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If You Have These 5 Struggles, You’re A Highly Creative Person

If You Have These 5 Struggles, You’re A Highly Creative Person

The world needs creative people but sometimes being naturally creative can come at a price. We all reap the benefits of creation but what goes on in the mind of a highly creative person is often far from what we see on the outside.

Confidence seems synonymous with creative people, but a lot of the time they are struggling with much of what goes on in their mind through the way they think and perceive the world compared to others.

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If you’re a highly creative person, the struggles and challenges you face can leave you feeling isolated or lonely. Even people close to you may make you feel like no one gets you and aren’t mindful of how you are really feeling. With this in mind, here are five common struggles that should be acknowledged and understood towards those who are highly creative.

1. You Are Sometimes Misunderstood

Having different thought processes is what makes a creative mind what it is. Without thinking differently about things, new ideas and creations wouldn’t be made a reality. We tend to filter everything we see through our way of thinking and this can go against societal norms. People therefore often judge us or misunderstand us by the way we think, act, or even dress and these sorts of misunderstandings can sometimes lead to feelings of isolation, lack of acceptance, or being separated from others.

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2. You Are Self-Absorbed

By this I don’t mean selfish, but more about being consumed with your own feelings and situations. This inevitably leads to over-thinking problems and worrying unnecessarily about the turn-out of a situation or future events. Creative people tend to be very critical about themselves and judge themselves for their more-than-normal feelings and emotions, which can sometimes come across as being self-absorbed unintentionally.

3. You Perceive The World Differently Than Others

To be part of the creative process, you need to have a different perspective of ideas, concepts, and viewpoints. The problem with this is that highly creative people tend to apply this to much of the way they see the world. Seeing things in a different way than others can bring with it a sense of apprehension or lack of comprehension from other people, which can feel frustrating and sometimes isolating.

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4. You Focus More On Imagination Than The Reality of What Is

Imagination is what powers a creative mind. We all live in our own heads but highly creative people tend to love relishing in an alternate reality. While this can be used in a positive way, it can also be detrimental because any negative elements in our imagination can get blown out of proportion. This can result in creating more of a problem than there actually is because the overactive imagination can create false beliefs. Using the imagination for dreaming up ideas, better thoughts, beliefs, and perspectives is a bonus for creative people but once it starts to err on the side of negative, it can be a problematic trait to have.

5. You Actively Seek Criticism From Others

Another problem creative people tend to adopt is a feeling of low self-worth. Constantly putting your ideas and dreams out there can result in experiencing much more negative feedback than people who don’t. It obviously depends on how you look at these experiences, but many creative people develop a lack of self-confidence and feeling like they’re not good enough. Making this a habit means you can actively start to seek criticism from others or even just expect it too much. It’s almost like you’re subconsciously trying to find conformation to validate your belief that you’re just not as good as you can be.

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The world needs creative people so no matter how much you feel like you’re struggling to be heard and understood, feel safe in the knowledge that you are a major contributor to this planet as much as everyone else. Don’t be afraid to be your true self and let go of negative beliefs about yourself. Don’t let anyone stop you from being the wonderful, creative person you are.

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

I’ve stood on the edge of my own personal cliffs many times. Each time I jumped, something different happened. There were risks that started off great, but eventually faded. There were risks that left me falling until I hit the ground. There were risks that started slow, but built into massive successes.

Every risk is different, but every risk is the same. You need to have some fundamentals ready before you jump, but not too many.

It wouldn’t be a risk if you knew everything that was about to happen, would it? Here’re 6 ways to be a successful risk taker.

1. Understand That Failure Is Going to Happen a Lot

It’s part of life. Everything we do has failure attached to it. All successful people have stories of massive failure attached to them. Thinking that your risk is going to be pain free and run as smooth as silk is insane.

Expect some pain and failure. Actually, expect a lot of it. Expect the sleepless nights with crazy thoughts of insecurity that leave you trembling under the covers. It’s going to happen, no matter how positive you are about the risk you are about to take.

When failure hits, the only options are to keep going or quit. If you expect falling into a meadow of flowers and frolicking unicorns, then you’re going to immediately quit once you realize that getting to that meadow requires you to go through a rock filled cave filled with hungry bats.

2. Trust the Muse

Writing a story isn’t a big risk. It’s really just a risk on my time. So when I start writing a story, I’m scared it will be time wasted. Of course, it never really is. Even if the story doesn’t turn out fabulous, I still practiced.

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When I’ve taken risks in my life, the successful ones always seemed to happen when I followed the muse. Steven Pressfield describes the muse,

“The Muse demands depth. Shallow does not work for her. If we’re seeking her help, we can’t stay in the kiddie end. When we work, we have to go hard and go deep.”

The muse is a goddess who wants our attention and wants us to work on our passion.

If you’re taking a risk in anything, it’s assumed that there is some passion built up behind that risk. That passion, deep inside you, is the muse. Trust it, focus on it, listen to it.

The most successful articles and stories I write are the ones I’ve focused all my attention on. There were no interruptions during their creative development. I didn’t check my phone or go watch my Twitter feed. I was fully engaged in my work.

Trust the muse, focus your attention on your risk, let the ideas and path develop themselves, and leave the distractions at the side of the road.

3. Remember to Be Authentic

Taking a risk and then turning into something you’re not, is only going to lead to disaster. Whether you are risking a new relationship or new opportunity, you must be yourself throughout the entire process.

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How many times have you acted like you loved something just because the men or woman you just started going out with loved it?

For example, I’m not an office worker. I have an incredibly hard time working in a confined timeline (ie. 9-5). That’s why I write. I can do it whenever the mood strikes, I don’t have somebody breathing down my neck, telling me that I’m five minutes late, or missed a comma somewhere. I don’t have to walk on eggshells wondering if what I’m writing will get me fired or make me lose a promotion. I can just be myself, period.

One girlfriend didn’t understand that. She believed solely in the 9-5 motto, specifically something in human resources because that was a very stable job. I was scared for my future, but I stuck with the relationship because of my own insecurities and acted like I would do it to make her happy.

Here’s a tip: NEVER take away from your happiness to make somebody else satisfied (note I didn’t say happy).

Making somebody else happy will make you happy. Doing something to satisfy somebody is murder on your soul.

4. Don’t Take Any Risks While You’re Not Clearheaded

I’d been considering the risk for a couple weeks. It all sounded good. I was 22 and I could be rich in a couple of years. That’s what they were selling me, anyways.

One night, while at a house party with some friends, I found myself at a computer. A couple of my friends were standing nearby and asked me what I was doing. I told them I was considering starting my own business and it was only going to cost me $1,500.

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Of course, when a bunch of drunk people are surrounded by more drunk people, things get enthusiastic. It sounded like the best business venture in the world to everybody, including me. So I signed up and gave them my credit card number.

A few painful months and close to $4,000 dollars lost later, I quit the business. I was young and fell into the pyramid scheme trap. It was an expensive drunk decision.

Drinking heavily and making decisions has a proven track record of failure. So when you have something important to decide, don’t let your emotions take over your brain.

5. Fully Understand What You’re Risking

It was the start of my baseball comeback. I got a tryout with a professional scout and killed it. After the tryout, he talked to my girlfriend and myself, making sure we understood I would be gone for up to 6 months at a time. That strain on the relationship could be tough.

We understood. I left to play ball, chose to stay in the city I played in, and a year later we broke up. Not because of baseball, see point 3 above. Taking big risks can have massive impacts on everything in your life from relationships to money. Know what you’re risking before you take the risk.

If you believe the risk will be worth it or you have the support you need from your family, then go ahead and make the leap.

You can get more guidance on how to take calculated risks from this article: How to Take Calculated Risk to Achieve More and Become Successful

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6. Remember This Is Your One Shot Only

As far as we know officially, this is our one shot at life, so why not take some risks?

The top thing people are saddened by on their deathbeds are these regrets. They wish they did more, asked that girl in the coffee shop out, spoke out when they should have, or did what they were passionate about.

Don’t regret. Learn and experience. Live. Take the risks you believe in. Be yourself and make the world a better place.

Now go ahead, take that risk and be successful at it!

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