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20 Things Only Women Who Have Given Birth Understand

20 Things Only Women Who Have Given Birth Understand

You have done the ante-natal. You have read so many books to get prepared for giving birth. However, there are still some things you will not understand until after you have given birth.

1. You have a different size of breasts

Whether it has become more incredible or it has added more weight, your breast has changed and it is different from the way it was.

2. Your labor day was like a scene from a horror movie

The panic, tension, and pain remain unforgettable. It was as if the pain was never going to end. You would only have escaped this part if you had gone for an epidural.

3. Your healthy meals do not look appealing anymore

You want to grub something that will give you all the energy back that you have lost but suddenly most of the diet you would have loved seems to be a trigger for nausea.

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4. You had to get into the water to become all new again

A dip in the pool reminds you of how light you have become. Getting water all over you is not simply a luxury, but a necessity.

5. You really craved for silence during delivery

When you scream, you want to be heard. You may have wanted a different sound, but really what you demanded for during the delivery period was silence.

6. You have changed and people notice it

After the delivery your body size is different. People notice the difference about you and won’t stop asking about the physical change you have made.

7. Your first visit to the toilet after delivery wasn’t pleasant

Whatever method you use in delivering your baby, you’ll have to visit the toilet after you give birth. And it won’t be an enjoyable experience.

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8. You didn’t really have anything to hide

During pregnancy and delivery your private parts were observed by several total strangers. It may be difficult but you’ll have to be come to terms with that.

9. You look at your baby and you feel it is worth it

Nothing can be as special as being the one to bring a new born baby who looks amazingly beautiful into this world. You look back at all that you have gone through during the process and you feel accomplished.

10. You probably will have some marks

Stitches, stretchmarks, or scars are like awards and trophies which you can use as proof that you have been through the triumphant process of delivering a baby.

11. You have a hero in your doctor

The pain must have seemed unending and whomever would have taken all that pain away will always have your admiration and respect.

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12. You will look back and laugh over your contraction and delivery moment

If you had the period filmed, you can’t help but laugh at how you behaved during the period of bearing a child.

13. You have a photo you cherish

No matter how awful your hair and your face looks, the first photo with your baby will always be amongst your favorite picture ever.

14. You cherish your first latch after delivery

After having your legs akimbo during your delivery, you’ll have to go naked to receive your first latch from your midwife. Don’t worry, it doesn’t really seem disturbing, but rather comforting.

15. You want to fit into the right pants

You are concerned about the freedom on what you wear, rather than the size of your post-birth pants.

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16. You might have defecated during delivery

There is nothing embarrassing about delivering and having to defecate right there. It happens sometimes and you might have been a victim of the act.

17. You didn’t just have to deliver only a baby

You didn’t deliver only a baby, you also delivered a placenta after the baby had emerged. Although the second one was quicker and painless, you adjusted to making extra pushes.

18. Your first afterbirth massage hurt a lot

Before you can go home, your midwife and doctor will have to massage your stomach to make sure you stopped bleeding. Unfortunately, this may hurt a lot.

19. Your belly button won’t be so cute for a while

Your baby will have a part of what remains attached in your tummy for a while before drying up and falling off.

20. You never anticipated what happened during your delivery process

During pregnancy, labor, and delivery things will happen that you had never anticipated or imagined. Such things must have defied all that you had expected or anticipated. Remember the miracle of the whole process moving forward. It’s sure to be another defying of expectations.

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Published on November 7, 2018

How to Homeschool in the 21st Century (For All Types of Parents & Kids)

How to Homeschool in the 21st Century (For All Types of Parents & Kids)

In 2016, it was estimated that 1.7 million children were being homeschooled in the U.S, roughly 3.3% of all school-aged children.[1] Although this may not sound like a big portion of the population, the growth rate of homeschooling has been 7 to15% per year for the last two decades.

The burgeoning numbers are not a coincidence. There are tremendous benefits to homeschooling, including one-on-one teaching, adaptability to individual needs and learning styles, a safe learning environment, encouraging learning for knowledge rather than grades, and tailoring a curriculum to the child’s interests.

Is homeschooling something that you have been considering for your family? With all of the tools and resources available for homeschoolers in the 21st century, it may be easier than you think.

How to Homeschool (Getting Started)

After thinking it through, you’ve decided that homeschooling is the right step for you and your family. Now what? Here are the first things you should do to get your homeschooling journey started on the right track.

Figure Out the Laws

Homeschooling is regulated by the state, not the federal government. The first step is to find the current and accurate legal requirements mandated by your state in order to educate your child legally.[2]

The regulations can vary widely, from strict guidelines to no guidelines at all. However, don’t be overwhelmed by the legal jargon. There are many resources and local communities for homeschooling families that can help you figure out the logistics.

Decide on an Approach

Every child’s needs are different. This is your chance to choose the homeschooling style or combination of styles that best fits your child’s learning style and interests. A brief description of seven different homeschooling methods are listed below.

Supplies/Resources

Often times, purchasing a homeschooling curriculum is done too early in the planning process, resulting in buyer’s remorse.

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A curriculum is not always needed for homeschooling, and other types of free or less structured resources are readily available.

Find a Community

Getting connected with a community of homeschoolers is one of the most important parts of building a successful and thriving homeschool environment for your kids.

Look for communities online for virtual support or a local group that you and your kids can interact with. Partnering with others fosters better socialization skills for the students and provides opportunities for field trips, classes, and outings that wouldn’t have otherwise been a part of the homeschooling experience.

7 Different Homeschooling Methods

1. School-At-Home

Also known as Traditional homeschool, School-At-Home uses essentially the same curriculum as the local private or public school but at home.

The lessons can be completed independently, but more commonly, they are administered by a parent or a teacher-facilitated online school.

  • Benefits: formal standards, wide selection of curricula, same pace as peers, short-term friendly
  • Drawbacks: expensive, inflexible, time consuming, parent can get easily burnt out
  • Resources: K12, Time4Learning, Abeka

2. Classical

One of the most popular homeschooling methods used, it borrows educational practices from Ancient Greece and Rome. Subject areas are studied chronologically so that students can understand the consequence of ideas over time.

Socratic dialogue fosters effective discussions and debate to achieve beyond mere comprehension. There is often a strong emphasis on Great Books[3] as well as Greek and Latin.

3. Unit Studies

Rather than breaking up education into subjects, unit studies approach each topic as a whole, studying it from the perspective of each subject area.

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For example, a unit study about animals could include reading books about animals, learning about the classification of animals, figuring out which animals live on which continents, etc. This method is often used as a technique in other more comprehensive educational methodologies.

  • Benefits: promotes thinking about concepts as a whole, not monotonous or redundant, student-directed, bolsters weaker subject areas, beneficial for teaching multi-age students
  • Drawbacks: incomplete, knowledge gaps, curriculum-dependent
  • Resources: Unit Study, Unit Studies, Unit Studies Made Easy, Konos

4. Charlotte Mason

This Christian homeschooling style utilizes shorts periods of study (15-20 minute max for elementary, 45 minute max for high school), along with nature walks and history portfolios.

Students are encouraged to practice observation, memorization, and narration often. With a focus on “living books” (stories with heroes, life lessons, socio-ethical implications), reading plays a big role in this student-paced teaching style.

5. Montessori

Maria Montessori developed this method through working with special needs children in the early 20th century.

With a primary focus on the student setting the pace and indirect instruction from the teacher, this approach includes free movement, large unstructured time blocks (up to 3 hours), multi-grade classes, and individualized learning plans based on interests.

6. Unschooling

Unschooling is a learning model largely based on the work of John Holt.[4] The teaching style focuses mainly on the students’ interests, putting priority on experiential, activity-based, and learn as you go approaches.

For basic skills such as reading, writing, and math, a systematic technique is employed, but testing and evaluations are typically not utilized. Teachers, in general, play more of a facilitator role.

7. Eclectic/Relaxed

As the most popular method of homeschool, eclectic homeschooling is child-directed, resourceful, and non-curriculum based.

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Parents can sample any combination of homeschooling methods and styles or resources. One growing sector of eclectic homeschooling combines part homeschooling with part traditional schooling.

How to Facilitate Homeschooling with Technology

One of the reasons homeschooling is more feasible than ever before is due to the accessibility of tools and resources to enhance the learning process.

Email

Email is a tool that has really stood the test of time. Invented in 1972, it is still used today as a primary means of communicating on the Internet.

It is a great way to share assignments, links, and videos between parent and student.

Google Drive/Calendar

Google Drive offers a multitude of essential programs that can come in handy for homeschoolers, such as Docs, Sheets, Slides, and more.

With its sharing capabilities, easy accessibility, and auto-save ability, it’s easier than ever to organize and complete assignments. It will improve students’ writing and typing skills, as well as eliminate the need for paper.

Google Calendar is an excellent tool for tracking assignment due dates, planning field trips and activities, and developing time management skills.

Ebooks

Rather than invest in physical copies of books, ebooks are a wonderful option for saving money and space. There are plenty of places that offer a free or paid subscription to a wide selection of ebooks:

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E-Courses

When a structured curriculum is necessary for teaching a certain topic, an e-course is the way to go.

From watercolors to calculus, there are e-courses available about almost everything. Including different teaching styles that vary from the parents will encourage students to learn in different ways.

The visual and auditory stimulation will also be beneficial in helping students understand and retain the concepts being taught.

Some recommendations:

Youtube

Youtube is not just a platform for music videos and cats doing funny things. There are a number of Youtube channels that produce quality educational videos, free of charge.

Creating a playlist of videos for various topics is a great way to supplement a homeschool education.

Some recommendations:

Final Thoughts

Homeschooling in the current age looks much different than it did ten years ago. There are more options and more flexibility when it comes to educating kids at home.

Don’t be overwhelmed by the idea of homeschooling your children if it could make a positive impact on your family.

Featured photo credit: Hal Gatewood via unsplash.com

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