Advertising
Advertising

New Year’s Resolutions You Probably Shouldn’t Make

New Year’s Resolutions You Probably Shouldn’t Make

The trouble with New Year’s resolutions

With the new year upon us, you may be thinking about the ways in which you would like to change your life in 2017. Every January, many of us feel as though we have been given a new opportunity to finally make progress with long-term goals.

Resolutions can be wonderful and motivating, but the sad fact is that the majority of them with go unkept. The solution? To get realistic about resolutions, and to choose goals that are both attainable and inspire a sense of enjoyment and hope rather than obligation. The following list contains five of the most common resolutions that people make every January, with reasons why you probably shouldn’t even thing about putting them on your to-do list.

The five resolutions you shouldn’t make

1. To lose weight

It is very difficult for most people to lose weight and keep it off. In simple terms, research shows that yo-yo dieting becomes the norm for most people who try and lose weight through even “sensible” diets and exercise.[1] Instead of aiming for a particular number on the scale, why not aim to make changes to your lifestyle and diet in ways that make you feel good? Take a new exercise class for the fun of it and try some healthy recipes.

2. To be happy

This is a noble goal, but it is too vague to be of much use. Why not set a small, tangible goal that will help you incorporate more fun into your life instead? For example, you could make a resolution to treat yourself to two enjoyable activities or small treats every week, or to take at least one trip away with friends in the summer.

Advertising

3. To work harder

In theory, working harder should equate to greater career satisfaction, progression and higher earnings. In practice, this doesn’t always turn out to be the case, especially if you do not make your working hours productive. Why not make a resolution to measure your productivity, and then strive to increase it by a certain percentage?

4. To give up caffeine

Coffee and other high-caffeine beverages have a bad reputation, and as a result you may be tempted to try cutting out caffeine entirely. However, caffeine is not unhealthy when taken in moderation and actually has some health benefits. For instance, research has shown that it may be protective against some forms of dementia[2]. Why not resolve to simply cut down on your intake instead if you are worried about your consumption?

Advertising

5. To get on better with other people or to be “nicer” to others

If you have to deal with difficult individuals on a regular basis, you may be tempted to try and be “nicer” or “more understanding” this year. However, committing to this resolution implies that spending time with toxic people is a good use of your precious time. Instead, why not focus on finding people who make you feel positive? Do an inventory of the people around you, and ask yourself what impact they have on your mental health. If you often feel angry, drained or upset following a few hours in someone’s company it may be time to re-assess the role they ought to be playing in your life.

In summary, there is nothing wrong with trying to improve yourself and your life. However, it pays to be smart about the resolutions you make. Whatever you want to change, make sure your resolutions are realistic. Even better, choose resolutions that allow you to have a bit of fun along the way! This way, you are more likely to make changes that last.

Advertising

Reference

[1] http://nutritionj.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1475-2891-10-9
[2] http://content.iospress.com/articles/journal-of-alzheimers-disease/jad01404

More by this author

Jay Hill

Freelance Writer

3 Things To Give Up If You Want To Take Control Of Your Life All You Have to Do to Sleep Better How Social Media Is Making You Feel Bad about Yourself Every Day The Ultimate Guide: How to Become More Creative Day by Day How to Find Love That Lasts: Someone Who Fulfils These 5 Things

Trending in Lifestyle

1 How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck 2 How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries 3 How to Manage Anxiety: Sound Advice from a Mental Health Expert 4 How to Start Eating Healthy No Matter How Old You Are 5 Understanding Intermittent Fasting Benefits: More Than Just Weight Loss

Read Next

Advertising
Advertising
Advertising

Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

Advertising

3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

Advertising

6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

Advertising

9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

Advertising

Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

More Resources About Getting out of a Rut

Featured photo credit: Joshua Earle via unsplash.com

Read Next