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8 Ways to Actually Deliver on Your Promises

8 Ways to Actually Deliver on Your Promises

It’s easy to make promises. You just have to say that you will do something. It’s just talk. We make promises to our coworkers, family, kids, and friends. We make promises to everyone. But it’s a lot harder to keep them. Keeping promises means actually doing what you said you would do.

One solution to keeping promises could be to not make promises at all, but that means you are no longer reliable and trustworthy to others. So instead of taking the inactive path, think of applying some new tactics:

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1. Don’t over-promise

The bigger the promise, the less likely you are to live up to it. Don’t just say what the person wants to hear. Tell them what you think you can reasonably offer. For example, if someone asks if you can come to their graduation party, but you have another party the same day, don’t say yes because they want you to say yes. Say that you might be able to and stick to it.

2. Deliver well

Give it your best. When your boss asks you to do a special task, complete the task to the best of your ability. Don’t under-do it. If the task involves several requirements, don’t just do some of them. Do them all!

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3. Remember!

When is the last time you forgot a promise that you made? Write it down the next time, even if it is something small. Every promise counts. If you are finding your schedule filling up, try prioritizing so that the most important things get done first.

4. Be cautious

When someone is asking you do something or when you are expected to do something, think before you speak. You might promise someone too much if you respond to quickly. By taking your time, you are more likely to promise exactly what you can give.

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5. Be communicative

When you make your promise, be as concise as possible. If the description of your promise is vague, then the other person may assume more of you. Say exactly what it is that you are willing to promise. After you make the promise, communicate with the person often. If you find that you cannot deliver on time or as well as you thought you could, then communicate that as soon as possible. By keeping in contact, you are showing the other person that you are making an effort to keep your promise.

6. Be consistent

Make promises that are similar in nature. In this way you can be sure of yourself and that your are not making too big of a promise for yourself. Similar to running long distances, the runner needs to pace him or herself. If the runner goes to slowly, they will not finish in time, and if they go to fast, they will tire out. Balance is key.

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7. It takes effort

It isn’t easy to deliver on your promises, and it will never be easy. Like most things, delivering on your promises requires effort. They will not make themselves. Keep pushing yourself until you get absolutely everything done.

8. Follow up

If you stick to your word, then maybe ask if there’s anything else needed. Stay present and available. If you didn’t follow through on your promise, then follow up. Explain why you could not keep your word and how you will make up for it. Then, actually do it.

9. If you can overdo something, then overdo it.

Give it everything you’ve got… and then some. Keep your promises at your own pace, don’t offer too much, and deliver more than expected. You will be responsible, and people will have more trust in you.

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

4. What are my goals in life?

Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

6. What do I not like to do?

An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

“What do I want to do with my life?”

So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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