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Last Updated on August 29, 2018

53 Relationship Questions That Will Make Your Love Life Better

53 Relationship Questions That Will Make Your Love Life Better

If you have been in a relationship for some time, you may experience moments that you feel like you have lost that passion you used to have for your partner.

Maybe you have got used to being with each other or maybe you and your partner are going through a different stage of relationship and this is why you start to feel uncomfortable about it.

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If so, it may be time to reflect about your relationship and think about how you should work with your partner to make the sparkle come back.

Even if you feel happy about your relationship right now, doing a reflection about your relationship once in a while can strengthen your relationship.

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Here are the 53 relationship questions that can change your love life:

  1. What was your first impression about your partner?
  2. What did you like or love about your partner?
  3. How did the relationship start?
  4. Do you still like what you loved about your partner and why?
  5. Are you happy with the intimacy you share?
  6. Do you feel the same the way you felt for your partner at the beginning of the relationship?
    • Are you positively affecting each other’s life?
    • Have you started to do something because of each other’s influence?
    • How often do you laugh together?
    • When was the last time you dreamt about your partner?
    • Do you like spending time with your partner’s friends and family?
    • How often do you talk on the phone with your partner?
    • How often do you think of your partner?
    • Do you smile when you relate something from your daily life with your partner?
    • Can you recall the most romantic moment with this partner?
    • Do you get each other’s feeling without the need to say anything?
    • What was the best moment in your relationship so far? (Are you smiling while recalling that moment?)
    • How do you show your love for each other?
      • When was the last time you said “I love you” to your partner?
      • Have you ever changed anything for your partner?
      • How much do you think you understand your partner?
      • Do you trust each other?
      • Have you not let your partner do something just because you feel jealous or angry?
      • How do you feel when others find your partner attractive?
      • Do you feel jealous if your partner hang out with a friend of the opposite sex?
      • How serious are you both taking this relationship?
      • Do you bring up arguments very often and why?
      • Do you make sacrifices for your relationship?
      • Have you ever apologized for what you’ve done wrong to your partner?
      • Do you forgive your partner’s mistakes easily?
      • Do you throw temper easily for small mistakes of your partners?
      • Do you respect each other’s beliefs?
        • Is it really necessary to know everything from your partner’s previous relationships?
        • Do you believe in staying with this partner for a very long time or even forever?
        • How do you feel when your partner has to leave you for some time because of work or studying?
        • Will you say sorry to your partner even though it’s not your fault?
        • When was the last time you had an in-depth conversation with your partner?
        • Are you keeping any secrets that you’re afraid of letting your partner know?
        • Do you think your partner’s friends and family like you?
        • Do you feel that your partner accepts the way you are?
        • Have you seen each other at your best and worst?
        • Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Why?
        • Have you ever thought about breaking up with your partner and why?
        • Will you lie for the sake of your partner’s happiness and how do you define the line?
        • Are you in a relationship only because you enjoy the excitement or the feeling to be loved and cared about?
        • Does this partner make you forget the painful feeling of your previous relationships?
        • Do you look forward to your future with your partner?
          • Have you thought about marrying your partner? (If you two have already married, do you remember why you had that thought of marrying your partner?)
          • Are you willing to compromise your happiness for a successful relationship?
          • When it comes to future, do you and your partner have the same relationship goal?
          • Are there more joyful moments than sad ones being together?
          • What makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing?
          • If you could choose your partner again, would you choose the same person?

          These relationship questions are only for your own reflection, and there’re no right or wrong answers. Maintaining a long-term and healthy relationship is never easy, but by trying to answer the above questions, you may find new insights about your relationship and know what to do about your love life.

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          Just be true to yourself when you answer these questions. You may want to share this list of questions with your partner too.

          Featured photo credit: Unsplash via unsplash.com

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          This Is What Happens When You Move Out Of the Comfort Zone

          This Is What Happens When You Move Out Of the Comfort Zone

          The pursuit of worthwhile goals is a part of what makes life enjoyable. Being able to set a goal, then see yourself progress towards achieving that goal is an amazing feeling.

          But do you know the biggest obstacle for most people trying to achieve their goals, the silent dream killer that stops people before they ever even get started? That obstacle is the comfort zone, and getting stuck there is bound to derail any efforts you make towards achieving the goals you’ve set for yourself.

          If you want to achieve those goals, you’ll have to break free from your comfort zone. Let’s take a look at how your life will change once you build up the courage to leave your comfort zone.

          What Is the Comfort Zone?

          The comfort zone is defined as “a behavioural state within which a person operates in an anxiety-neutral condition, using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance.”

          What stands out to me the most about that definition is the last part: “using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance.” How many successful people do you know who deliver a steady level of performance?

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          The goal in life is to continually challenge yourself, and continually improve yourself. And in order to do that, you have move out of your comfort zone. But once you do, your life will start to change in ways you could never have imagined. I know because it’s happening right now in my own life.

          Here’s what I’ve learned.

          1. You will be scared

          Leaving your comfort zone isn’t easy. In fact, in can be downright terrifying at times, and that’s okay. It’s perfectly normal to feel a little trepidation when you’re embarking on a journey that forces you to try new things.

          So don’t freak out or get overwhelmed when you feel yourself getting a little scared. It’s perfectly normal and all part of the process. What’s important is that you don’t let that fear hold you back. You must continue to take action in the face of fear.

          That’s what separates winners from losers.

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          2. You will fail

          Stepping out of your comfort zone means you’re moving into uncharted territory. You’re trying things that you’ve never tried before, and learning things you’ve never learned before.

          That steep learning curve means you’re not going to get everything right the first time, and you will eventually fail when you move out of your comfort zone. But as long as the failures aren’t catastrophic, it can actually be a good thing to fail because …

          3. You will learn

          Failure is the best teacher. I’ve learned more from each one of my failures than I have from each one of my successes. When you fail small, and fail often, you rapidly increase the rate at which you learn new insights and skills. And that new knowledge, if applied correctly, will eventually lead to your success.

          4. You will see yourself in a different way

          Once you move out of your comfort zone, you immediately prove to yourself that you’re capable of achieving more than you thought was possible. And that will change the way you see yourself.

          Moving forward, you’ll have more confidence in yourself whenever you step out of your comfort zone, and that increased confidence will make it more likely that you continue to step outside your comfort zone. And each time you do, you’ll prove to yourself again and again what you’re really capable of.

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          5. Your peers will see you in a different way

          Whether we want to admit or not, people judge other people. And right now, people view you in a certain way, and they have a certain idea of what you’re capable of. That’s because they’ve become accustomed to seeing you operate in your comfort zone.

          But once you move out of your comfort zone, you’ll prove to other people, as well, that you’re capable of much more than you’ve shown in the past.

          The increased confidence other people place in you will bring about more opportunities than ever before.

          6. Your comfort zone will expand

          The good thing about the comfort zone is that it’s flexible and malleable. With each action you take outside of your comfort zone, it expands. And once you master that new skill or action, it eventually becomes part of your comfort zone.

          This is great news for you because it means that you can constantly increase and improve upon the behaviors that you’re comfortable with. And the more tools and skills you have at your disposal, the easier it will be to achieve your goals.

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          7. You will increase your concentration and focus

          When you’re living inside of your comfort zone, the bulk of your actions are habitual: automatic, subconscious, and requiring limited focus.

          But once you move out of your comfort zone, you no longer rely on those habitual responses. You’re forced to concentrate and focus on the new action in a way you never do in your comfort zone.

          8. You will develop new skills

          Moving out of your comfort zone requires that you develop new skills. One of the many benefits you’ll experience is that you’ll be stepping away from the “limited set of behaviors” and start to develop your ability and expertise in new areas.

          Living inside of your comfort zone only requires a limited skill set, and those skills won’t contribute much to your success. Once you can confidently step outside of your comfort zone and learn a new skill, there’s no limit to how much you can achieve.

          9. You will achieve more than before

          With everything that happens once you move out of your comfort zone, you’re naturally going to achieve more than ever before.

          Your increased concentration and focus will help you develop new skills. Those new skills will change the way you see yourself, encouraging you to step even further out of your comfort zone.

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