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5 Secrets To Keep You Going Even When You Think You Can’t

5 Secrets To Keep You Going Even When You Think You Can’t

“I can’t do this, this is too difficult” is a sentence most of us have said many times. We come across a situation that seems overwhelming and impossible to overcome. We feel frustrated and don’t see the solution. We think it’s too heavy a burden to carry, and we don’t know how to move forward. Encountering such situations is an inevitable part of our lives, and everyone faces them eventually. However, what you can do is decide how you look at these kinds of situations, and how you approach them. Finding a little motivation goes a long way, and we give you out 5 secrets that will keep you going.

1. Fake it until you make it

It is always the most difficult to start something especially when you feel like you don’t have the skills to handle it, but you should always try to approach that task as if you can do it. No one feels 100% confident that they can do something, yet the trick is to keep going and eventually you will either fail and learn something from it anyway, or you will get the hang of it and start feeling more confident.

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2. Break tasks into small manageable tasks

Whenever you face something that intimidates you, it might feel overwhelming to deal with such a huge prospect. In such situations, the best practice is not to approach it as a whole, but rather break it down into as small steps as possible. For each step, see how it can be further divided into even smaller sets of sub-steps, and then to complete one step at a time. Before you know it, you will overcome it and tell yourself “Wow, that wasn’t all that difficult!”

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3. Look at motivational quotes

Motivation should be something that inspires you to move forward through the difficulties because you have a clear purpose or goal in your mind. Quotes or posters can help you understand that the difficulties will pass and help you see the proverbial light at the end of tunnel. Remember that no matter what is happening, someone has already gone through what you are going through now. Find out what advice they have to offer, write it down, and look at it every time you feel lost and hopeless. Knowing and seeing that others have gone through the same struggle will inspire you and give you the strength.

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4. Remind yourself that everyone fails at first

The fear of failure often prevents us from trying something new and facing difficult situations. You don’t know if you are good at something if you don’t try it – just remember that even the biggest experts in different fields had their share of failures. It’s normal that you won’t do everything perfect right from the start, but through trial and error we learn. By acknowledging the mistakes we made, we realize what we need to change and improve. Nobody’s perfect. We all make mistakes when we find ourselves in unfamiliar situations, but the trick is to find a lesson in every mistake and go on.

5. Seek support from close ones 

Even when you feel like you are alone and there’s no one to help you, you always have someone who will support you. If you feel like you just want to give up and give in, talk to your close ones. Your family members or your close friend will likely offer genuine words of support, since they probably felt the same as you at some point and truly understand you. Your close ones can give you the best advice and encourage you to keep going.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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