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How Being a Better Boss Isn’t as Difficult as You Think

How Being a Better Boss Isn’t as Difficult as You Think

Being in charge can be great, but it can also be overwhelming, and you can find yourself doubting your leadership skills. Not to fear! Keep these eight tips on how to be a better boss in mind and you’ll soon be receiving a “Best Boss Ever” mug at the office’s next secret Santa party.

1. Get to know your employees.

This may sound like a no-brainer, but some bosses really don’t get to know their employees personally. This can be difficult, depending on how big the organization is, but even just walking around the office and spending a few minutes asking how someone’s day is can really make a difference. Personal connections matter to people, and your employees will feel valued thanks to your efforts.

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2. Be consistent.

If you’ve instituted a policy in the workplace, stick to it. If you let some employees slide, it may seem like you’re giving them preferential treatment, and you can appear too easily controlled by others. You’re running the place, so put your foot down and run it consistently. That being said, make sure you’re being moral in your decisions, even if it’s hard or uncomfortable at the time. You have to be able to defend any decision you make because, as the boss, all eyes are on you.

3. Get your hands dirty.

Even though you are in charge, that’s no reason to put yourself on a pedestal. Help out on a project that your employees are working on, even if it’s not really in your job description. Good leaders are also good contributors, so make sure you remind your employees what a hard worker you really are.

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4. Do what’s right, even when it’s hard.

Whether that means standing up for your employees, giving someone a stern lecture, or even firing someone, a good boss has the courage to do what’s ultimately right for his or her organization. Don’t be afraid to do what you feel is the right thing. Ultimately, your organization will be the better for it.

5. Be your own person.

When you get that promotion to management, don’t be afraid to make the organization yours. Shake things up a bit. It’s likely that everyone would benefit from some changes, and it just might make the organization run more smoothly in the process.

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6. Reward hard work.

Your employees work hard, so you should recognize that. Compliment them on successes, and reward them when they’ve produced really great work. Whether that means a pat on the back or lunch on you, show them you care. Your employees will want to work harder when they know their work is being noticed and recognized.

7. Have fun.

All work and no play makes for a lackluster organization. While you’re not paying your employees to have fun, your employees are also not a bunch of robots. People need to get out and have fun every once in a while. Plus, having fun as a group can strengthen bonds and form friendships within the organization that will work in your favor. Consider hosting a company-wide retreat. If an all-day affair is a little too daunting, try buying bulk tickets to a sports game, or, if the organization is small enough, host a dinner party.

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8. Take courses in management and communication.

As the boss, it’s your job to manage everyone who works for you. If you’re not used to managing people, or are feeling a little rusty, consider taking a seminar to brush up on your management skills. Many universities and community colleges have courses specifically for professional development. You and your employees will benefit from some of these topics. Communication is key to running a smooth operation, and taking a course in communication can really help teach you the best way to get your point across when talking to your employees.

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Last Updated on November 19, 2018

How to Find a Suitable Professional Mentor

How to Find a Suitable Professional Mentor

I went through a personal experience that acted as a catalyst for an epiphany. When I got fired from a job, I learned something important about myself and where I was headed with my freelance career. I realized that the most important aspect of that one rather small job was the influence of the company owner. I realized that I wasn’t hurt that the company and I weren’t a perfect match; I was devastated by the stark fact that I needed a mentor and I had almost found one but lost her.

Suddenly, I felt like J.D., the main character in “Scrubs,” chasing Dr. Cox and trying to rip insight and wisdom from someone I respect. The realization that a recognized thought-leader and experienced entrepreneur severed ties with me felt crushing. But, I picked myself back up and thought about five ways to acquire a mentor without having the awkwardness of outright asking.

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1. Remember, a professional mentorship must be mutual.

A professional mentor must agree to engage in a mutual relationship because, as the comedy T.V. series showed us, one simply cannot force someone to tutor us. We have to prove that we are worth the time investment through persistence and dedication to the craft.

2. You have to have common interests with your mentor.

Even if a professional mentor appears at your job or school, realize that unless you and this person have common interests, you won’t find the relationship successful. I’ve been in situations where someone I respected had vastly different ideas about what was important in life or what one should spend his or her free time doing. If these things don’t line up, you may find the relationship won’t be as fruitful, even when the mentor knows a great deal about one industry.

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3. Thought-leaders will respect your passion.

One of the ways you can prove yourself worthy to a professional mentor is through your passion and your dedication. No one wants to spend time grooming and teaching another who will not take advice or put the effort in to improve. When following thought-leaders on Twitter and trying to engage with higher-ups in a work setting, realize that your actions most often speak louder than your words.

4. Before worrying if he respects you, ask if you respect him.

On the other side of the coin, you should seriously reflect on those common interests and make sure you respect your professional mentor. Just because someone holds a title, degree or office does not mean that person is trustworthy or honest. Don’t be swayed by appearances and take the time to find a suitable professional mentor.

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5. Failure is often the best way to learn

I honestly have made more mistakes than I can count. I know I’ve learned a great deal from poorly organized businesses and my own poor choices. The most important quality I’ve developed is an ability to swallow my pride and learn from my mistakes. If life knocks me down nine times, I get back up 10 times. One of the songs Megadeth wrote, “Of Mice and Men,” resonates in my mind when I pull myself up by my bootstraps and try again for a goal I’ve set: “So live your life and live it well. There’s not much left of me to tell. I just got back up each time I fell.” Hopefully, this brief post can act as a professional mentor to you in your quest to find not only a brave leader but also a trusted adviser.

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