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Last Updated on December 4, 2020

How to Seize Your Opportunities and Take on Challenges

How to Seize Your Opportunities and Take on Challenges

I once heard Richard Branson say, “Business opportunities are like buses, there’s always another one coming.”

As soon as I heard that, I remember thinking “wow, that’s so true.” And that wisdom doesn’t just apply to business opportunities. It applies to all opportunities.

Regardless of whether you’re looking to getting ahead in your career, business, academics, or personal life, you will always be presented with fresh opportunities.

But here’s the thing: no matter what you’re after, it’s likely you’ll be presented with a number of challenges along the way.

Here are some ways to prepare yourself to seize the opportunity of a lifetime from the moment you recognize it.

1. Develop a Clear Vision of What You Want

Imagine if you could have anything your heart desires. Imagine if you could seize the opportunity of a lifetime the moment it presents itself.

Literally, take a moment right now and imagine it.

Because if you do, then you’ll be putting your brain’s Reticular Activating System into function – and that can be the difference between achieving your dreams, or living a life of quiet desperation.

In his book, Getting Things Done, author David Allen talks about how this works:

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“When you focus on something–the vacation you’re going to take, the meeting you’re about to go into, the project you want to launch–that focus instantly creates ideas and thought patterns you wouldn’t have had otherwise. Even your physiology will respond to an image in your head as if it were reality.”

Did you catch that last line?

Even your physiology will respond to an image in your head as if it were reality.

Let’s talk a little more about that, shall we?

Back in May 1957, Scientific American published an article describing the discovery of the “reticular formation” at the base of the brain. This is basically the gateway to your conscious awareness.

In other words, it acts as a “switch” of sorts, to turn on your perceptions of ideas and data. It is the thing that keeps you asleep even when music is playing but wakes you up if a special little baby cries in another room.

Your brain has a search function, just like your computer does.

But your brain’s search function is even better. It’s programmed by what you focus on, what you identify with, and what you believe in. It notices things and opportunities that are your current beliefs and focus.

For example, if you’re an architect, you’re more likely to notice the square footage and design of buildings. If you work in shoe sales, you’ll probably notice the details and the degree of craftsmanship of a person’s shoes when you meet them.

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Take a moment to close your eyes for ten seconds and focus on nothing but color red, and then just glance around your environment. If there’s any red at all, even if it’s a little bit, you’ll notice it!

That’s your reticular activating system at work. And you’ll need to keep it sharp if you want to seize any potential opportunities as they arise.

The lesson here is this: develop a clear mental picture of what you want. Keep that vision in mind and imagine it regularly. This will prime your mind to stay on the look-out for opportunities that can help you bring that vision to reality.

2. Set Goals

Once you’ve developed a mental picture of what you want or what an ideal opportunity may look like, it’s time to commit that vision to paper.

In other words, it’s time to set some written goals: How to Use SMART Goal to Become Highly Successful in Life

And once you set those goals, you’ll want to make sure you review them regularly to remind your brain what you’re looking for.

Your brain operates in terms of goals and results. Once you give it a clear goal to achieve, it automatically begins to look for ways to help you achieve it.

Once you have a goal, your brain looks for different opportunities to help you bring it to life. It looks for actions you can take or ideas that might help you achieve a given goal.

So, grab some paper, and write down exactly what you want and why you want it.

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3. Take Consistent Action

Some people will tell you that positive thinking is the key to seizing opportunities and getting whatever you want in life.

I’m here to tell you that this is absolutely NOT true.

If you get lost in the woods without a map to help guide you back to where you need to be, it doesn’t matter how positive you think you are, because unless you get yourself a map, you’re STILL going to be lost.

And if you only focus on “thinking positive,” you’ll just be happy about being lost.

To get back home, you need a map. You need guidance. You’ve got to update your approach. And you absolutely need to take action.[1]

If you want to achieve your goals, get your dream job, attract the perfect partner, or seize the opportunity of a lifetime. It doesn’t matter how positive you think you are if your way of thinking is faulty.

To fix your way of thinking, you need to envision a detailed desired outcome of what you want. Once you’ve done that, you’ve got to take deliberate action towards that desired outcome.

Unless you map out a detailed picture of what you want AND you combine that with action, you’ll veer off-path and bypass great opportunities.

So, here’s what you need to do:

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Step 1: Think About an Area of Your Life You’d Like to Change for the Better

Imagine what it would feel and look like if you were able to change this area of your life. Think about the best possible outcome/scenario that could occur if everything were to go exactly the way you want it to go (it never goes perfect, but don’t worry about that right now).

Step 2: Take This Vision You’ve Created in Your Mind From Step 1, and write it Down as a Goal.

Be as detailed and specific as possible.

Step 3: Break That Goal Down Into Several Small Steps That Need to Be Taken for You to Achieve it

If you’re not sure about what steps you need to take to achieve your goal, then your first step is to start reading, researching, and gathering knowledge about what you need to do. You might need to talk to someone who’s already done what you want to do or find an inspiring podcast that can help fast-track your way to success.

The main idea is this: you need to decide on some sort of action you can right now to make progress on your goal.

Some examples: Want to start a business? Start researching how to get a business license. Want a new car? Go to the car dealership and test drive that car you want.

Do something, anything, to get the ball rolling.

Step 4: Remain Consistent and Keep Taking Action

Once you’ve taken one small step towards your goal, you’ll need to set up another one. And another one. And another one.

Along the way, you’ll notice different ideas and opportunities that you can leverage towards achieving your goal.

Bottom Line

Follow these steps and eventually your goals won’t be in your imagination anymore, they’ll be your reality.

Now go out there and start seizing opportunities like a boss.

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Reference

[1] Dean Bokhari: Action Leads to Motivation

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10 Warning Signs of Low Self-Esteem and a Lack of Confidence

10 Warning Signs of Low Self-Esteem and a Lack of Confidence

Self-confidence can be defined as a belief in one’s abilities and maintaining a sense of competence. On the other hand, low self-confidence can be defined as a lack of faith in one’s abilities and competence.

Self-confidence can fuel success, while low self-esteem can impede it. To avoid falling into patterns of low self-esteem and a lack of confidence, consult the following warning signs.

1. Checking Your Phone While Alone in Social Situations

You find yourself unable to sit still during social situations with little or no friends. Instead, you find yourself desperately checking your phone to appear more socially connected.

Tip: Try exercising an affirmation such as “I am loved.”

2. Backing Down During a Disagreement to Appease Another Person

You find yourself backing down in conversation often; you negotiate your views so as to avoid conflict. You would rather avoid experiencing rocky waters than express yourself honestly.

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Tip: Try an affirmation such as “my opinion matters” or “I live authentically.”

3. Unable to Leave the House Without Make-Up or Primping

You gain a false sense of self-esteem from wearing make-up or primping. Instead of feeling self-esteem from within, you feel a need to primp in order to feel good about yourself.

Tip: Try a daily “I am beautiful” affirmation.

4. Taking Constructive Criticism Too Personally

You tear up in the bathroom after a coworker gives you constructive criticism about your job performance; you wind up yelling at friends when they criticize your choice in a date. Instead of taking criticism objectively, you react emotionally.

Tip: Try counting to 3 before responding to criticism.

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5. Afraid to Contribute Your Opinion in Conversation

You find yourself second guessing what you want to say before you say it, instead of diving into conversation without a thought. You may find yourself stuttering and engaging in negative self-talk.

Tip: Focus on your breath when you begin to second guess yourself to avoid over-thinking.

6. Being Indecisive in the Midst of Simple Decisions

You change your mind after coming to a simple decision, such as what activity to do with a friend or what food to eat. Then once you come to another decision, you change your mind over and over.

Tip: Vocalize the affirmation “I am assertive and in control of my life.”

7. Cannot Handle Genuine Compliments

You reflect when someone pays you a genuine compliment, instead of graciously accepting the compliment.

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Tip: Practice the affirmation “I am worthy of love” or “I have many good qualities.”

8. Giving up Too Soon

You give up on your goals and dreams before you have hardly started. You lack confidence in your success, so you give up all together.

Tip: Practice the affirmation “I am a success seeker, not a failure avoider.”

9. Comparing Yourself With Others

You pay extra attention to those you deem more successful than you, and let your own self-worth take a plummet as a result. Instead of focusing on your journey and your journey only, you constantly look at everyone else’s.

Tip: Declare the affirmation “I am more than enough.”

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10. Slouching

You display a low body stance: you do not stand tall, but instead let your body slouch downwards, sending the message that you are not proud of yourself.

Tip: Take a few minutes each day to focus on your body posture. Take a look at these 10 Graphs That Help You Improve Posture In No Time.

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