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7 Signs That Your Colleagues Secretly Don’t Like You

7 Signs That Your Colleagues Secretly Don’t Like You

I know, I know: How can anyone not like you? Unfortunately, no matter how hard you try to please everyone, there are going to be people that just don’t enjoy your company. There’s nothing wrong with that. But you also shouldn’t waste your time trying to make them like you. Instead, recognize the signs, and realize it’s out of your hands. Stay away from those who think you’re a nuisance, and find better colleagues to hang out with.

1. They don’t smile around you

Obviously, this is a telltale sign that someone doesn’t like you. If a coworker can’t even muster up the strength to smile at you when they walk past you in the hallway, they probably don’t want anything to do with you. Of course, if it happens once, you can probably assume they’re having a bad day. But if it happens continuously, you’ll know there’s a problem.

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2. They don’t make eye contact with you

Making eye contact with someone is a sign of trust and respect. If a colleague refuses to literally see eye-to-eye with you, chances are they figuratively don’t, either. If they’re constantly focused on their phone or computer, or anything else other than your face while you’re speaking, it should be clear that they have better things to do than waste time talking to you; and you definitely have better things to do than waste time talking to them.

3. They spread rumors about you

What is this, high school? I’m sure it’s not that hard to believe that even adults spread rumors from time to time. And you can rest assured that if they take the time to spread a rumor about you, it’s because they actively do not like you. But think about it: do you really want to be friends with someone who hasn’t grown out of such juvenile behavior?

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4. They don’t talk much to you

I know small talk is boring, but it can be done with just about anyone. It’s not hard to do. You can talk to someone you’ve never met about sports or the weather, and you can be sure they’ll at least engage with you for a short period of time. When someone completely ignores your attempts at small talk, it’s pretty obvious they’d rather be doing anything than talking to you.

5. They exhibit negative body language toward you

Think of how you act when you get caught in a conversation you don’t want to be in. You probably slouch a bit, shuffle your feet, or nod your head quickly as if to say “Uh-huh, yea, that’s great, gotta go.” Again, if this happens once in a while you shouldn’t jump to any conclusions, as they might just be in a rush to get something finished. But if someone consistently exhibits such unfriendly body language toward you, just submit to the realization they don’t want to associate with you.

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6. They don’t include you

Some people might not be so forthright in showing their disdain for you. Be on the lookout for passive-aggressive behavior as well. Notice when people are intentionally leaving you out of office functions, such as happy hour or birthday parties. They might even neglect to bring you into important meetings or group projects. If this happens, you might want to have a discussion with your team about what can be done to fix the issue.

7. They ignore you

There’s not much worse than being treated as if you’re completely invisible. If this happens to you in the workplace, definitely speak up to your supervisor. You should be especially mindful when colleagues ignore your requests for help or your suggestions on how to better go about a specific issue. When their juvenile behavior has a direct negative effect on the productivity of the company, it’s time for changes to be made.

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10 Best Free Job Apps You Need For Effective Job Hunting

10 Best Free Job Apps You Need For Effective Job Hunting

Seeking for the right job but not sure how to do it in a more effective way?

Try job search apps!

To make the job hunting process easier, I’m recommending 10 best job apps that can help you look for the right match anywhere at any time. The best of all? They’re all free!

1. jobandtalent

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    Great for browsing new jobs as you commute home via subway, bus or carpool, the jobandtalent app is like a Pinterest for job seekers.

    Easily browse, save and revisit job postings from your smartphone and receive notifications about jobs that match your professional qualifications.

    Download it for iOS and Android.

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    2. Jobr

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      This job hunting app is unique in that it lets you anonymously browse job listings based on your professional resume. If a company that you like also shows an interest in you, the app let’s you chat directly with a company rep. Great for getting your foot in the door and making a memorable impression.

      Download it for iOS.

      3. Monster Job Search

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        I’m a big fan of Monster. It’s one of the first job sites employers think of when they want to list a new position online. The Monster Job Search app functions pretty similarly to the normal website, so it’s very easy to use for not-so-tech-savvy job hunters.

        Download it for iOS and Android.

        4. Jobs and Career Search

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          This is a good, simple app for browsing global locations for your next job. With a job index of more than 50,000 jobs listed globally, this app is a good choice if you are moving to a new area and want to line a new job up quickly.

          Download it for iOS.

          5. Hyper Networking Groups

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            This job hunting app isn’t so much a job hunting app as it is a connections hunting app. It’s great for learning who’s who in your desired field and forming connections. It also shows you how you and your industry connections are connected via your social networks, so you can follow up with them on your other social sites.

            Download it for iOS.

            6. CardDrop

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              CardDrop is an awesome job hunting app that let’s you digitally drop and pick up virtual business cards. This app is great for helping you make new connections at seminars, interviews, meetings and conferences. You can also attach social media profiles to the cards you pick up or send to enable easier connecting on social networks.

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              Download it for Android and iOS.

              7. Job Interview Questions

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                Okay, so this app looks kind of outdated, but it’s super useful for getting you into the swing of answering any kind of interview question that is thrown your way. The big benefit of using this app is that it explains to you what your interviewers motivations might be for asking you a specific kind of question. Learn what your interviewer is looking for in your answers and be more prepared for the real interview when the time comes.

                Download it for Android.

                8. 101 Interview Questions and Answers

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                  This app is great because it provides guidance about the kinds of answers you should give for each kind of question. Think of it as an essay rubric but for job interview questions.

                  Download it for Android.

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                  9. Job Interview Question-Answer

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                    Feeling confident with your text-answered interview questions but concerned about doing the face-to-face interview? This app prepares you for interacting with your interviewer by simulating an employer asking you questions.

                    You can record your response and see what you look like to the interviewer to understand what movements, vocal pauses, etc. you need to work on.

                    Download this app for iOS and Android.

                    10. HireVue

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                      HireVue is a great job hunting app for those times when your interviewer wants to get some preliminary questions out of the way.

                      When an interested employer wants to interview you, they send you a request via HireVue and you can answer it in your free time, when you’re ready. Your interview might consist of a some FaceTime, some multiple choice questions or open-ended text answers and can be completed and sent to the interviewer when you’re finish.

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                      Download it for Android and iOS.

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