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Seasonal Sickness – When to Call the Pediatrician

Seasonal Sickness – When to Call the Pediatrician

Children get sick. It happens. Try to keep calm, take note of your kid’s symptoms, and as my pediatrician always says, trust yourself. I often err on the side of wait-and-see rather than panic and drive a sick kid to the pediatrician when he or she needs to drink fluids and rest, which is what she ends up telling me at least half of the time I bring them to her. My kids’ schools have recently been selected to participate in the Kinsa FLUency Program (ask your principal or school nurse), which is helpful to keep informed about what might be going around at school. I am not a doctor. I am a mom, one who has been right on about her kids’ health so far because I trust my pediatrician and I trust my gut.

Although my kids are super healthy, I sometimes need to call the doctor. Sometimes I call (yes I do) because my husband insists, even though I think it’s fine. He hasn’t been a parent as long as me (he’s my second husband for those of you scratching your heads). Life and sickness come and go quickly! If he says call, I call, because even if I think things are fine, maybe his gut is working better than mine or maybe he just needs to be reassured by our trusted pediatrician.

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My kids always seem to come down with something at the beginning of each season. Thankfully, it’s usually in and out of the house right quick, but once in a while, I find myself picking up the phone. We have already survived our bout with the summer flu and the head cold from heck this fall (my youngest boy was seriously delusional with a fever of almost 103 on Thanksgiving). Since flu season is officially upon us and some states have already announced full-out infection, I thought others might need a word of advice from this veteran mom.

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Here are 5 signs your child is sick and needs to be seen by your pediatrician or your local urgent care center:

  1. Fever (over 100.4° F) for four days or longer, especially in concert with other symptoms. If your child is under age two, consider calling sooner, like on day two of a fever.
  2. Lack of urination/dehydration, or voiding less than two times in a day for older kids and lack of wet diaper for 6 to 8 hours in infants.
  3. Severe diarrhea (more than 8 stools per day) or mild diarrhea which lasts more than ten days.
  4. Vomiting that lasts longer than 24 hours, or in infants, more than 8 times in a day
  5. Coughing that is either painful to your child, lasts longer than 2 weeks, or causes vomiting or problems with breathing.

Communication is key

If you have an Au Pair, Nanny or regular babysitter, be sure to communicate with them about a sick child. Keep track (on a notebook) of medication amounts and time administered. This method is also very useful for pregnant or nursing moms who might not have the full concept of time in between their own lack of sleep. Try to keep a fever at bay by using ibuprofen and acetaminophen, and don’t worry about food, but keep the child hydrated. Try to get a feverish child to drink a teaspoon of liquid every 15 minutes, if they can keep it down. Your regular sitter or child care provider will be an important resource in determining how long your child’s symptoms have been present, especially if you have a way to keep the communication clear, even written down.

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Trust your gut

I must add that if I am worried about my child’s behavior, or whenever one of my kids seems particularly lethargic or just not themselves, or if ibuprofen doesn’t bring down a fever, I just call. Two decades of mothering has taught me if it doesn’t feel right, it isn’t. That is true for my own health too. When your gut tells you something is clearly not normal, even if the parenting book or Internet doctor or your neighbor Arlene says it is, trust your own self. The drive to the doctor’s office is worth it for my own peace of mind (and my husband’s), rather than the worry and wonder of “should I?” Trust your parenting gut and good luck surviving those surprise sick days!

Featured photo credit: Rachel Bostwick via pixabay.com

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Published on November 7, 2018

How to Homeschool in the 21st Century (For All Types of Parents & Kids)

How to Homeschool in the 21st Century (For All Types of Parents & Kids)

In 2016, it was estimated that 1.7 million children were being homeschooled in the U.S, roughly 3.3% of all school-aged children.[1] Although this may not sound like a big portion of the population, the growth rate of homeschooling has been 7 to15% per year for the last two decades.

The burgeoning numbers are not a coincidence. There are tremendous benefits to homeschooling, including one-on-one teaching, adaptability to individual needs and learning styles, a safe learning environment, encouraging learning for knowledge rather than grades, and tailoring a curriculum to the child’s interests.

Is homeschooling something that you have been considering for your family? With all of the tools and resources available for homeschoolers in the 21st century, it may be easier than you think.

How to Homeschool (Getting Started)

After thinking it through, you’ve decided that homeschooling is the right step for you and your family. Now what? Here are the first things you should do to get your homeschooling journey started on the right track.

Figure Out the Laws

Homeschooling is regulated by the state, not the federal government. The first step is to find the current and accurate legal requirements mandated by your state in order to educate your child legally.[2]

The regulations can vary widely, from strict guidelines to no guidelines at all. However, don’t be overwhelmed by the legal jargon. There are many resources and local communities for homeschooling families that can help you figure out the logistics.

Decide on an Approach

Every child’s needs are different. This is your chance to choose the homeschooling style or combination of styles that best fits your child’s learning style and interests. A brief description of seven different homeschooling methods are listed below.

Supplies/Resources

Often times, purchasing a homeschooling curriculum is done too early in the planning process, resulting in buyer’s remorse.

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A curriculum is not always needed for homeschooling, and other types of free or less structured resources are readily available.

Find a Community

Getting connected with a community of homeschoolers is one of the most important parts of building a successful and thriving homeschool environment for your kids.

Look for communities online for virtual support or a local group that you and your kids can interact with. Partnering with others fosters better socialization skills for the students and provides opportunities for field trips, classes, and outings that wouldn’t have otherwise been a part of the homeschooling experience.

7 Different Homeschooling Methods

1. School-At-Home

Also known as Traditional homeschool, School-At-Home uses essentially the same curriculum as the local private or public school but at home.

The lessons can be completed independently, but more commonly, they are administered by a parent or a teacher-facilitated online school.

  • Benefits: formal standards, wide selection of curricula, same pace as peers, short-term friendly
  • Drawbacks: expensive, inflexible, time consuming, parent can get easily burnt out
  • Resources: K12, Time4Learning, Abeka

2. Classical

One of the most popular homeschooling methods used, it borrows educational practices from Ancient Greece and Rome. Subject areas are studied chronologically so that students can understand the consequence of ideas over time.

Socratic dialogue fosters effective discussions and debate to achieve beyond mere comprehension. There is often a strong emphasis on Great Books[3] as well as Greek and Latin.

3. Unit Studies

Rather than breaking up education into subjects, unit studies approach each topic as a whole, studying it from the perspective of each subject area.

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For example, a unit study about animals could include reading books about animals, learning about the classification of animals, figuring out which animals live on which continents, etc. This method is often used as a technique in other more comprehensive educational methodologies.

  • Benefits: promotes thinking about concepts as a whole, not monotonous or redundant, student-directed, bolsters weaker subject areas, beneficial for teaching multi-age students
  • Drawbacks: incomplete, knowledge gaps, curriculum-dependent
  • Resources: Unit Study, Unit Studies, Unit Studies Made Easy, Konos

4. Charlotte Mason

This Christian homeschooling style utilizes shorts periods of study (15-20 minute max for elementary, 45 minute max for high school), along with nature walks and history portfolios.

Students are encouraged to practice observation, memorization, and narration often. With a focus on “living books” (stories with heroes, life lessons, socio-ethical implications), reading plays a big role in this student-paced teaching style.

5. Montessori

Maria Montessori developed this method through working with special needs children in the early 20th century.

With a primary focus on the student setting the pace and indirect instruction from the teacher, this approach includes free movement, large unstructured time blocks (up to 3 hours), multi-grade classes, and individualized learning plans based on interests.

6. Unschooling

Unschooling is a learning model largely based on the work of John Holt.[4] The teaching style focuses mainly on the students’ interests, putting priority on experiential, activity-based, and learn as you go approaches.

For basic skills such as reading, writing, and math, a systematic technique is employed, but testing and evaluations are typically not utilized. Teachers, in general, play more of a facilitator role.

7. Eclectic/Relaxed

As the most popular method of homeschool, eclectic homeschooling is child-directed, resourceful, and non-curriculum based.

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Parents can sample any combination of homeschooling methods and styles or resources. One growing sector of eclectic homeschooling combines part homeschooling with part traditional schooling.

How to Facilitate Homeschooling with Technology

One of the reasons homeschooling is more feasible than ever before is due to the accessibility of tools and resources to enhance the learning process.

Email

Email is a tool that has really stood the test of time. Invented in 1972, it is still used today as a primary means of communicating on the Internet.

It is a great way to share assignments, links, and videos between parent and student.

Google Drive/Calendar

Google Drive offers a multitude of essential programs that can come in handy for homeschoolers, such as Docs, Sheets, Slides, and more.

With its sharing capabilities, easy accessibility, and auto-save ability, it’s easier than ever to organize and complete assignments. It will improve students’ writing and typing skills, as well as eliminate the need for paper.

Google Calendar is an excellent tool for tracking assignment due dates, planning field trips and activities, and developing time management skills.

Ebooks

Rather than invest in physical copies of books, ebooks are a wonderful option for saving money and space. There are plenty of places that offer a free or paid subscription to a wide selection of ebooks:

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E-Courses

When a structured curriculum is necessary for teaching a certain topic, an e-course is the way to go.

From watercolors to calculus, there are e-courses available about almost everything. Including different teaching styles that vary from the parents will encourage students to learn in different ways.

The visual and auditory stimulation will also be beneficial in helping students understand and retain the concepts being taught.

Some recommendations:

Youtube

Youtube is not just a platform for music videos and cats doing funny things. There are a number of Youtube channels that produce quality educational videos, free of charge.

Creating a playlist of videos for various topics is a great way to supplement a homeschool education.

Some recommendations:

Final Thoughts

Homeschooling in the current age looks much different than it did ten years ago. There are more options and more flexibility when it comes to educating kids at home.

Don’t be overwhelmed by the idea of homeschooling your children if it could make a positive impact on your family.

Featured photo credit: Hal Gatewood via unsplash.com

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