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What to Do When You Work for a Micromanaging Boss

What to Do When You Work for a Micromanaging Boss

It’s not a pleasant feeling when your boss is breathing down your neck, giving you the impression that they don’t fully trust you. Working under a micromanaging boss can be a true nightmare sometimes. From the moment you step into the office, you can feel their need to be in control of everything. They give you detailed explanations on everything you should do, believing they are the only ones who know how to do a certain task properly. They will check on your progress several times a day. They will remind you frequently of what you need to do, even though you are well aware of your responsibilities.

Is Your Boss a Control Freak? Probably Not in Most Cases…

The most important thing you need to understand is that their need to control comes from their own anxiety, and it doesn’t mean your performance is not good. Just try to imagine for a second how it would be in their shoes – they have an overwhelming amount of responsibilities, and they are accountable for a large group of people. The more people working under them, the less control they have thus they are trying to assert control in any possible way.

But If You Don’t Change the Situation, Your Progress Will Be Hampered

By trying to create such a controlling environment, your boss at the same time creates an environment that is demoralizing you and inhibiting your progress. You don’t have room to be creative or try to do things differently. As your every step is carefully monitored and planned in advance, you cannot gain new valuable experiences and grow professionally.

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Yes, it can be exhausting, but you can continue being under their thumb, or try to make some changes that will make your job easier.

Here’s How You Can Enough Space for Growth Without Changing Your Boss’ Leadership Style

Predict your boss’s moves

After a while, you will be well familiar with your boss’s daily requirements, so do certain tasks even before they ask you to. For example, send the updates on your progress regularly without your boss having to ask for them. It is easier for you to do it forehand than to be constantly interrupted and annoyed with your boss’s requests. That way, you are eliminating their need to be in control – you are telling you can do something without constant reminders, and your boss will finally figure out they don’t need to tell you the same thing 10 times a day.

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Try putting yourself into their shoes

Your boss definitely has a lot of things on their mind. Even though their behavior is difficult to put with, from time to time, just try to imagine what they feel like and the amount of pressure they have to deal with. Try showing them you can relate to what they are going through and that you are doing everything you can to make their job easier.

Show them they can trust you

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Trying to confront your boss about their excessive control might be counterproductive, as micromanaging bosses tend to think they are doing everything perfectly. What would be productive is to show them you are organized and pay attention to details. Ask them to give you a task that you will do single-handedly, without their interference. If you do it successfully, they will understand that you don’t need constant supervision, and that you are more productive when given more independence.

What are my responsibilities?

To avoid constant interruptions, talk with your boss and have them list what your everyday responsibilities are, such as writing progress reports, organizing files, being responsible for other employees or taking care that everything happens on time. Commit to doing those tasks regularly without being reminded, and your boss will interrupt you less.

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Ask detailed questions

Upon being given a certain project or task, make sure you get all the details. That will show your boss you are detail-oriented and that you know your responsibilities and boundaries. Make sure you ask about the deadline, what’s the priority of the project compared to your other responsibilities, what you must do, and what should be avoided. You will show your boss you understand their specific concerns and that you are prepared to address all the possible issues.

Micromanaging bosses are a handful, but there are many ways you can deal with them. However, if your relationship doesn’t improve and you keep feeling nervous and unmotivated, you might consider changing your workplace.

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Last Updated on August 20, 2018

What Highly Successful People Do Every Day To Perform At Their Best

What Highly Successful People Do Every Day To Perform At Their Best

What separates highly successful people from the “average crowd?” This is a topic that is widely discussed.

If you want to be successful, you have to watch carefully what other successful people do and imitate them. While every successful person has his or her own unique approach, there are a couple thoughts and actions they have in common.

Here are 7 habits many successful people have!

1. They make a difference

If you have an idea, that idea has to change peoples life’s. As long as you’re not helping other people, it’s useless. Don’t start with an activity or business primarily to make money, it won’t work. When you create fans by offering your expertise, they are willing to pay for it. The problem with today’s entrepreneurial mindset is that’s all about “quick” money and not necessarily about making a difference.

“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.” — Albert Einstein

2. They focus on productivity instead of on being busy

Do you know those people who always say they can’t meet up with you or help with a certain thing because they’re always busy? I do, and to be honest I was one of them.

When I look back, I don’t actually know with what I was being busy. I thought I was being busy, but now I realize I could have done many things in a much more productive way.

Is 8 hours of work actually 8 hours when you’re checking your Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram updates every 30 minutes? It’s necessary to take a rest once a while, but don’t get lost in hundreds of status updates that make you forget about your priorities.

Looking for some tips? Check out this infographic: How to be productive by doing more and working less

3. They keep setting S.M.A.R.T. goals

You can never reach the success you want if you’re not setting goals. The trick is to set up a couple small, achievable goals and a couple of bigger ones. If you only set up huge, unachievable goals, you’ll get unmotivated and fall back into your old mindset. The small goals keep you motivated and give you the feeling you’re being productive once you achieve them.

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Try setting S.M.A.R.T. goals, which is an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Timely. These goals are concrete and well-defined measures of your progress.

A while ago, I asked a friend of mine what his goal was this year. He told me he wanted a sports car. I told him he will have much trouble reaching that goal because it isn’t specific. He needs to know the brand, the model, the color, what kind of rims etc. Only then he can define how long it’s going to take and what he needs to do in order to buy that car.

4. They take action

There is a big difference between talking or actually taking action. I’m pretty sure you have people around you who’ve said, “This year, I’m going to lose weight, become fit, and look like I’ve never looked before!” Or, “I’ve got such a good idea, I’m planning to start a new business, but first I’m going to do some research,” which probably results in never taking any action.

Many of those people do take action, but the majority do not. It could be many things that keep them from taking action, like fear, no money, or no motivation. The trick is to make a plan and take action right from the start—choose to put in the effort to overcome those obstacles.

5. They exercise and eat right

The better you treat your body, the better you will feel, which results in better results. Successful people take time to prepare healthy meals and work out for at least 30 minutes a day.

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Not having time to work out or prepare a healthy meal is nonsense. If you have time to watch TV or check your social media profile, you also have time to care about your body.

You don’t necessarily need to lose weight or gain muscle, but try to stay in shape and watch your junk food intake.

6. They always step out of their comfort-zone

Successful people are willing to do everything they have to succeed. If they fail, they try it again and learn from it. The vast majority of people think differently and want to stay in their comfort zone.

You can’t expect magic is going to happen when you always do the same things over and over again. You need to step up and start doing new things. The fear of failure is usually the reason that keeps people from acting.

Think about something you’ve done in the past. Something that was so scary that it made you sweat, feel nauseous, or become overly nervous. That could be giving a speech in front of a big crowd or asking someone on a date. In the end, it wasn’t as scary and difficult as you thought, right? And you’ve learned from it.

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Approach everything in your life this way. If you really want to become successful, you need to step out of your comfort zone.

“Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.” — Brian Tracy

7. They lead

Successful people are also incredibly good leaders. How can you stand out of the crowd if you follow the herd like anyone else does? The main thing successful people do differently is that they think and act differently from the rest. But they do it in a way that creates fans who follow and support them.

You don’t have to be a born leader, but you can learn to be one. An example of a great leader and entrepreneur is Elon Musk. He is the founder of SpaceX and co-founder of Zip2, PayPal, and Tesla Motors. By following his example, you just might find the great leader inside you.

Have these tips helped you? Share them!

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Featured photo credit: Steve Jurvetson via flickr.com

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