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Last Updated on January 10, 2022

13 Tips For Making New Year’s Resolutions Come True

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13 Tips For Making New Year’s Resolutions Come True

New Year’s resolutions are a funny thing, aren’t they? Everyone gets together and promises that this year they’re going to do better. They’re going to achieve this, change that and ultimately be fulfilled by the end of the year. Then the booze and excitement of the night before wears off. Reality hits. That goal you just saw the New Year in with, that seemed feasible, now seems like an overwhelmingly large mountain to climb.

Sure, you might try and stick to it. Maybe even keep it up for a couple of weeks. Then life has its way of taking over, and eventually you give up. “I’ll try again next year,” you comfort yourself with.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could change that? If you could set a New Year’s resolution and actually stick to it? How incredible would it feel to set a goal, put in the work, and achieve it? You don’t have to wonder. You can do it.

This year can be your year of change. It can be the year that you actually achieve your resolutions. Want to know how? Of course you do, you wouldn’t be reading otherwise. So here it is, 13 tips you can use to set a goal and achieve it.

1. Tell People about Your Resolutions

By telling people about your resolutions, you are consciously committing to them.

If you’ve told someone you’re going to do something, people are going to be expecting you to do it. You’ve not just made the commitment to you, you’ve made it to everyone you’ve told.

Another nice benefit of telling people about your resolutions is the support that comes with them. When the right people know about your resolution, they’ll stand behind you in achieving it. They’ll act as a support net, to spur you on even when you think you can’t do it.

2. Limit the Number of The Resolutions You Set

Each resolution is a goal and goals compete with one another for your attention.

Setting one or two resolutions is appropriate. More than that will get distracting.

3. Clarify Your Resolutions

Ensure that your resolution can be actively tracked. Take, for example, a resolution of reading more.

This is too vague.

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How will you know when you’ve achieved this goal?

Will you be satisfied with reading a book once a month? A week? A day?

The only way to know if you’ve achieved your resolution is by clarifying them so that they’re achievable and you can stay on track with them.

If you want to read more, then you’re far better off setting a tangible and achievable goal — such as reading two books a month. This offers small steps to achieve the goal and you can track your progress easily too.

You’ll know if you’ve slacked on it, and you’ll know if you’ve achieved it!

As thought-leader Michael Hyatt once explained, the clarification of goals makes them seem more feasible in your mind. You can find a very well-written post by him, on clarifying goals (in writing) here [1]

4. Avoid Your Past Failure

If you set the current resolution in the past, remember what caused you to fail and find a way around it.

5. Make a Plan

Once clarified, you can then create a plan to break down the clarified goal into smaller sub-goals that you can achieve daily. If you imagine your resolution as small, actionable steps, the achievement of the goal becomes feasible in your head.

Take the reading example. If you want to read 100 books a year, that could seem pretty overwhelming. If you break that down to reading one book every 4 days, it becomes more realistic.

This way you can also actively monitor your progress, and you’ll know whether or not you’re on target to meet it.

You can find a great post explaining how setting purpose only goals helps, as well as how to adequately plan them in this ultimate guide.

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6. Take Small Steps

Not every bit of progress needs to be massive leaps and bounds.

Remember to begin small and simple.

7. Re-Frame Your Resolutions

Your resolution should not be putting you down. Don’t allow your resolution to become a passive way of saying, “I won’t be good enough until I achieve this.”

This is a sure-fire way to become demotivated by the idea of achieving them, and can really get you down in the long run.

Take a new perspective on goals. Remind yourself that you’re good enough, each and every day and that your goals are just serving as a means to be better.

You’re not doing it to be enough, you’re doing it to be MORE.

A resolution sticks more when you have that kind of perspective that really begins to push your preconceived limits.

8. Stop Focusing on The End Result

As Jeff Haden said, when we commit to a goal, we really should commit to the process. [2] The idea of the goals can often feel like we’re holding them at arm’s length.

As though we should just achieve them and we’re done. When we commit to the process, the journey, of the goal, however, it’s a lot easier to make it an enjoyable experience.

The goal is in the distance, getting there is where our focus needs to be. You can’t constantly be looking at the map to see your end destination while driving, otherwise, you’ll crash on the way there.

9. Know When to Take a Break

Burning out is a very real possibility when you’re not taking breaks. Find the time each day to let your mind relax.

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No goal or resolution should consume your mind from the moment of waking to the moment of sleep. Taking effective breaks has also been shown to increase our productivity.

With that said, checking your social media accounts and watching TV are not breaks for the mind – they’re probably more stressful.

Meditate, sing, take a walk, have a shower, do a small workout or something similar instead.

If you want to know more about the advantages of taking breaks, but don’t want to sift through an academic paper, here’s a great read: The Art of Taking a Break So You Will Be Productive Again

10. Push Yourself

There’s a great quote by Bruce Lee, that says:

“If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”

How this relates to reaching your resolutions is very simple: there will be plateaus in your progress towards achieving them.

There will be points where you’re uncertain that you can really achieve what you’ve set out to do. Not just in your New Year’s resolutions but in life, in general.

This is where you need to push yourself.

You can’t accept “no” for an answer. Dig deep, find the will within to push past the plateau. Discouragement can become fuel when we allow it to be.

Setbacks can become fuel when we allow them to be. You’ve simply got to keep pushing. You will achieve it. Tell yourself you’ll excel. You’ll be surprised how much more capable you really are.

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11. Reward Yourself

Temptation bundling is a strangely, yet unsurprisingly, simple way to push yourself to achieve more. The premise is simple, tie what you want to achieve (but seem to be struggling to do so) with a reward, and get the reward each time you work towards the goal.

A good example is your workout. If you really enjoy listening to audiobooks, but don’t like working out, and your resolution is to work out more frequently – limit your audiobook listening time to the gym.

If you like your audiobooks enough, it’ll spur you on to actually go work out.[3]

12. Don’t Give in to the Critic

You’re going to have doubters. They’re a part of life.

So why not use them to motivate and encourage you?

Now okay, it’s probably not best to be striving to achieve something out of spite, but as Collis Ta’eed says, people will try to bind you to their own self-set limitations.

Take their criticism, and tell yourself that you’re not bound by what they’re bound to. Go out, make it happen, achieve it. Then, when all is said and done, go back to the critic and respectfully tell them of your achievement, and thank them for their help.

Not only will you have achieved something, but you have the potential to help another being evaluate why they’ve set such limits for themselves. It’s a win-win. (Plus you can be a little smug, but only a little.)

13. Celebrate Your Achievements

Forget what others think about it, if you’re happy about the progress you’re making, you have every right to celebrate it and shout it from the rooftops.

It’ll only empower you to continue pursuing that goal.

Final Thought

It’s important to set your goals and to aim to achieve them. But, if at the end of the year you find that you haven’t fulfilled them all, don’t be too hard on yourself.

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Our life is a cycle, our goals might change through the year, remember to be the best version of yourself and the results will surely come.

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