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How to Change from a Spender (100|0|0) to a Saver (80|10|10).

How to Change from a Spender (100|0|0)  to a Saver (80|10|10).

So what’s with all of these numbers anyway?

The spender can look something like this: 100 | 0 | 0

Live” with 100% of your monthly income.

Save” with 0% of your monthly income.

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Give” with 0% of your monthly income.

And the saver can look something like this: 80 | 10 | 10

Live” with 80% of your monthly income.

Save” with 10% of your monthly income.

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Give” with 10% of your monthly income.

So what are you: a spender or a saver? If you are like me, you are probably somewhere in between and your significant other is unlikely to have the same numbers as you do. There is some math to this, so be prepared to have pencil and paper in hand.

The challenge is to change your numbers so you will never revert back to being that “spender” ever again! Change your numbers gradually by a small percentage (1 to 4% each quarter) and in 8 quarters (2 years), you will be where you want to be!

Let’s start by doing a reality and motivation check.

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The reality of our culture is to collect “stuff.” George Carlin, the late comedian, had a comedy sketch that nails this. George did not always use delicate vocabulary, but he sure could make you remember his point.

Our motivation to be a saver (and not a spender) is weakened by our desire to live in “ATM” mode. We like the freedom (but not the responsibility) of getting anything we want whenever we want. The secret here is timing. Go ahead and plan to spend what you want—but not all right at this very moment. Take your time (the rest of your life) doing it. The more you think about the value of your spending, the less money you will need to acquire the lifestyle that you want. It is also a sustainable approach, and that will motivate you to spend “wisely” and not “quickly!”

Say you go out to a flea market and buy a thing-a-ma-jig for almost nothing! What a great purchase, right? You put it in the garage (where the car could go)  and 3 years later you realize that you haven’t used it once. You decide to donate it to Good Will and at least recycle it.

Three years ago you also spent some serious coin on a really nice self-propelled grass mower because you have too much green on your property. You own two blades and you keep them sharp which helps you get a clean cut on your lawn. You now have to buy another one because you just plum wore the thing out. Now which was the better purchase?

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Well, now it’s time to do this spender-to-saver conversion plan, so let’s get organized. There are three steps that will get you on the road to abundant living.

  1. Track your debt and start eliminating outstanding balances.
  2. Live below your means. You can do things to reduce the cost of living AND increase the quality of your life.
  3. Save using a three bucket accumulation plan, sequentially at first and then concurrently, once you are in the savings groove.

First, go here to download your complementary copy of your Debt Trakker. Complete ALL the debt metrics because you need them to decide what to pay minimums on and what to target as your first debt victim.

Second, go here to download your complementary copy of your Budget Master. This organizer is a real eye opener and will tell you two things. It will show you where your spending makes you feel bad and where your spending makes you feel good. And I’m NOT talking about how much “stuff” you are accumulating along the way. Keep working on it until ALL your spending makes you feel good. And spending includes saving and giving.

Third: now it’s time to do your lifetime planning. Click this (Cash Flow LifeLine & Three Bucket Savings Plan) and download your handy-dandy worksheet and map your future. It gets you started on your savings path that includes cash reserve, non-retirement savings, and retirement savings.

You will start taking debt payments (once you pay off balances) and convert them into savings and giving payments. Start by fully funding cash reserves (6 months of monthly expenses covered between bank savings and unused credit lines). Then start saving for non-retirement items such as cars, homes, education, dental, eyes, vacations, remodeling. Once your cash reserves are in place and some non-retirement savings are accumulated, then you can start to fully fund retirement. You should have assassinated your debt balances by now and could have more monthly cash flow to fund your future. Remember that you are likely to live longer than you think, so go crazy with your savings. And, for the record, savings IS future spending!

Plan to spend it all, but not right now!

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Develop a Millionaire Mindset in 6 Simple Steps

How to Develop a Millionaire Mindset in 6 Simple Steps

We all like to dream about being financially wealthy. For most people though, it remains a dream and nothing more. Why is that?

It’s because most people don’t set their mind to achieving that goal. They might not be happy in their current situation but they’re comfortable – and comfort is one of the biggest enemies of growth.

How do you go about developing that millionaire mindset? By following these simple steps:

1. Focus On What You Want – And Take It!

So many people are too timid to admit they want something and go for it. When there is something that you want to accomplish don’t think “I could never actually do that”, think “I could do that and I WILL do that”.

Millionaires play to win, not to avoid defeat.

This doesn’t mean to have to become a selfish jerk. What it means is becoming more assertive and honest with yourself. You don’t have to grab off other people. There is a big pot of unclaimed gold in the middle of the table — why shouldn’t you be the one to claim it? You deserve it!

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2. Become Goal-Orientated

It’s almost impossible to achieve anything if you don’t set firm goals. Only lottery winners become millionaires overnight. By setting yourself attainable goals, you will get there eventually. Don’t try to get rich quickly — get rich slowly.

Let’s take the idea of making your first million dollars and expand on what kind of goals you might set to get there. Let’s also say you’re starting at a break-even position – you’re making enough to get by with a few luxuries, but nothing more.

Your goal for the first year can be having $10,000 in the bank within a year. It won’t be easy but it is doable. Next, you need to figure out the steps you need to take to achieve that goal.

Always look at ways to make growth before cutbacks. With that in mind, you might want to see if you can negotiate a pay rise with your boss, or if there’s another job out there that will pay better. You might be comfortable in your old job but remember, comfort stunts growth.

You may also have other skills outside of your workplace that you can monetize to boost your bank balance. Maybe you can design websites for people, at a fee of course, or make alterations to clothes.

If this is still not enough to make the money you need to save $10,000 in a year, then it’s time to look at cutbacks. Do you have a bunch of old junk that someone else might love? Sell it! Do you really need to spend $10 on your lunch everyday when you could make your own for a fraction of the cost?

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If you are to become a millionaire, you need to start accumulating money.

Here’re some tips to help you: How to Become Goal Oriented and Achieve More in Life

3. Don’t Spend Your Money – Invest It

The reason you need to accumulate money is for step three. Millionaires tend to be frugal people, and that’s because they know the true value of money is in investing. Being your own boss goes hand-in-hand with becoming a millionaire. You’ll want to quit your regular job at some point.

Stop working for your money and make your money work for you.

Rather than buying yourself a new iPad, that $500 could be used to invest in the stock market. Find the right shares (more on that later), and that money could easily double within a year.

There’s not just the stock market — there’s also property, and your own education.

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4. Never Stop Learning

The best thing you can invest in is yourself.

Once most people leave the education system, they think their learning days are over. Well theirs might be, but yours shouldn’t be. Successful people continually learn and adapt.

Billionaire Warren Buffet estimates that he read at least 100 books on investing before he turned twenty. Most people never read another book after they’ve left school. Who would you rather be?

Learn everything you can about how economics works, how the stocks markets work, how they trend.

Learn new skills. If you have an interest in it, learn everything you can about it. You’d be surprised at how often, seemingly useless skills, can become extremely useful in the right situation.

Start developing the habit of learning continuously: How to Create a Habit of Continuous Learning for a Better You

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5. Think Big

While I advise to start off with small goals, you absolutely should have a big goal in mind. If you have a business idea, then that is your ultimate goal – to start that business and make a success of it. If you want to invest your way to millions of dollars and do little work other than research, then that is your big goal.

There is no shame in not achieving a big goal. If you run a business and aim to make $1 million profit in a year and “only” make $200,000, then you’re still significantly ahead of most people.

Aim for the stars, if you fail you’ll still be over the moon.

6. Enjoy the Attention

To be successful, you have to be willing to promote yourself and enjoy the attention to a certain extent. Now the attention doesn’t need to be on yourself, it could be on your brand, but attention definitely attracts money.

Never be embarrassed to get your name out there. That means finding a spotlight and being brave enough to step right up underneath it.

If you run a business, try contacting the local papers. You’d be surprised at how amenable they often are to running a story about you and your business, and it’s all free publicity.

Above all, remember: You control your own destiny. Push hard enough for anything and you’ll get it.

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