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10 Common Reasons Most People Fail

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10 Common Reasons Most People Fail

Failure is, unfortunately, an unavoidable part of life. While it’s never fun to fail at something, failure offers a good opportunity to grow and learn from your mistakes. However, if you’re finding yourself failing a little more often than you would like, it might be time to address some issues. Here are the top 10 reasons people fail, and how to fix each mistake:

1. They don’t look before they leap.

Sometimes, spontaneity is a good thing. However, it’s often good to do some planning before tackling a big task. For example, don’t go into a music audition without looking at the music first–that sets you up for failure. Instead, practice until you feel ready to perform.

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2. They don’t want it enough.

Often, to get the things you want, you’re going to have to want it really badly. This motivates you to do your absolute best. Try to envision yourself succeeding at whatever you’re working toward. That way, you’ll be pushed to do well.

3. They don’t look for alternatives.

So what if something isn’t working out? Try tackling it from a different angle. You might be surprised how many things you could accomplish if you just tried approaching it in a slightly different way. This gives you a completely new perspective and might end up in success.

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4. They give up.

For some people, failing once means never trying again. But there’s a lot to be said for those who bounce back and keep trying. It shows persistence and often leads to success. Don’t get too discouraged after failing once or twice. Keep going and you’re more likely to get what you want.

5. They don’t have a goal.

You can’t succeed if you don’t know what you want. If you haven’t defined what constitutes a success, you can’t ever reach it. Make sure you have a very clear idea of what success means to you. That way, you have a concrete goal in mind that you can work towards and eventually reach.

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6. They don’t heed advice from others.

Listening to those who have been in your shoes in the past can be very helpful. Reach out to those who understand what you’re going through and have accomplished what you’re working toward. They might just give you a piece of advice that will change your entire view of the problem.

7. They listen to too much advice.

Conversely, listening to too much advice at once can get confusing. Limit yourself to a handful of people who really know what they’re talking about. Chances are, many people who try to dole out advice don’t know much about the subject. Only seek help from people who know exactly what you’re going through and have the skill set to talk about the topic.

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8. They have too many excuses.

Excuses can only get you so far. Instead of making excuses as to why you’re failing, try thinking about what the real reasons are for your failure. The sooner you face these reasons, the sooner you can get back on track to success. Address any major issues and get back on your feet as quickly as possible.

9. They’re all talk and no show.

We all know someone who talks a big game but never follows through. Don’t be that person. Yes, you should plan and talk things out with others, but don’t let that get in the way of actually doing something.

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10. They misjudge.

Time, difficulty, monetary investment–a lot of people fail because they haven’t done their homework properly. Before you start a project, make sure you know what you’re getting into. Always overestimate to give yourself some wiggle room.

Featured photo credit: The Wit & Wisdom of Winston – Oct 2010 – Westerham Pub Wall – Those Two Imposters/Gareth Williams via flickr.com

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Last Updated on January 13, 2022

How to Use Travel Time Effectively

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How to Use Travel Time Effectively

Most of us associate travel and time with what we’re going to do one we get to our destination. Planning and mapping out what to do once you arrive can certainly make for a more pleasurable vacation, but there are things you can do while you are on your way that can make it even better.

Sure, you can plan for the things you’re going to do on your vacation while you are travelling en route – but what about making use of that time for other things that you don’t usually do when you’re at home? You don’t need to have your gadgets with you to do it, and you can really connect with yourself if you take the time to manage your life while heading towards your vacation destination.

Here are some great tips to help you with your time management while you travel, some of which are more conventional than others. Nonetheless, you can find out what works best for you and apply them accordingly depending on when and how you are travelling.

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1. Take Your Time Getting There

As I write this, I’m on a flight to San Francisco. Flying is the fastest way to get from place to place, and for many people it’s really the only way to travel.

But I’ve often taken the train or ferry on trips so that I have extra time without distraction to get more done. I’m not worrying about navigation or lack of space to do what I want to do. Instead I’m able to focus on getting stuff done during the time I’ve got without feeling rushed. For example, when I took the train from Vancouver to Portland, it was an eight hour trip and I managed to get a ton of writing done and closed a lot of open loops. It also was less expensive than flying, which was a bonus.

Sometimes taking the long way to get somewhere on vacation can be the best thing for you to get somewhere with your life.

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2. Go Gadget-Free

This is going to be a tough one for a lot of you. But why do you need to bring your gadgets with you when you go on vacation? It isn’t be a bad idea to leave all but one of them behind, and only pull out that one when you absolutely need to do so. In some countries, you’d be wise to be discreet with them anyway since flaunting them in front of those that are less fortunate than you isn’t a good practice. While it may not seem like flaunting to you, in different cultures it can definitely come across that way.

If you can’t go gadget-free, then at least go Internet-free. If you use a task management app that requires syncing across your multiple devices to be effective, remember that if you only have the one device with you then it can be the “master device” for the time being and will store your data locally anyway. Just sync up when you get home.

3. Reflect and Prepare

Finally, going on any sort of excursion gives you the perfect opportunity to reflect on where you’ve been. The fact you have removed yourself from where you usually are can give you a perspective that you simply can’t get when you’re at home. You may want to journal your thoughts during this time – and by taking more time to get to your destination you’ll have more time to dig deeper into it.

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After a period of reflection – however long that happens to be – you can then begin to not only prepare for the rest of your travels, you can prepare for the rest of what happens afterward. The reflection period is important, though. You need to really know where you’ve been in order to properly look at where you want to be. Time away from things gives you that chance.

Conclusion

Traveling isn’t always about where you’re going and how quickly you can get there. In fact, it’s rarely about that at all.

More often it’s where you’re at in your head that will dictate how much you benefit from traveling. So don’t just go somewhere fast. Instead, take your time on the way there and take the time to connect with not only where you are but who are while you’re there.

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If you do that, you’ll have a better chance to be who you want to be when you leave.

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