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What No One Will Tell You On How to Write Amazing Essays

What No One Will Tell You On How to Write Amazing Essays

As a professional writer I often struggle to start my own essays, looking at the blank page in front of me. It’s frightening enough for me, an adult journalist, so how could we expect kids and teenagers to write amazing essays?

No wonder they are spending hours in front of the desk, trying to conceive an essay that can land them an A or one of the positions at an Ivy League college. This is why essay writing coaches are so busy, guiding kids on how to write the perfect paper. However, is this only a simple creativity problem? Or are we adults are guilty of something more?

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Well, we are! Teachers often provide shallow or way too simple guidelines, which fail to actually guide the child towards writing a good essay. That amazing essay is not going to come up from the plain instructions you are usually given, so here are the things no one is going to tell you about writing an essay. Get the inspiration from these and rock those papers!

Play with your writing

Most students are going to spend hours in front of the blank paper, wondering what to write when they are asked for a story. This is because we don’t all have exciting, adventurous lives, so writing a story essay is not an easy task, if you are trying to tell a personal story. However, your imagination has no limits! Instead of trying to write a perfectly true story for the essay, just start from a real fact and embellish it in a credible way. Make sure you provide reliable facts and you tie your story to reality by adding citations.

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Avoid the common trail

When you are asked to write an expository essay on a case, most people would take on the same case in the news or in the literature. This means there are going to be dozens of similar essays to read for the evaluator. Boring and full of cliches essays that seem to be copy-pasted from the same machine. Break the pattern by writing a completely different essay! If everyone is talking about the way millennials like to spend time online, you can write about how millennials change the fashion world. The new perspective is going to attract the reader and will make you stand out from all the other students who chose to write the same case. It doesn’t need to be the way you see a case – as long as it’s a unique perspective, it doesn’t matter if you or the teacher agree with it.

Formatting is more important than you think

Content is very important for an essay, but formatting is equally essential. If you can see the formatting errors, such as small caps and lack of periods, before you actually start reading the essay, you will judge it was written by a poor student. This is how teachers think and act, so an edited essay, even if it’s a poorly written one, has more chances of getting  bigger marks, compared to a very well written essay, which lacks formatting. Don’t be afraid to stir up controversies.

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If no one is offended by your essay, there is something wrong with the essay. A high quality paper is one that stirs up controversies, that sparks interest! I good essay is one that is able to make people comment and talk about it, even if they are saying negative things. But then there is a high amount of relativity in writing an essay…

Interesting for you

What is interesting for you, might not be interesting for the person reading the personal essay. This is OK and you can’t do anything to change this. Each person has his own perspective and there are no two teachers who are going to award the same grade to the same essay. Unlike math or physics, literature is relative. There are emotions and perspectives involved, so there is no 100% correct answer. This is why most people will never get 100 points out of 100 for an essay, especially when there are multiple readers who rate the paper. Don’t let this fact discourage you from writing great essays. Accept there are things you can’t control and simply give your best each time you write an essay.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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