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If You Have These 5 Struggles, You’re A Highly Creative Person

If You Have These 5 Struggles, You’re A Highly Creative Person

The world needs creative people but sometimes being naturally creative can come at a price. We all reap the benefits of creation but what goes on in the mind of a highly creative person is often far from what we see on the outside.

Confidence seems synonymous with creative people, but a lot of the time they are struggling with much of what goes on in their mind through the way they think and perceive the world compared to others.

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If you’re a highly creative person, the struggles and challenges you face can leave you feeling isolated or lonely. Even people close to you may make you feel like no one gets you and aren’t mindful of how you are really feeling. With this in mind, here are five common struggles that should be acknowledged and understood towards those who are highly creative.

1. You Are Sometimes Misunderstood

Having different thought processes is what makes a creative mind what it is. Without thinking differently about things, new ideas and creations wouldn’t be made a reality. We tend to filter everything we see through our way of thinking and this can go against societal norms. People therefore often judge us or misunderstand us by the way we think, act, or even dress and these sorts of misunderstandings can sometimes lead to feelings of isolation, lack of acceptance, or being separated from others.

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2. You Are Self-Absorbed

By this I don’t mean selfish, but more about being consumed with your own feelings and situations. This inevitably leads to over-thinking problems and worrying unnecessarily about the turn-out of a situation or future events. Creative people tend to be very critical about themselves and judge themselves for their more-than-normal feelings and emotions, which can sometimes come across as being self-absorbed unintentionally.

3. You Perceive The World Differently Than Others

To be part of the creative process, you need to have a different perspective of ideas, concepts, and viewpoints. The problem with this is that highly creative people tend to apply this to much of the way they see the world. Seeing things in a different way than others can bring with it a sense of apprehension or lack of comprehension from other people, which can feel frustrating and sometimes isolating.

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4. You Focus More On Imagination Than The Reality of What Is

Imagination is what powers a creative mind. We all live in our own heads but highly creative people tend to love relishing in an alternate reality. While this can be used in a positive way, it can also be detrimental because any negative elements in our imagination can get blown out of proportion. This can result in creating more of a problem than there actually is because the overactive imagination can create false beliefs. Using the imagination for dreaming up ideas, better thoughts, beliefs, and perspectives is a bonus for creative people but once it starts to err on the side of negative, it can be a problematic trait to have.

5. You Actively Seek Criticism From Others

Another problem creative people tend to adopt is a feeling of low self-worth. Constantly putting your ideas and dreams out there can result in experiencing much more negative feedback than people who don’t. It obviously depends on how you look at these experiences, but many creative people develop a lack of self-confidence and feeling like they’re not good enough. Making this a habit means you can actively start to seek criticism from others or even just expect it too much. It’s almost like you’re subconsciously trying to find conformation to validate your belief that you’re just not as good as you can be.

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The world needs creative people so no matter how much you feel like you’re struggling to be heard and understood, feel safe in the knowledge that you are a major contributor to this planet as much as everyone else. Don’t be afraid to be your true self and let go of negative beliefs about yourself. Don’t let anyone stop you from being the wonderful, creative person you are.

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Last Updated on October 9, 2018

27 Ways to Instantly Feel Better When You’re Down

27 Ways to Instantly Feel Better When You’re Down

Who has never gone through some ups and downs in the life? But some people can feel better in a quicker way than others because they’ve found their own remedies to heal the bad feelings.

If you haven’t found yours, these ways will help you instantly feel better and ditch that negative self talk when you’re feeling bad about yourself:

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  1. Listen to the songs you loved when you were in high school or university, this will recall you of the old good times.
  2. Write something. Write down how you feel as a way to express your thoughts if you don’t feel like talking to anyone.
  3. Draw something. Draw anything you want because no one’s going to judge your drawing skills.
  4. Read the postcards or letters your friends or family sent you before, remind yourself there are people who always remember you.
  5. Silently think of a day or moment which you truly enjoyed and try to recapture that very first feeling. Was it the day of your graduation? The moment you traveled with your loved one?
  6. Take out your photo albums and go over your childhood photos.
  7. Cry when you feel like doing so. There’s nothing wrong with crying; cry out all your fear and stress and just face the truth after crying.
  8. Sing loudly like no one can hear you. Do you know that in Japan, people always sing karaoke to relieve stress?
  9. Cook a nice meal for yourself or for your family.
  10. Read your previous diary entries and look at your great memories.
  11. Dress up nicely to feel happier.
  12. Don’t stay in your bed! Get your laptop or a book and sit in a coffee place.
  13. Take a walk outside and feel the fresh air.
  14. Sweat yourself! Go jogging or play some sports.
  15. Pick up the musical instrument you used to play a lot and start to play it.
  16. Tidy up your desk or wardrobe, you’ll feel good that you’re being productive and actually doing something.
  17. Watch some funny videos, sure you can find a lot of them on Youtube.
  18. Eat something you like, be it a chocolate cake, or an ice-cream. Just please yourself with the flavour you like.
  19. Re-read your favorite book and write down the sentences or passages that you love.
  20. Watch a new movie, there must be a movie which you’ve always interested in but had no time to watch it.
  21. Do something nice that no one will notice, say picking up a rubbish in the street and throw it to a trash bin.
  22. Call your best friend and just talk whatever you want! Human beings are social animals after all, connecting with people close to you will make you feel better.
  23. Do voluntary work and help people in need, you’ll feel happy and satisfied.
  24. Get drunk with your close friends at home – a safe place for you to get drunk and get crazy. Let loose and have fun with your very close friends.
  25. Write an email or a note to a friend who you care about.
  26. Get out of your routine life and meet new friends. Get out of your comfort zone! Meeting new people can give you new inspirations in life.
  27. Look into the mirror and smile. Act like today’s already a wonderful day. How we act affects how we feel. It’s difficult to go on feeling sad if you’re trying to smile!

Remember:

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It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.  — Epictetus

If you want to feel better, change what you’re doing because obviously what you’re doing doesn’t make you happy!

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Featured photo credit: Unsplash via unsplash.com

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