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Last Updated on January 19, 2021

Only 8% Of People Achieve Their New Year’s Goals, Here’s How To Be One Of Them

Only 8% Of People Achieve Their New Year’s Goals, Here’s How To Be One Of Them

If you have failed to keep one, more, or even all of your New Year’s goals last year, take heart, this year you can make a change. If that’s not enough to cheer you up, picture this: only 8% of people are actually able to realize their resolutions, according to a study conducted by the Journal of Clinical Psychology, University of Scranton.[1] Being among the other 92% is no biggie!

So how to become part of the elite 8?

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Making resolutions is a good thing in itself; it tells us that we are on the right track to self-improvement. Sticking to those New Year’s goals and then finally achieving them is another story all together. To work towards those goals and to see resolutions through, we need to change our approach into a more logical and practical one.

1. A Tangible Resolution

If your New Year’s resolution is to lose weight, then to make this idea into a goal, you have to break it down into realizable and measurable steps.[2] Try making fortnightly or monthly goals such as, “In January, I’ll go off processed grains and fried foods. In February, I will do one month of regular jogging.” By breaking down your New Year’s goals into tangible steps, you’d be that much closer to actual results.

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2. Simple = Achievable

Self-improvement is an ongoing process.[3] You cannot turn into your version of perfection overnight, or even in the course of a year. Making a long, long list of New Year’s goals or rather ideas will only pile your plate too high and make you bin the whole lot within the first month. It’s better to aim to do just one thing, and do it right, seeing it to its rightful end rather than aiming too high and achieving practically nothing.

3. Get Your Reasons Right

Many times we slip on our resolutions because they haven’t come from the right place. “I want to lose weight because I want to look great/because my boyfriend wants me to” will not provide you with the right motivation to stick to your New Year’s goals.[4] Make sure your “why” is coming from a good and place, lest your urge to stick to the resolution will also fade away as quickly as your reason.

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4. Make It Public

The reason why some people are able to lose weight faster, save money better, or even stick to something as simple and basic as eating the right food, is because they go public with this information.[5] Keeping a diary or a journal is great, but something that is privy to just your eyes may make you let down your guard once too often.

A blog is a better option, because you will have people reading your daily battles and sharing your struggles. You will find public support and encouragement, and a place to share your highs and lows. By making your New Year’s goals public, you connect to people in the same boat and enter a positive circle of commitment.

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5. “Fine” Yourself

We follow traffic rules simply because if and when we don’t, other than putting ourselves and others at risk, we also end up being monetarily fined. Commit to giving yourself a fine if you slip from any of your New Year’s goals. Put the money in a fund, give it to charity, or simply stash it away for a rainy day.

6. Keep Believing

Don’t let your belief in yourself slip. It’s okay to have a bad day, week or even month – it’s okay to feel disillusioned or disheartened – don’t let your blue mood shake your belief in yourself. If you believe that you can achieve your New Year’s goals, you will!

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Last Updated on January 19, 2021

How to Set Goals Instead of Resolutions for the New Year

How to Set Goals Instead of Resolutions for the New Year

For many people, a new year is a fresh start, a do-over of sorts, that motivates you to try something new or to recommit to those tasks you put on hold because you were too busy tending to more important things. When we talk about the new year, one word often comes to mind: resolutions. You may ask your friends or co-workers about their New Year’s resolutions, finding that yours are similar to theirs: lose weight, get out more, save money. But, what exactly are resolutions? To make a resolution is to resolve to do something.The dictionary says that to resolve is “to make a definite and serious decision to do something.” That sounds promising. But, what happens after you’ve made that decision? How do you carry it out?

Instead of making resolutions, setting measurable goals is more likely to lead to success in seeing your hopes and dreams come to fruition. Want to increase the chances of seeing your dreams become reality? Here are five goal-setting tips that will get you started on your journey towards reaching your goals.

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Be S.M.A.R.T.

When it comes to goal setting, S.M.A.R.T. is a familiar acronym for specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-sensitive. Too often, people set goals that are vague and unrealistic. Not only does this lead to frustration, but it also decreases the likelihood of actually achieving the goal. The S.M.A.R.T. method can be applied to a variety of goals, whether professional or personal, giving you the tools you need to succeed in your goal setting endeavors.

Write it down

The daily minutiae of life is enough to rattle even the most skilled multi-tasker. With family dinners, kids’ sporting events, and household chores, life is truly a juggling act. Still, we manage to fall into the routine of getting those things done without a need to write them down. When it comes to goals, however, we are not very likely to simply fall into a routine. Achieving goals involves deviating from the daily monotony, stepping outside of your comfort zone, and challenging yourself. Writing down your goals allows you to free up some of that mental clutter so that you can visualize those things that you want to achieve. Also, tracking your progress by checking things off will give you a sense of accomplishment, motivating you to keep going. So, pull out that journal that has been collecting dust and write down those goals!

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Avoid comparisons

When you are working towards improving your life, it is common to compare yourself to other people. Your perception is that they are superior to you, or more privileged in some way. The social media phenomenon doesn’t help; your ‘news feed’ overflows with announcements of your friends’ new love interests, weight loss, and new jobs, quickly turning you into a green-eyed monster. How does this serve you, exactly? It doesn’t. When you compare yourself to others, you rob yourself of time you could be spending on your own self-improvement. It is also important to keep in mind that everyone’s journey is different; although we have similar destinations, our paths are often quite different. Follow your own path.

Embrace failure

Rich Dad Poor Dad author Robert Kiyosaki says that “successful people don’t fear failure but understand that it is necessary to learn and grow from.” Setting goals involves learning what you need to do in order to achieve personal growth. Embracing failure by seeing it as a necessary part of achieving your goals will only make you stronger and more resilient as you continue on your road to towards achieving your goals.

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Enjoy the process

Big success is made up of small victories. If your weight loss goal is 20 lbs, chances are that you will not lose it all at once. Still, you can celebrate your pants fitting a little looser every week. Having goals is important; however, we don’t stop living while we pursue them. Life happens while you are in the midst of seeing your dreams realized. Don’t allow your focus on the outcome to keep you from enjoying the process.

Featured photo credit: Hannah Jacobson via unsplash.com

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