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6 Optimistic Thoughts That Will Change Your Outlook On Life

6 Optimistic Thoughts That Will Change Your Outlook On Life

Optimistic thoughts enrich our souls when everything around us looks gloomy and dark. These thoughts are the light we can use to find our correct path and secure a better destination. It is the beauty that we find in the midst of disorder in life that helps us to thrive. Improve your life with these positive thoughts!

1. Take life as it comes when there is no clear pathway for you to follow.

Truthfully no one knows what will happen next. You may have the best laid plans and it still could go wrong for you. Events could change suddenly before you know it, and before you even have time to prepare. The best way around the rough edges in life is to be optimistic and to accept that we live in a world of constant changes. Expect the best but never be a victim when the worst comes to pass. All you have to do is steady your thoughts and be willing to adapt to whatever circumstances come your way. Be the player who is willing to play with the cards that they are dealt.

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2. We are all blessed with the present for a reason: to take advantage of the moment we are currently living, letting go of the bad things we were told in the past

Stop living a life of regrets, dwelling on all the ways in which you were wronged in the past. The past is where it is: the past. You have the present, and it’s a gift that can make things right; you can use it to fix things and make the future ideal for yourself and those around you. There is no reason to let the burden of guilt or worry hang over you still; it is up to you to take action and make every second of this moment that you are living count.

3. Everything is temporary, and steered by the omnipotence of nature

There is nothing that stays constant. What keeps life in balance are the changing seasons and the other changing patterns of nature. So, after a night there is day; after a storm there is sunshine, and after wind comes calm. The truth is that things change, people change, and desires and needs change. Nothing stays constant. And even the optimist knows that we have to appreciate the good times when they come so that we do not spend all our days consumed by the bad times that will also arrive. Nothing is permanent, after all.

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4. You have no control over the day you were born or the day that you die, but you do have control over what you do in between those days

What you do with your life and your time here on earth is your responsibility. While there are a lot of things we have no control over, we have control over our thoughts and actions. The best way we can make use of this power is through making positive changes to our world through acting and thinking in an optimistic way. Take charge of what you are able to own!

5. The limits we have in life are the ones we set for ourselves

You can become whatever you want to be. You have amazing possibilities before you that you should never take for granted. While others may try to belittle you and your potential, it is up to you to prove to yourself and to others that you are willing to take what you deserve. To be able to tap into this you must possess an enormous amount of self-belief. Never take yourself for granted. Learn to embrace the sometimes challenging route to the amazing possibilities before you.

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6. We all have the right to choose if we want to be happy or not

Don’t ever give your right to be happy up for anyone else. The truth is that happiness is a choice. You may not be excited all the time, but you can possess a frame of mind that is content and satisfied. You can bring a positive perspective to every situation that comes your way and rise to the occasion.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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