what you love, start with one small thing each day.

Maybe you love reading a good book. Take ten minutes before bed to read.

Maybe you love swimming. Get a membership at the local YMCA, and go there for thirty minutes after work each day.

Dedicating even a short amount of time to something that brings you joy each day will improve your life overall. You may find that, over time, a career path related to what you love to do pops up. After doing the thing you love each day, you’ll be more than prepared to take it on when the opportunity arises.

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If you need help making time for your passions, check out this article to get started.

3. Prepare to Make Sacrifices

If you are an exceptionally busy person (aren’t we all?), you may have to make sacrifices in order to make space for the things you are passionate about. Maybe you take on less extra hours at the office or take thirty minutes away from another hobby in order to develop another that you enjoy.

Looking at your priority list will help you decide what can get put on the back burner and what can’t. Remember, do this thinking about what will help you feel good about how you’re spending your time. 

For example, if you love writing but rarely make time for it, consider getting up 30 minutes earlier than normal. Or instead of browsing your phone for 30 minutes before bed, you can write instead. There is always a way to find time for what you love.

Final Thoughts

If you love what you do, each day becomes a joyful adventure. If you don’t love what you are doing, life feels like a chore. The best way to achieve success is to design a life you love and live it every day.

Remember, doing something you love doesn’t have to include big gestures or time-consuming projects. Start small and grow from there.

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