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Ways To Soothe A Crying Baby That Can Save Every Parent

Ways To Soothe A Crying Baby That Can Save Every Parent

As tiny little newborn humans who are unable to communicate, babies often cry when they are in need of care and comfort. There are multiple reasons babies cry, and most of them are completely normal and natural.

These reasons include:

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  • Hunger
  • Sleepiness
  • A dirty or wet nappy
  • Lack of cuddles
  • Wind
  • Overstimulation
  • Boredom
  • Being too hot
  • Being too cold

How To Comfort Your Crying Baby

Although there may be occasions where your baby cannot be comforted (we’ll discuss these later), more often than not one of the following solutions will help:

  • If you breastfeed your baby, let them suckle at your breast.
  • If your baby is bottle fed, give your baby a sterilized dummy.
  • Hold your baby close to you and gently sway or dance. You may also want to try talking to your baby in a soothing manner, or singing.
  • Rock your baby in their pram by gently rolling it back and forth.
  • Go for a walk.
  • Go for a drive.
  • Find something for your baby to listen to, such as music or the radio.
  • Find something for your baby to look at, like a rattle or other toy.
  • Stroke your baby’s back firmly and rhythmically.
  • See if a warm bath soothes them. (This may work for some babies but could make the crying worse for others.)
  • Ask a pharmacist, GP or health visitor for advice.

Is Your Baby Crying During Feeds?

One of the most common problems for new parents is crying during feeding. That is, the baby crying – although they may drive you to join them. If you breastfeed your baby, you may want to look into improving your baby’s attachment. Ensure that you are sitting in a comfortable position and check your baby’s body is in a straight line; otherwise, they may not be able to swallow. Hold your baby close to you whilst supporting their neck, back and shoulders – but make sure they can still tilt their head back to swallow. Lastly, make sure your baby’s nose is opposite your nipple; this will encourage them to open wide and attach.

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If your baby appears to attach but is still crying, something in the milk could be putting them off. Some foods and beverages that you consume will reach your milk within hours, so you may want to consider avoiding dairy, chocolate, fruit squash, diet drinks and caffeine.

Finally, your baby’s reaction to feeding may be due to reflux. This is a common condition where your baby will bring up milk after feeding, which can obviously be a bit upsetting.

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If you’re still unsure as to why your baby cries during feeding, note down when it occurs and see if you can distinguish a pattern.

Is Your Baby Crying Constantly?

If your baby cries constantly, there could be several causes. Colic is perhaps the most common cause; but whereas everyone agrees that colic exists, no definitive causes have been determined. Some doctors believe that colic could be the result of some sort of stomach pain, as crying will often stop and start, suggesting there could be waves of discomfort. Unfortunately, there are no specific remedies for colic, so you may have to wait it out.

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Conversely, your baby could also be ill if they are crying consistently, particularly if the cry sounds different to you. You should seek medical advice immediately if:

  • Your baby has a weak, high-pitched, constant cry
  • Your baby is floppy when picked up
  • They take less than a third of their usual daily fluids
  • They pass much less urine than usual
  • They vomit green fluid
  • Blood passes in their stool
  • If under three months they have a fever of 38 C or above
  • If between three and six months they have a fever of 39 C or above
  • They have a high-temperature but their extremities are cold
  • Your baby has a bulging fontanelle
  • Your baby has a fit
  • They turn blue, mottled or pale
  • They have a stiff neck
  • They have difficulty breathing
  • They are breathing faster than usual
  • They are grunting whilst breathing
  • They seem to working really hard to breathe
  • Your baby has a purple-red rash (this could be meningitis)

When Should You Seek Help To Soothe Your Crying Baby?

Caring for a baby can be extremely difficult, frustrating and tiring, so you should never be ashamed of asking for help. Your GP and health visitor will be more than happy to aid you in your time of need. Help them by simply noting down patterns of when and how often your baby cries.

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Published on April 9, 2021

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

Being a mom is not easy. Being a single mom is even more challenging. Having children means you are on the job 24/7. Even while you are sleeping, you are still ready to wake at the slightest peep because that is what moms do.

Moms, especially single moms, need more people cheering them on. Your love and care matter to your kids. You are their superhero. I think single moms are superheroes, too.

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The quotes below are words of encouragement for all of the single moms out there. Keep up the great work! Your hard work will pay off. Someday, they will be grown up and living on their own. Your job will never truly be done as a mom, but you can pat yourself on the back today and every day for doing mom duty day in and day out.

Here are 50 single mom quotes to encourage all the single moms out there.

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  1. “Being raised by a single mother, I learned to appreciate and value independent women.”—Kenny Conley
  2. “As a single mum you’ll discover inner strengths and capabilities you never knew you had.”—Emma-Louise Smith
  3. “One thing I know for sure – this motherhood thing is not for sissies.”—Jennifer Nettles
  4. “Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.”—Gail Tsukiyama
  5. “And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.”—Mark Anthony
  6. “She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t take them along.”—Margaret Culkin Banning
  7. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”—Alice Walker
  8. “Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is.”—Anne Frank
  9. “Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.”—Jennifer Lopez
  10. “You are more powerful than you know; you are beautiful just as you are.”—Melissa Etheridge
  11. “Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing.”—Ricki Lake
  12. “You don’t take a class; you’re thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”—Jennie Finch
  13. “If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”—Oprah Winfrey
  14. “I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”—Charlotte Brontë
  15. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.”—Nora Ephron
  16. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg
  17. “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.”—Margaret Thatcher
  18. “Women have discovered that they cannot rely on men’s chivalry to give them justice.”—Helen Keller
  19. “Successful mothers are not the ones that have never struggled. They are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.”—Sharon Jaynes
  20. “Success, they taught me, is built on the foundation of courage, hard work, and individual responsibility. Despite what some would have us believe, success is not built on resentment and fears.”—Susana Martinez
  21. “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”—Maya Angelou
  22. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”—Ayn Rand
  23. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.”—Rudyard Kipling
  24. “The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because stuff worked out. They got that way because stuff went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
  25. “There will be so many times you feel like you failed. But in the eyes, ears, and mind of your child, you are a SUPER MOM.”—Stephanie Precourt
  26. “Motherhood is the ultimate call to sacrifice.”—Wangechi Mutu
  27. “We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.”—Maya Angelou
  28. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  29. “There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”—Jill Churchill
  30. “There’s no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It’s all that really matters.”—Courtney Cox
  31. “I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.”—Mitch Albom
  32. “I have found being a mother has made me emotionally raw in many situations. Your heart is beating outside your body when you have a baby.”—Kate Beckinsale
  33. “Single moms, you are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.”—Mandy Hale
  34. “I’m not really single. I mean, I am, but I have a son. Being a single mother is different from being a single woman.”—Kate Hudson
  35. “Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love, and twice the pride.”—Unknown
  36. “For me, motherhood is learning about the strengths I didn’t know I had, and dealing with the fears I didn’t know existed.”—Halle Berry
  37. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things… a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Denice Williams
  38. “You do the best you can. Some days you feel really good about yourself and some days you don’t.”—Katie Holmes
  39. “I would say to any single parent currently feeling the weight of stereotype or stigmatization that I am prouder of my years as a single mother than of any other part of my life.”JK Rowling
  40. “Just because I am a single mother doesn’t mean I cannot be a success.”—Yvonne Kaloki
  41. “I didn’t plan on being a single mom, but you have to deal with the cards you are dealt the best way you can.”—Tichina Arnold
  42. “Nothing you do for children is ever wasted.”—Garrison Keillor
  43. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things, a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Deniece Williams
  44. “Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.”—Meryl Streep
  45. “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”—Maria Shriver
  46. “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.”—Cheryl Lacey Donovan
  47. “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”—Agatha Christie
  48. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  49. “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.”—W.R. Wallace
  50. “Being a mother is the greatest blessing and the hardest challenge in all of life.”—Dr. Magdalena Battles

Final Thoughts

Single moms are remarkable women. They are to be respected and honored for all that they do. If you know a single mom, then share this article with them. Tell them “you are doing a great job as a single mom.” They need our encouragement and support.

They may be parenting alone, but it is good to let them know that there are people in their life who care for them. We can all be there for the single moms out there. Even if it is just to say, “keep up the great work, you are an amazing woman!”

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If you are a single mom, keep up the good work! You are amazing, and your kids are lucky to have you!

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