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What No One Will Tell You On How to Write Amazing Essays

What No One Will Tell You On How to Write Amazing Essays

As a professional writer I often struggle to start my own essays, looking at the blank page in front of me. It’s frightening enough for me, an adult journalist, so how could we expect kids and teenagers to write amazing essays?

No wonder they are spending hours in front of the desk, trying to conceive an essay that can land them an A or one of the positions at an Ivy League college. This is why essay writing coaches are so busy, guiding kids on how to write the perfect paper. However, is this only a simple creativity problem? Or are we adults are guilty of something more?

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Well, we are! Teachers often provide shallow or way too simple guidelines, which fail to actually guide the child towards writing a good essay. That amazing essay is not going to come up from the plain instructions you are usually given, so here are the things no one is going to tell you about writing an essay. Get the inspiration from these and rock those papers!

Play with your writing

Most students are going to spend hours in front of the blank paper, wondering what to write when they are asked for a story. This is because we don’t all have exciting, adventurous lives, so writing a story essay is not an easy task, if you are trying to tell a personal story. However, your imagination has no limits! Instead of trying to write a perfectly true story for the essay, just start from a real fact and embellish it in a credible way. Make sure you provide reliable facts and you tie your story to reality by adding citations.

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Avoid the common trail

When you are asked to write an expository essay on a case, most people would take on the same case in the news or in the literature. This means there are going to be dozens of similar essays to read for the evaluator. Boring and full of cliches essays that seem to be copy-pasted from the same machine. Break the pattern by writing a completely different essay! If everyone is talking about the way millennials like to spend time online, you can write about how millennials change the fashion world. The new perspective is going to attract the reader and will make you stand out from all the other students who chose to write the same case. It doesn’t need to be the way you see a case – as long as it’s a unique perspective, it doesn’t matter if you or the teacher agree with it.

Formatting is more important than you think

Content is very important for an essay, but formatting is equally essential. If you can see the formatting errors, such as small caps and lack of periods, before you actually start reading the essay, you will judge it was written by a poor student. This is how teachers think and act, so an edited essay, even if it’s a poorly written one, has more chances of getting  bigger marks, compared to a very well written essay, which lacks formatting. Don’t be afraid to stir up controversies.

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If no one is offended by your essay, there is something wrong with the essay. A high quality paper is one that stirs up controversies, that sparks interest! I good essay is one that is able to make people comment and talk about it, even if they are saying negative things. But then there is a high amount of relativity in writing an essay…

Interesting for you

What is interesting for you, might not be interesting for the person reading the personal essay. This is OK and you can’t do anything to change this. Each person has his own perspective and there are no two teachers who are going to award the same grade to the same essay. Unlike math or physics, literature is relative. There are emotions and perspectives involved, so there is no 100% correct answer. This is why most people will never get 100 points out of 100 for an essay, especially when there are multiple readers who rate the paper. Don’t let this fact discourage you from writing great essays. Accept there are things you can’t control and simply give your best each time you write an essay.

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Last Updated on July 3, 2020

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

In today’s world, true peace must come from within us and our own actions. Here are 30 small things you can do on a regular basis to increase your overall sense of harmony, peace, and well-being:

1. Don’t go to every fight you’re invited to

Particularly when you’re around those who thrive on chaos, be willing to decline the invitation to join in on the drama.

2. Focus on your breath

Throughout the day, stop to take a few deep breaths. Keep stress at bay with techniques such as “square breathing.” Breathe in for four counts, hold for four counts, then out for four counts, and hold again for four counts. Repeat this cycle four times.

3. Get organized and purge old items

A cluttered space often creates a cluttered spirit. Take the time to get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year and invest in organizational systems that help you sustain a level of neatness.

4. Stop yourself from being judgmental

Whenever you are tempted to have an opinion about someone else’s life, check your intentions. Judging others creates and promotes negative energy.

5. Say ‘thank you’ early and often

Start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude. Look for opportunities in your daily routine and interactions to express appreciation.

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6. Smile more

Even if you have to “fake it until you make it,” there are many scientific benefits of smiling and laughing. Also, pay attention to your facial expression when you are doing neutral activities such as driving and walking. Turn that frown upside down!

7. Don’t worry about the future

As difficult as this sounds, there is a direct connection between staying in the present and living a more peaceful life. You cannot control the future. As the old proverb goes, “Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it won’t get you anywhere.” Practice gently bringing your thoughts back to the present.

8. Eat real food

The closer the food is to the state from which it came from the earth, the better you will feel in eating it. Choose foods that grew from a plant over food that was made in a plant.

9. Choose being happy over being right

Too often, we sacrifice inner peace in order to make a point. It’s rarely worth it.

10. Keep technology out of the bedroom

Many studies, such as one conducted by Brigham and Women’s Hospital, have connected blue light of electronic devices before bed to adverse sleep and overall health. To make matters worse, many people report that they cannot resist checking email and social media when their cell phone is in reach of their bed, regardless of the time.

11. Make use of filtering features on social media

You may not want to “unfriend” someone completely, however you can choose whether you want to follow their posts and/or the sources of information that they share.

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12. Get comfortable with silence

When you picture someone who is the ultimate state of peace, typically they aren’t talking.

13. Listen to understand, not to respond

So often in conversations, we use our ears to give us cues about when it is our turn to say what we want to say. Practice active listening, ask questions, process, then speak.

14. Put your troubles in a bubble

Whenever you start to feel anxious, visualize the situation being wrapped in a bubble and then picture that sphere floating away.

15. Speak more slowly

Often a lack of peace manifests itself in fast or clipped speech. Take a breath, slow down, and let your thoughtful consideration drive your words.

16. Don’t procrastinate

Nothing adds stress to our lives like waiting until the last minute.

17. Buy a coloring book

Mandala coloring books for adults are becoming more popular because of their connection to creating inner peace.

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18. Prioritize yourself

You are the only person who you are guaranteed to live with 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.

19. Forgive others

Holding a grudge is hurting you exponentially more than anyone else. Let it go.

20. Check your expectations

Presumption often leads to drama. Remember the old saying, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.”

21. Engage in active play

Let your inner child come out and have some fun. Jump, dance, play, and pretend!

22. Stop criticizing yourself

The world is a hard enough place with more than enough critics. Your life is not served well by being one of them.

23. Focus your energy and attention on what you want

Thoughts, words, and actions all create energy. Energy attracts like energy. Put out what you want to get back.

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24. Assign yourself “complaint free” days.

Make a conscious decision not to complain about anything for a whole day. It might be harder than you think and the awareness will stick with you.

25. Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of

Personalities tend to be contagious, and not everyone’s is worth catching. Be judicious in your choices.

26. Manage your money

Financial concerns rank top on the list of what causes people stress. Take the time each month to do a budget, calculate what you actually spend and sanity check that against the money you have coming in.

27. Stop trying to control everything

Not only is your inner control freak sabotaging your sense of peace, it is also likely getting in the way of external relationships as well.

28. Practice affirmations

Repeat positive phrases that depict the life and qualities you want to attract. It may not come naturally to you, but it works.

29. Get up before sunrise

Personally witnessing the dawn brings a unique sense of awe and appreciation for life.

30. Be yourself

Nothing creates more inner discord than trying to be something other than who we really are. Authenticity breeds happiness.

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