“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” – Jim RohnAdvertising
Fitness is key to our overall health. We all know it, and for those of us who take it seriously, we know how to train our bodies to keep in the best physical shape. Or do we? To truly understand fitness, we must first understand the body. Scientific research and anatomy is paramount to this understanding – we must know we are dealing with on the inside, in order to truly benefit on the outside. And just as an athlete or trainer knows, looking good on the outside means feeling just as good on the inside.Advertising
Understanding The Body
Your back is the number one place in the body that overcompensates for all the other areas that are not in proper use. For instance if we are not training our core muscles properly, our back muscles will begin to overwork, thus resulting in pain, or strained muscles. This need not be the case. However there are negatives for any area that we overwork, or over train. When we talk about fitness, and bodybuilding, we are talking about making each part of the body work at its strongest, building the muscles so that they work together and the body works at its full capacity. If we over train any area, we will land in some rather hot water.Advertising
Back To Front
It is actually better to overwork your back than your chest. Although the chest seems to be the more difficult part of the body to get into peak condition (we often see a good set of guns, but are less likely to see highly developed pectorals) it is very important to approach a chest workout properly. If you only work on your chest, the muscles do not necessarily grow and grow the way you think they might. In fact when you only develop the chest muscles, they grow tighter and tighter, and this begins to affect your overall posture in a way that likely does not match the desired result you were hoping for.Advertising
Excessive development of the chest (and underdevelopment of the back) can lead to a curving of the spine and a condition called ‘Kyphosis’, otherwise known as hunchback. With time the bones can compress, age and crack under the pressure, which is not only very painful, but the complete opposite of what was initially being aimed for. The overall area of the back contains much more muscle than the chest. The two must work with each other in order to develop the chest; unfortunately the back will look fine without the chest being as developed, but the same does not occur vice versa. Working only the chest muscles is non-functional, painful and dangerous. But working the chest and the back muscles, will develop the chest in the way you probably envision. Good posture never fails to look good!
Don’t bench press too often. It can cause you to lose muscle mass and strength rather than gain it if you do it too often. Know that an overall build will always look better, AND you will have less pain in other areas if all your muscle groups are working together as a team. Good back muscles will actually make your chest look bigger. When you pull those back muscles back and shoulders back, that chest you’ve been working will look even bigger. For this reason, it is important that your back is tighter and more muscled than the rest of your body. It’s very difficult for your back to look “too big” or disproportionate by working it too hard. It is, however, easy to overdo the chest muscles if you are not looking after the rest of your body properly.
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Last Updated on November 9, 2020
10 Real Reasons Why Breaking Bad Habits Is So Difficult
Bad habits expose us to suffering that is entirely avoidable. Unfortunately, breaking bad habits is difficult because they are 100% dependent on our mental and emotional state.
Anything we do that can prove harmful to us is a bad habit – drinking, drugs, smoking, procrastination, poor communication are all examples of bad habits. These habits have negative effects on our physical, mental, and emotional health.
Humans are hardwired to respond to stimuli and to expect a consequence of any action. This is how habits are acquired: the brain expects to be rewarded a certain way under certain circumstances. How you initially responded to certain stimuli is how your brain will always remind you to behave when the same stimuli are experienced.
If you visited the bar close to your office with colleagues every Friday, your brain will learn to send you a signal to stop there even when you are alone and eventually not just on Fridays. It will expect the reward of a drink after work every day, which can potentially lead to a drinking problem.
Kicking negative behavior patterns and steering clear of them requires a lot of willpower, and there are many reasons why breaking bad habits is so difficult.
1. Lack of Awareness or Acceptance
Breaking a bad habit is not possible if the person who has it is not aware that it is a bad one.
Many people will not realize that their communication skills are poor or that their procrastination is affecting them negatively, or even that the drink they had as a nightcap has now increased to three.
Awareness brings acceptance. Unless a person realizes on their own that a habit is bad, or someone manages to convince them of the same, there is very little chance of the habit being kicked.
2. No Motivation
Going through a divorce, not being able to cope with academic pressure, and falling into debt are instances that can bring a profound sense of failure with them. A person going through these times can fall into a cycle of negative thinking where the world is against them and nothing they can do will ever help, so they stop trying altogether.
This give-up attitude is a bad habit that just keeps coming around. Being in debt could make you feel like you are failing at maintaining your home, family, and life in general.
If you are looking to get out of a rut and feel motivated, take a look at this article: Why Is Internal Motivation So Powerful (And How to Find It)
3. Underlying Psychological Conditions
Psychological conditions such as depression and ADD can make it difficult to start breaking bad habits.
A depressed person may find it difficult to summon the energy to cook a healthy meal, resulting in food being ordered in or consumption of packaged foods. This could lead to a habit that adversely affects health and is difficult to overcome.
A person with ADD may start to clean their house but get distracted soon after, leaving the task incomplete, eventually leading to a state where it is acceptable to live in a house that is untidy and dirty.
The fear of missing out (FOMO) is very real to some people. Obsessively checking their social media and news sources, they may believe that not knowing of something as soon as it is published can be catastrophic to their social standing.
4. Bad Habits Make Us Feel Good
One of the reasons it is difficult to break habits is that a lot of them make us feel good.
We’ve all been there – the craving for a tub of ice cream after a breakup or a casual drag on a joint, never to be repeated until we miss how good it made us feel. We succumb to the craving for the pleasure felt while indulging in it, cementing it as a habit even while we are aware it isn’t good for us.
Overeating is a very common bad habit. Just another pack of chips, a couple of candies, a large soda… none of these are necessary for survival. We want them because they give us comfort. They’re familiar, they taste good, and we don’t even notice when we progress from just one extra slice of pizza to four.
You can read this article to learn more: We Do What We Know Is Bad for Us, Why?
5. Upward Comparisons
Comparisons are a bad habit that many of us have been exposed to since we were children. Parents might have compared us to siblings, teachers may have compared us to classmates, and bosses could compare us to past and present employees.
The people who have developed the bad habit of comparing themselves to others have been given incorrect yardsticks for measurement from the start.
These people will always find it difficult to break out of this bad habit because there will always be someone who has it better than they do: a better house, better car, better job, higher income and so on.
Research shows that in the age of social media, social comparisons are much easier and can ultimately harm self-esteem if scrolling becomes a bad habit.
6. No Alternative
This is a real and valid reason why breaking bad habits is difficult. These habits could fulfill a need that may not be met any other way.
Someone who has physical or psychological limitations, such as a disability or social anxiety, may find it hard to quit obsessive content consumption for better habits.
Alternately, a perfectly healthy person may be unable to quit smoking because alternates are just not working out.
Similarly, a person who bites their nails when anxious may be unable to relieve stress in any other socially accepted manner.
As mentioned above, anything that stresses us out can lead to adopting and cementing an unhealthy habit.
When a person is stressed about something, it is easy for bad habits to form because the mental resources required to fight them are not available.
We often see a person who had previously managed to kick a bad habit fall back into the old ways because they felt their stress couldn’t be managed any other way.
If you need some help reducing stress, check out the following video for some healthy ways to get started:
8. Sense of Failure
People looking to kick bad habits may feel a strong sense of failure because it’s just that difficult.
Dropping a bad habit usually means changes in lifestyle that people may be unwilling to make, or these changes might not be easy to make in spite of the will to make them.
Overeaters need to empty their house of unhealthy food, resist the urge to order in, and not pick up their standard grocery items from the store. Those who drink too much need to avoid the bars or even people who drink often.
If such people slip even once with a glass of wine, or a smoke, or a bag of chips, they tend to be excessively harsh on themselves and feel like failures.
9. The Need to Be All-New
People who are looking to break bad habits feel they need to re-create themselves in order to break themselves of their bad habits, while the truth is the complete opposite.
These people actually need to go back to who they were before they developed the bad habit and try to create good habits from there.
10. Force of Habit
Humans are creatures of habit, and having familiar, comforting outcomes for daily triggers helps us maintain a sense of balance in our lives.
Consider people who are used to lighting up a cigarette every time they talk on the phone or eating junk food when watching TV. They will always associate a phone call with a puff on the cigarette and screen time with eating.
These habits, though bad, are a source of comfort to them, as is meeting with those people they indulge in these bad habits with.
These are the main reasons why breaking bad habits is difficult, but the good news is that the task is not impossible. Breaking habits takes time, and you’ll need to put long-term goals in place to replace a bad habit with a good one.
There are many compassionate, positive and self-loving techniques to kick bad habits. The internet is rich in information regarding bad habits, their effects and how to overcome them, while professional help is always available for those who feel they need it.
More on Breaking Bad Habits
- How to Break a Bad Habit (and Replace It With a Good One)
- How Long Does It Take to Break a Habit? Science Will Tell You
- 18 Tricks to Make New Habits Stick
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