Love is probably the deepest feeling in life, it is also an experience that is like no other. From happy cries to sad cries and everything in between, love and relationships teach us how to live life better and in the process become a kinder, gentler and a more understanding person. But love or a relationship for that matter isn’t a walk in the park, it isn’t just about the flying kisses and the romantic outings, it is also about the fights, the misunderstandings and how you learn to respect another person while not losing your own. So if you are stressed out or misunderstood, this is for you. Here are 10 things only people who are confused with their relationships can relate to.
1. You Love Them To Bits
You love them, you want the best for them and actually want things to work for the both of you. There is always love, even if its deep down somewhere, you guys love each other and probably that’s why you care and hence are confused in the first place. So love is a given.
2. You Hate Them Too
Well, this is indeed the bone of contention why you love them but a part of you really hates a certain part of them. You cannot stand it, you cannot take it, but you still love them.
3. You Aren’t Sure
You aren’t sure of…. “what” is what you have to decide. But you aren’t sure of something and you cannot decide what it is.
4. You Are Happily Unhappy
You are happy, you like the little, cute and random things that happen around you. Dogs make you smile, babies make you cry and ice cream always works but heck with it all, there’s something that’s bothering but you really don’t know. You are basically unhappily happy.
5. They’re Not Bad People
They aren’t too bad or is it about you? You are okay with what you have but still not really okay with where you are.
6. You Aren’t Sure If You Are Faking It Or Not
You are putting up a show you aren’t too sure about, it’s not like you are happy nor is it like you are sad.
7. Your Friends Aren’t Too Happy, But Just Let It Be
They’re pretty sure you cannot decide on anything right and they don’t want you to any more, especially when it comes to choosing a partner.
8. You Don’t Want To Change But You Want Change
You really want things to change but aren’t actually willing to change. Well, nobody’s perfect and so are relationships but the trick is to learn, evolve and keep it going. I isn’t easy but you really need to figure out what you really want, what you need to change and how you can evolve into being somebody who can be the change.
9. You Press Them When You Shouldn’t
You talk all day all night. You can be romantic, but when there’s something more pressing at heart, you shouldn’t be pressing everywhere else. But that’s what you do!
10. You Don’t Know What’s Next
So what’s next is a question you ask yourself all too often. It isn’t like you don’t love him or her but are confused about the future, you have to sort it out, you have to interact and understand what’s going on in their head too. And for yourself, you have the answer, sit, think and decide because being confused in a relationship sucks more than not being in one. But it is good to be here, to be confused because that helps you clarify and decide what’s best for you.
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