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If You Have These 7 Habits, You Will Be Smart Enough To Create Something That Matters

If You Have These 7 Habits, You Will Be Smart Enough To Create Something That Matters

You’ve probably found yourself here because you’re curious to see whether you have any of the habits mentioned. We’re all capable of creating something that matters. Sometimes, we just get stuck in a rut and it’s hard to come out of it. Our minds work in incredible ways, but even the smartest and most creative people run out of ideas sometimes. Check out the 7 habits below, and start incorporating them into your life today.

1. Direct Experience is better than Filtered Experience

If you’re unsure of what the difference is, direct experience is when we interact with something, such as another person or nature, without the influence of culture or media. Filtered experience is just the opposite. When you drown yourself in what’s going on with others and submerge yourself with the dramatizations the media sometimes has, you can have a very distorted view and opinion of what’s going on around you. Direct experience allows you to look at everything through your own lens.

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2. Throw away self-censorship

Rejecting the ideas of others is somewhat common. But when you’re rejecting, denying, silencing, and shutting your own ideas down completely, that is a total crime against your creativity. Actually, it’s an act of mindlessness. By self-censoring, you shut down your imagination, and the long-term effects will eventually kill off your curiosity and creativity completely. The society in which we live teaches us to self-censor both directly and indirectly. If you feel that you’ve inherited self-censorship, identify it as a problem and be consciously aware of it so you’re able to get yourself back to a place where your ideas and creativity come to you with ease.

3. Stop telling stories about your past

Sometimes it’s difficult to not talk about our pasts. Over and over, we tell people stories from long ago, and doing that can keep us in the same place. We’ve made mistakes and learned from them so that we can become better people and smarter people. When you stop telling others, and more importantly, yourself, stories from the past that are ultimately holding you back, you can start using those energies to work towards a better future.

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4. You don’t need to explain yourself

There are times when we find that we are trying to explain ourselves and our actions to others. When you feel this starting to happen, flip the script, in a sense. Your intuition is powerful, so use it. When you find yourself holding on to choices that are no longer serving you, let them go. Once you do, creativity will find its way back to you.

5. More restrictions allow for more creativity

By putting limitations on yourself, you’ll force yourself to think outside the box, and this could ignite some new ideas. People usually believe that when you have more freedom, you will be more creative. As surprising as it may be, that isn’t so. When you place some constraints on yourself, you will begin to look for unconventional ways to get around those limitations. This is when creativity will truly flourish.

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6. Quantity over quality

You will typically hear that just the opposite is true, and most times, it is. It’s an age-old lesson. However, sometimes, quantity should take priority over quality, because in the end, it leads to higher quality. If you seek quantity over quality, you will get both. Let me give you a quick example. John Lennon didn’t like the sound of his own voice. Could you just imagine if he had never released any music to the world until he loved his voice? When you’re able to produce more than one thing at once, you’ll be less likely to be disappointed if something flops and doesn’t work out. Diversity is the insurance of the mind!

7. Don’t be afraid to get stuck

That overwhelming feeling that you’re stuck can really make things difficult. The brain is one of the parts of our bodies that we know the least about. It works in very mysterious ways. When you’re stuck, step away from the thing that is draining you mentally and find other projects to distract you. When you are actively ignoring something, your subconscious will create room for your ideas to grow.

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We all wonder, on occasion, what we can do differently to spark some creativity in our lives. Just remember that you’re human and that these things happen to the best of us. Try doing the above things when your creativity cup feels almost empty.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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