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8 Reasons You Need To Be Your Real Self At Work

8 Reasons You Need To Be Your Real Self At Work

While work is a place to be (mostly) serious and focused, it’s also a place where you should feel comfortable. Being yourself is one of the most fundamental aspects of being comfortable, yet so many people feel that they can’t let their real personalities show while at the office. It can definitely be hard sometimes to walk the line between being yourself and being work-appropriate, but with a little practice and self-awareness, you can let your real self shine through. Need more convincing? Here are eight reasons to be your real self at work.

1. You’ll be happier in the short term…

Seriously, who wants to come to work every single day knowing that you can’t be yourself? No one that I know. You’ll be much happier at your job if you feel comfortable and relaxed in your work environment. It will be such a relief to let your true self out. There’s no feeling like being truly at ease with yourself and others’ perceptions of you, so consider giving that a try.

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2. …and the long term.

Over time, hiding your personality is sure to take a toll. You will feel irritated and grumpy, and you might even associate your job with negative feelings simply because you feel like you can’t be yourself. That kind of pressure can be very stressful. Let your personality out and you’re more likely to feel satisfied with your job.

3. People will like you more.

In most cases, people can tell when someone is acting strangely, and it’s possible that your coworkers see that you’re hiding your personality. Add on that they might not know the reason, and they might jump to conclusions that don’t reflect your true reasons. Being genuine is important in establishing connections, and the more genuine you seem, the more people will want to associate with you.

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4. You’ll have more at-work friends.

A stifled personality is a nonexistent personality. By hiding your true self, you’re basically making yourself into someone that doesn’t really exist. If you let your personality show, people are more likely to be drawn to you and will be more willing to form relationships outside of simply being coworkers.

5. Honesty is important.

At work, it’s very important that others feel comfortable trusting you with tasks (especially if your job includes a lot of group work). You wouldn’t feel like you could completely trust someone who seemed a little shady. So why should others feel like they should trust you, if you seem like you’re hiding something? People like predictability, and if they know the real you, they’re more likely to believe you’re reliable.

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6. You’ll be a better leader.

Leaders often rely on their personalities to draw people to them, and this relies on being comfortable with their real selves. Jack Welch, longtime CEO of General Motors, famously said, “success is all about growing yourself.” And you can’t grow yourself when you aren’t letting your personality shine through. Make sure you’re not letting your unwillingness to be your real self hinder your leadership potential.

7. Your work will probably improve.

Happy people are productive people. Being yourself is guaranteed to make you much happier, and you’re therefore more likely to feel more contented while working. Hiding your true self also takes a lot of effort. Your time is much better spent working than pretending to be someone you’re not.

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8. You’ll catch your boss’s eye.

Letting your real personality out will make you much more memorable. Your unique characteristics will most likely impress the higher-ups at your job. It takes courage to be who you truly are, and doing so is an indication that you might be deserving of more responsibilities at work.

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Last Updated on May 23, 2021

10 Best Free Job Apps You Need For Effective Job Hunting

10 Best Free Job Apps You Need For Effective Job Hunting

Seeking for the right job but not sure how to do it in a more effective way?

Try job search apps!

To make the job hunting process easier, I’m recommending 10 best job apps that can help you look for the right match anywhere at any time. The best of all? They’re all free!

1. jobandtalent

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    Great for browsing new jobs as you commute home via subway, bus or carpool, the jobandtalent app is like a Pinterest for job seekers.

    Easily browse, save and revisit job postings from your smartphone and receive notifications about jobs that match your professional qualifications.

    Download it for iOS and Android.

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    2. Jobr

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      This job hunting app is unique in that it lets you anonymously browse job listings based on your professional resume. If a company that you like also shows an interest in you, the app let’s you chat directly with a company rep. Great for getting your foot in the door and making a memorable impression.

      Download it for iOS.

      3. Monster Job Search

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        I’m a big fan of Monster. It’s one of the first job sites employers think of when they want to list a new position online. The Monster Job Search app functions pretty similarly to the normal website, so it’s very easy to use for not-so-tech-savvy job hunters.

        Download it for iOS and Android.

        4. Jobs and Career Search

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          This is a good, simple app for browsing global locations for your next job. With a job index of more than 50,000 jobs listed globally, this app is a good choice if you are moving to a new area and want to line a new job up quickly.

          Download it for iOS.

          5. Hyper Networking Groups

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            This job hunting app isn’t so much a job hunting app as it is a connections hunting app. It’s great for learning who’s who in your desired field and forming connections. It also shows you how you and your industry connections are connected via your social networks, so you can follow up with them on your other social sites.

            Download it for iOS.

            6. CardDrop

            CardDrop

              CardDrop is an awesome job hunting app that let’s you digitally drop and pick up virtual business cards. This app is great for helping you make new connections at seminars, interviews, meetings and conferences. You can also attach social media profiles to the cards you pick up or send to enable easier connecting on social networks.

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              Download it for Android and iOS.

              7. Job Interview Questions

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                Okay, so this app looks kind of outdated, but it’s super useful for getting you into the swing of answering any kind of interview question that is thrown your way. The big benefit of using this app is that it explains to you what your interviewers motivations might be for asking you a specific kind of question. Learn what your interviewer is looking for in your answers and be more prepared for the real interview when the time comes.

                Download it for Android.

                8. 101 Interview Questions and Answers

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                  This app is great because it provides guidance about the kinds of answers you should give for each kind of question. Think of it as an essay rubric but for job interview questions.

                  Download it for Android.

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                  9. Job Interview Question-Answer

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                    Feeling confident with your text-answered interview questions but concerned about doing the face-to-face interview? This app prepares you for interacting with your interviewer by simulating an employer asking you questions.

                    You can record your response and see what you look like to the interviewer to understand what movements, vocal pauses, etc. you need to work on.

                    Download this app for iOS and Android.

                    10. HireVue

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                      HireVue is a great job hunting app for those times when your interviewer wants to get some preliminary questions out of the way.

                      When an interested employer wants to interview you, they send you a request via HireVue and you can answer it in your free time, when you’re ready. Your interview might consist of a some FaceTime, some multiple choice questions or open-ended text answers and can be completed and sent to the interviewer when you’re finish.

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                      Download it for Android and iOS.

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