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50 Small Things That Make Relationships Last

50 Small Things That Make Relationships Last

It is up to you to find importance and relevance in the small things that could bring out the best in your relationship.

Here are 50 small things that relationships need to last.

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  1. Travel and discover new places together.
  2. Forgive immediately.
  3. Forget and don’t keep a score.
  4. Communicate and listen more.
  5. Pursue your individual passions.
  6. Set goals as a couple.
  7. Pursue goals together.
  8. Learn to say “thank you” to the other person.
  9. Celebrate your victories together.
  10. Manage your losses together.
  11. Always be grateful for the other person in your life.
  12. Surprise the other person with a thoughtful action.
  13. Grow together.
  14. Adjust and tolerate your partner.
  15. Be supportive of your partner’s goals.
  16. Respect your partner’s space and time.
  17. Compliment your partner for their effort.
  18. Don’t hesitate to speak your mind.
  19. Always focus on the best in your partner.
  20. Be accountable and responsible for your emotions.
  21. Be open and willing to share everything. Fully open your heart and let your partner in.
  22. Be present. Be willing to give your partner your attention, your time, your soul, and your focus.
  23. Be silly sometimes. Don’t take everything so seriously.
  24. Respect each other’s friends and family.
  25. Look good and attractive for your mate.
  26. Respect each other’s privacy.
  27. Be responsible with money. Money has a vital role to play in your union.
  28. Be a lady (or a gentleman). Simple things like throwing out the thrash or getting the groceries sustains the relationship and shows that you care.
  29. Never give up on your relationship. Expect everything will turn out well.
  30. Mind your manners and be courteous.
  31. Adapt and be self-sufficient. Don’t ask for everything from your mate. Learn to handle yourself and deal with some of your domestics.
  32. Appreciate their family and friends. There is no harm in having them over every now and then.
  33. Be decent. Maintain good hygiene and dress properly.
  34. Be affectionate. Hold their hands, kiss them, and show that you really care about them.
  35. Be romantic. Be creative on ways to spice up your relationship. Plan a special night with your partner. Do something remarkable for them.
  36. Never forget their birthdays, anniversaries, or special moments. Relive those wonderful times with them.
  37. Admit that you are wrong. You won’t always be right. Throw away your pride and be willing to tolerate the other person – no matter what.
  38. Be a problem solver rather than being overly critical.
  39. Focus on improving yourself and becoming a better person for the your partner. Never stop giving your best in the relationship.
  40. Be a team player. It is not about your singular effort, but rather what you can achieve together as a team.
  41. Don’t be lazy in your love. There is no need to be adamant about how you feel. Always work on improving your love for the other person.
  42. It is your duty to be a partner and to love the other person for who they are. You cannot change them. All you can do is adore their strong qualities and be aware of their flaws.
  43. Be accountable for how you feel. Your partner is not a toy or a thing that is meant to make you happy. Instead, learn to treasure how you feel for them, regardless of what happens.
  44. Never play the blame-game. Instead, find ways to heal your pain and your partner’s also.
  45. Be informed. Know what makes the other person feel validated and loved.
  46. Be vulnerable. You may not want to show it, but your partner is there for you to admit your feelings, worries, and fears to them.
  47. Crack a joke and be willing to laugh at their jokes.
  48. Don’t be cheap. Go the extra mile and show how much you value the other person in your life.
  49. Be aware of their needs and wants.
  50. Listen, and know when silence plays a better role than speaking out.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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