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5 Ways To Celebrate Halloween Sober

5 Ways To Celebrate Halloween Sober

Just like New Years, Christmas, and St. Patrick’s Day, Halloween oftentimes creates an avenue of celebration that’s heavily centered around binge-drinking.

Sure, these types of holiday festivities are enjoyable at times but what happens when the fun stops being so fun and becomes potentially damaging to your health?

At times, the pressures of partying around Halloween can be hard to combat. But abstaining from over-consumption of alcohol is not only a healthy choice, it’s an example of preventative care: your mind and body will thank you for staying sober!

These five ideas will assist you in staying sober this October 31st, in some enjoyable, unique ways.

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1. Host Your Own Halloween Party

Having a Halloween party of your own may require some extra legwork, but can allow you to have a little more control in terms of deciding what drinks will be served during festivities. It will also allow you to pick who you spend your time with, alleviating peer pressure that some friends may project.

If you don’t want to drink and don’t want to experience the sometimes intimidating feeling of being pushed to do so, simply host your own party!

2. Create Some Spooky Baked Goods

Nothing adds more charm to your party than uniquely creative Halloween themed snacks. Whether you’re making chocolate eyeball cookies, or a spider web cake, taking the time to bake hand-made treats will always resonate with friends and family. In addition to this, baking will keep your mind busy and away from the bottle!

If you’re searching for inspiration for some ghoulish creations, Christine McConnell is arguably the best there is when it comes to mesmerizing festive treats. One look through her Flickr photostream and you’ll know exactly what I mean!

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Additionally, McConnell’s fascinating cookbook titled Deceptive Desserts is filled with a multitude of incredible photos and recipes to inspire you and jump-start creative sparks.

3. Stay In And Have a Movie Marathon

This is a simple, yet effective way to stay sober. One of my favorite activities, when I’m feeling a bit more introverted, is to binge watch horror films with a like-minded friend or two. Rather than partying my night away, sometimes I prefer to just order a pizza and watch some classic creepy cinema.

An article by Slant Magazine and a write-up by Cinema Blend will give you over a hundred ideas for films to watch this year.

4. Volunteer Your Time: Help Keep Kids Safe

Halloween celebrations are enjoyable for all ages, that’s for certain! If you’re trying to stay sober on the 31st, one of the most helpful things to do is to volunteer your time to help kids enjoy a safe holiday.

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But what can you do to help little ones out there stay safe while trick-or-treating?

A great starting point is understanding what the true dangers of Halloween are. An important resource by Portland State University Online explains these circumstances, separating myths from facts:

Myth: “Halloween sadism” which refers to strangers putting razor blades or other harmful things into candy for trick-or-treaters is extremely uncommon. These unfortunate happenings are usually projected by evil family members attempting to get insurance money from harming or even killing their own children.

Truth: Pedestrian fatalities spike on Halloween. This is due to increased levels of drunk driving, with around 23% of pedestrian fatalities attributed to drunk drivers. It’s also due to a lack of visibility. Children are hard to see at night, so the use of reflective clothing, glow sticks, and flashlights is crucially important.

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Perhaps the best way to volunteer your time is to help direct traffic around busy crosswalks and intersections on Halloween night. Make yourself as visible as possible, and find a way to use a simple stop sign to help keep kids safe. And if you have the means to do so, hand out glow sticks or reflective tape to children wearing dark clothing or costumes.

5. Be the Designated Driver: Help Keep Your Friends Safe

If you want the social stimulation without the intoxication, you can try attending the same parties, but simply without drinking. This may be easier said than done. But there are some preventative measures that can be taken to make this more feasible.

  • Just consume non-alcoholic drinks all night. Whether that’s a colorful holiday drink or simply water: just keep drinking! This can help hinder the urge to get drunk just by physically consuming any liquid.
  • Create an elaborate costume, that either makes walking slightly more difficult (stilts or tall shoes), or makes drinking nearly impossible (face paint, intricate masks, or face coverings).
  • Volunteer to be the designated driver for your friends. There’s no shame in doing so, and this will give your means to shutting up those who may question why you’re sober.

If you want to avoid drinking this Halloween for any reason, you absolutely should! Don’t let peer pressure make you cave, because you alone are in charge of how you celebrate. A sober celebration can literally be even more memorable in many cases!

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The Best Way to Create a Vision for the Life You Want

The Best Way to Create a Vision for the Life You Want

Creating a vision for your life might seem like a frivolous, fantastical waste of time, but it’s not: creating a compelling vision of the life you want is actually one of the most effective strategies for achieving the life of your dreams. Perhaps the best way to look at the concept of a life vision is as a compass to help guide you to take the best actions and make the right choices that help propel you toward your best life.

your vision of where or who you want to be is the greatest asset you have

    Why You Need a Vision

    Experts and life success stories support the idea that with a vision in mind, you are more likely to succeed far beyond what you could otherwise achieve without a clear vision. Think of crafting your life vision as mapping a path to your personal and professional dreams. Life satisfaction and personal happiness are within reach. The harsh reality is that if you don’t develop your own vision, you’ll allow other people and circumstances to direct the course of your life.

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    How to Create Your Life Vision

    Don’t expect a clear and well-defined vision overnight—envisioning your life and determining the course you will follow requires time, and reflection. You need to cultivate vision and perspective, and you also need to apply logic and planning for the practical application of your vision. Your best vision blossoms from your dreams, hopes, and aspirations. It will resonate with your values and ideals, and will generate energy and enthusiasm to help strengthen your commitment to explore the possibilities of your life.

    What Do You Want?

    The question sounds deceptively simple, but it’s often the most difficult to answer. Allowing yourself to explore your deepest desires can be very frightening. You may also not think you have the time to consider something as fanciful as what you want out of life, but it’s important to remind yourself that a life of fulfillment does not usually happen by chance, but by design.

    It’s helpful to ask some thought-provoking questions to help you discover the possibilities of what you want out of life. Consider every aspect of your life, personal and professional, tangible and intangible. Contemplate all the important areas, family and friends, career and success, health and quality of life, spiritual connection and personal growth, and don’t forget about fun and enjoyment.

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    Some tips to guide you:

    • Remember to ask why you want certain things
    • Think about what you want, not on what you don’t want.
    • Give yourself permission to dream.
    • Be creative. Consider ideas that you never thought possible.
    • Focus on your wishes, not what others expect of you.

    Some questions to start your exploration:

    • What really matters to you in life? Not what should matter, what does matter.
    • What would you like to have more of in your life?
    • Set aside money for a moment; what do you want in your career?
    • What are your secret passions and dreams?
    • What would bring more joy and happiness into your life?
    • What do you want your relationships to be like?
    • What qualities would you like to develop?
    • What are your values? What issues do you care about?
    • What are your talents? What’s special about you?
    • What would you most like to accomplish?
    • What would legacy would you like to leave behind?

    It may be helpful to write your thoughts down in a journal or creative vision board if you’re the creative type. Add your own questions, and ask others what they want out of life. Relax and make this exercise fun. You may want to set your answers aside for a while and come back to them later to see if any have changed or if you have anything to add.

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    What Would Your Best Life Look Like?

    Describe your ideal life in detail. Allow yourself to dream and imagine, and create a vivid picture. If you can’t visualize a picture, focus on how your best life would feel. If you find it difficult to envision your life 20 or 30 years from now, start with five years—even a few years into the future will give you a place to start. What you see may surprise you. Set aside preconceived notions. This is your chance to dream and fantasize.

    A few prompts to get you started:

    • What will you have accomplished already?
    • How will you feel about yourself?
    • What kind of people are in your life? How do you feel about them?
    • What does your ideal day look like?
    • Where are you? Where do you live? Think specifics, what city, state, or country, type of community, house or an apartment, style and atmosphere.
    • What would you be doing?
    • Are you with another person, a group of people, or are you by yourself?
    • How are you dressed?
    • What’s your state of mind? Happy or sad? Contented or frustrated?
    • What does your physical body look like? How do you feel about that?
    • Does your best life make you smile and make your heart sing? If it doesn’t, dig deeper, dream bigger.

    It’s important to focus on the result, or at least a way-point in your life. Don’t think about the process for getting there yet—that’s the next stepGive yourself permission to revisit this vision every day, even if only for a few minutes. Keep your vision alive and in the front of your mind.

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    Plan Backwards

    It may sound counter-intuitive to plan backwards rather than forwards, but when you’re planning your life from the end result, it’s often more useful to consider the last step and work your way back to the first. This is actually a valuable and practical strategy for making your vision a reality.

    • What’s the last thing that would’ve had to happen to achieve your best life?
    • What’s the most important choice you would’ve had to make?
    • What would you have needed to learn along the way?
    • What important actions would you have had to take?
    • What beliefs would you have needed to change?
    • What habits or behaviors would you have had to cultivate?
    • What type of support would you have had to enlist?
    • How long will it have taken you to realize your best life?
    • What steps or milestones would you have needed to reach along the way?

    Now it’s time to think about your first step, and the next step after that. Ponder the gap between where you are now and where you want to be in the future. It may seem impossible, but it’s quite achievable if you take it step-by-step.

    It’s important to revisit this vision from time to time. Don’t be surprised if your answers to the questions, your technicolor vision, and the resulting plans change. That can actually be a very good thing; as you change in unforeseeable ways, the best life you envision will change as well. For now, it’s important to use the process, create your vision, and take the first step towards making that vision a reality.

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