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7 Traits of A Successful Blogger

7 Traits of A Successful Blogger

You might think it doesn’t take much to be a successful blogger. I mean all you do is type some words, hit publish and wait for them to dazzle your audience, right? Well, it turns out there is a little more to being a successful blogger. As a blogger and blog reader of three years, I have figured out a few things that set apart the blogs that make a splash (and maybe even some cash) from the ones that are real duds. Here are 7 common traits they share:

1. A successful blogger will proofread his or her posts.

One of my biggest pet peeves when reading a blog is seeing multiple spelling and grammar errors. This is understandable, of course, because spell check does not always pick up on certain errors. It is even easy to read through your own post multiple times and not see a certain error. A recent embarrassing occurrence on my own blog was that the tag on my header, which is at the top of the blog explaining to everyone what it is all about, was misspelled. A professional designer had misspelled it when she made it for me and I never noticed until two months later when a reader commented. The thing is, when there are grammatical errors or misspellings in a blog post, it makes the entire blog seem unprofessional.

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2. A successful blogger engages with his or her readers.

One of the reasons to have a blog is to have readers. After all, if you didn’t wish to have anyone reading your words, you would not be publishing them on the World Wide Web. If you ignore your reader’s comments, you might not see those readers returning. Try instead to ask engaging questions at the end of your post and respond to as many comments as you can. At the very least, you should be answering any questions readers might be asking, whether directly or in a future post if many seem to have the same one.

3. A successful blogger knows how to interact on social media.

Another way to interact with readers and potential readers is on social media. It’s easy to create social media accounts and post to these accounts at least once a week. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest are all great ways to promote your blog and to interact with other bloggers as well as potential brands. The great thing about these is that you can easily post from your phone or mobile device much more quickly than it would take to sit at a laptop and type out a whole post.

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4. A successful blogger sees the many opportunities available through a blog.

From generating revenue with ads, to working with favorite brands, to securing a job, a good blogger recognizes all of these things are possible with his or her blog. If you treat your blog as a professional tool, even if you do add personal stories and anecdotes, your blog can take you places.

5. A successful blogger knows his or her purpose in blogging.

Maybe you are not looking for money, but just a way to educate people about current events. Keep your goals in mind. If you stray too much, your readers might wonder what the heck your blog is about and will find something else to read.

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6. A successful blogger is able to take criticism.

This is something I am definitely working on, but it is very important. When you are online commenting on a blog post, there is this feeling that you are invincible. Since you are not showing your face, you do not feel as responsible for what you are typing. In this light, others can be make some hurtful comments about a post you have written, but you need to either learn from it, or ignore it. Never dwell on it.

7. A successful blogger enjoys what he or she is blogging about.

Your readers are smart and will know if you are writing just to write versus being passionate about the subject matter. If you know your purpose and are excited to write about it, this should come naturally. When you find yourself becoming frustrated or bored, take some time off and come back to writing when you get excited again.

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So what do you say? Do you think you could start and maintain your own blog?

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7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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