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6 Optimistic Thoughts That Will Change Your Outlook On Life

6 Optimistic Thoughts That Will Change Your Outlook On Life

Optimistic thoughts enrich our souls when everything around us looks gloomy and dark. These thoughts are the light we can use to find our correct path and secure a better destination. It is the beauty that we find in the midst of disorder in life that helps us to thrive. Improve your life with these positive thoughts!

1. Take life as it comes when there is no clear pathway for you to follow.

Truthfully no one knows what will happen next. You may have the best laid plans and it still could go wrong for you. Events could change suddenly before you know it, and before you even have time to prepare. The best way around the rough edges in life is to be optimistic and to accept that we live in a world of constant changes. Expect the best but never be a victim when the worst comes to pass. All you have to do is steady your thoughts and be willing to adapt to whatever circumstances come your way. Be the player who is willing to play with the cards that they are dealt.

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2. We are all blessed with the present for a reason: to take advantage of the moment we are currently living, letting go of the bad things we were told in the past

Stop living a life of regrets, dwelling on all the ways in which you were wronged in the past. The past is where it is: the past. You have the present, and it’s a gift that can make things right; you can use it to fix things and make the future ideal for yourself and those around you. There is no reason to let the burden of guilt or worry hang over you still; it is up to you to take action and make every second of this moment that you are living count.

3. Everything is temporary, and steered by the omnipotence of nature

There is nothing that stays constant. What keeps life in balance are the changing seasons and the other changing patterns of nature. So, after a night there is day; after a storm there is sunshine, and after wind comes calm. The truth is that things change, people change, and desires and needs change. Nothing stays constant. And even the optimist knows that we have to appreciate the good times when they come so that we do not spend all our days consumed by the bad times that will also arrive. Nothing is permanent, after all.

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4. You have no control over the day you were born or the day that you die, but you do have control over what you do in between those days

What you do with your life and your time here on earth is your responsibility. While there are a lot of things we have no control over, we have control over our thoughts and actions. The best way we can make use of this power is through making positive changes to our world through acting and thinking in an optimistic way. Take charge of what you are able to own!

5. The limits we have in life are the ones we set for ourselves

You can become whatever you want to be. You have amazing possibilities before you that you should never take for granted. While others may try to belittle you and your potential, it is up to you to prove to yourself and to others that you are willing to take what you deserve. To be able to tap into this you must possess an enormous amount of self-belief. Never take yourself for granted. Learn to embrace the sometimes challenging route to the amazing possibilities before you.

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6. We all have the right to choose if we want to be happy or not

Don’t ever give your right to be happy up for anyone else. The truth is that happiness is a choice. You may not be excited all the time, but you can possess a frame of mind that is content and satisfied. You can bring a positive perspective to every situation that comes your way and rise to the occasion.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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