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Mom Sheds Light On What People Have Said About Her Adopted Children Through Photos

Mom Sheds Light On What People Have Said About Her Adopted Children Through Photos

A daughter by definition is “a female child or person, in relation to her mother, father or both”. Relation is “the way in which two or more people are connected”. Some people however, do not know or understand that you do not need to be related to be connected as family. Kim Kelley-Wagner is a mother of two who has recently posted a series of photos in an album titled “Things said to or about my adopted daughters” on her Facebook. Though it may not seem like it, children are always listening. What we say out of ignorance can really hurt them and linger in their thoughts.

 “Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother.” – Oprah Winfrey

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         “I am not broken because I am adopted, I am blessed.” – adoption.com

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               “There are no unwanted children, just unfound families.” – The National Adoption Center

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                    “I have four children, two are adopted, I forget which two.” – Bob Constantine

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                          “It’s important to realize that we adopt not because we are rescuers. No. We adopt because we are rescued.” – David Platt

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                                “Adoption is not a birth-mother’s rejection but an unconditional love that inspires her to put herself last and do all she can for her baby.” – Unknown

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                                    “Somehow destiny comes into play. These children end up with you and you end up with them. It’s something quite magical.” – Nicole Kidman

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                                          On her Facebook, Kim says “I have tried to explain to my daughters that people do not say these things to be mean, they say them out of ignorance, which is why I am sharing some of them. Words are powerful, they can become tools or weapons, choose to use them wisely.” All children are unique in their own way but they all need love and encouragement. They see your actions, hear your words and sometimes, if the words are said enough, think your thoughts so be mindful of what you say. Adopted children are not an exception to that rule either, they are no different from any other family with a biological child. It does not mean they love their parents any less, or that they are loved any less. It just means there were a few more pieces of paper involved in order to complete a family.

                                          “Be careful what you say, you can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there” – Joel Osteen

                                          Featured photo credit: Family – Jill Wellington via pixabay.com

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                                          7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

                                          7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

                                          What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

                                          For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

                                          It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

                                          1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

                                          The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

                                          What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

                                          The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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                                          2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

                                          Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

                                          How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

                                          If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

                                          Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

                                          3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

                                          Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

                                          If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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                                          These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

                                          What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

                                          4. What are my goals in life?

                                          Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

                                          Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

                                          5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

                                          Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

                                          Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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                                          You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

                                          Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

                                          6. What do I not like to do?

                                          An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

                                          What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

                                          Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

                                          The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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                                          7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

                                          Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

                                          But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

                                          “What do I want to do with my life?”

                                          So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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