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50 Small Things That Make Relationships Last

50 Small Things That Make Relationships Last

It is up to you to find importance and relevance in the small things that could bring out the best in your relationship.

Here are 50 small things that relationships need to last.

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  1. Travel and discover new places together.
  2. Forgive immediately.
  3. Forget and don’t keep a score.
  4. Communicate and listen more.
  5. Pursue your individual passions.
  6. Set goals as a couple.
  7. Pursue goals together.
  8. Learn to say “thank you” to the other person.
  9. Celebrate your victories together.
  10. Manage your losses together.
  11. Always be grateful for the other person in your life.
  12. Surprise the other person with a thoughtful action.
  13. Grow together.
  14. Adjust and tolerate your partner.
  15. Be supportive of your partner’s goals.
  16. Respect your partner’s space and time.
  17. Compliment your partner for their effort.
  18. Don’t hesitate to speak your mind.
  19. Always focus on the best in your partner.
  20. Be accountable and responsible for your emotions.
  21. Be open and willing to share everything. Fully open your heart and let your partner in.
  22. Be present. Be willing to give your partner your attention, your time, your soul, and your focus.
  23. Be silly sometimes. Don’t take everything so seriously.
  24. Respect each other’s friends and family.
  25. Look good and attractive for your mate.
  26. Respect each other’s privacy.
  27. Be responsible with money. Money has a vital role to play in your union.
  28. Be a lady (or a gentleman). Simple things like throwing out the thrash or getting the groceries sustains the relationship and shows that you care.
  29. Never give up on your relationship. Expect everything will turn out well.
  30. Mind your manners and be courteous.
  31. Adapt and be self-sufficient. Don’t ask for everything from your mate. Learn to handle yourself and deal with some of your domestics.
  32. Appreciate their family and friends. There is no harm in having them over every now and then.
  33. Be decent. Maintain good hygiene and dress properly.
  34. Be affectionate. Hold their hands, kiss them, and show that you really care about them.
  35. Be romantic. Be creative on ways to spice up your relationship. Plan a special night with your partner. Do something remarkable for them.
  36. Never forget their birthdays, anniversaries, or special moments. Relive those wonderful times with them.
  37. Admit that you are wrong. You won’t always be right. Throw away your pride and be willing to tolerate the other person – no matter what.
  38. Be a problem solver rather than being overly critical.
  39. Focus on improving yourself and becoming a better person for the your partner. Never stop giving your best in the relationship.
  40. Be a team player. It is not about your singular effort, but rather what you can achieve together as a team.
  41. Don’t be lazy in your love. There is no need to be adamant about how you feel. Always work on improving your love for the other person.
  42. It is your duty to be a partner and to love the other person for who they are. You cannot change them. All you can do is adore their strong qualities and be aware of their flaws.
  43. Be accountable for how you feel. Your partner is not a toy or a thing that is meant to make you happy. Instead, learn to treasure how you feel for them, regardless of what happens.
  44. Never play the blame-game. Instead, find ways to heal your pain and your partner’s also.
  45. Be informed. Know what makes the other person feel validated and loved.
  46. Be vulnerable. You may not want to show it, but your partner is there for you to admit your feelings, worries, and fears to them.
  47. Crack a joke and be willing to laugh at their jokes.
  48. Don’t be cheap. Go the extra mile and show how much you value the other person in your life.
  49. Be aware of their needs and wants.
  50. Listen, and know when silence plays a better role than speaking out.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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