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7 Things You Can Do If Your Hard Work Goes Unnoticed

7 Things You Can Do If Your Hard Work Goes Unnoticed

You work so hard for your money, so you deserve to be treated right. Unfortunately life doesn’t always work that way, and far too often you find yourself carrying huge stones up the pyramids someone else is taking credit for. If this is happening to you, it may just be in your head, but you’re the only one listening to your thoughts (until the government or corporations figure out a way) so you need to address the issue. Whether it’s you or them, lacking recognition isn’t the point of hard work, so here are some tips to ensure you don’t put in all that hard work while remaining unnoticed.

You Better Recognize…

You deserve recognition. It’s OK to accept that you’re a great person who deserves praise. Religion and economics sometimes have the effect of lowering your self worth; even a bad relationship or family discourse can get you down. You’re not just some Joe Schmo, and even if you were, we all know his name, so there’s no reason we shouldn’t know yours. Keep your head up and love yourself, and people will start recognizing you as the only person in the office who doesn’t complain.

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Dependence Is Taxing…

So you showed up on time and performed 12 of the 27 job duties you and seven other people are paid to do; do you want a cookie? People shouldn’t have to run around patting you on the back every time you’re considerate enough respond to an email or complete a project on time. You don’t deserve a promotion or a raise for meeting expectations. You earn recognition and rewards for going above and beyond. Drop the sense of entitlement–it doesn’t look cute on you.

All You Need Is Love…

No matter what occupation you choose, you’re going to put in a lot of thankless hours. It’s not like the media followed LeBron James from the womb; the only person watching his first time holding a basketball was LeBron and his parents. You know who he is because he put in 10,000 hours mastering his craft by the time he was 21. If you love what you’re doing, you won’t care whether or not anyone recognizes it; you’ll be happy doing what you’re doing, regardless of who’s watching. The only way to cope emotionally with that workload is to love what it is you’re doing and believe in it with every fiber in your body. Everything else is just a matter of time.

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Actions Speak Louder than Words…

Not everyone expresses themselves verbally–sometimes you may receive a simple smile, a free meal, or a congratulatory slap on the butt for hitting a homerun at work. Many times when the company is doing poorly, they’ll cut back on employee incentives. Suddenly you’ll see things like donuts in the break room disappear or the coffee maker being replaced by vending machines. It’s during these times (and many others) that many supervisors use their own money to make their employees happy. They do this to show you that you’re appreciated. It doesn’t always have to be a direct thank you.

Be Objective…

Do you truly deserve recognition–are you always actively digging the same hole the team is, or are you on the other end of the worksite texting? Do you think we don’t know how long it really takes to process that report? If you’re slacking off, you actually are getting attention, but it’s not for hard work. Think about whether or not you’d know if people are slacking off and ask yourself how dumb you believe your boss to truly be.

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Respect Yourself…

If you don’t focus on you, nobody else will. One of the easiest ways to get attention at work is to suddenly show up in a suit every day. With time, everyone will be talking about you. People in suits will ask who the guy in the suit is. You’ll have the entire office’s attention with everything you do–and by default, all the work you’re currently doing will get a lot more attention.

Create Demand…

Applying for other jobs is a great way to get attention. You don’t even have to apply for one–simply bring up places that are hiring in conversations. You can mention that another company has shown interest in your work and ask for more money. Be careful though, because you may find out how expendable you are, and the reality check could include losing your job as your boss calls your bluff. You’ll have their attention either way, though, as most companies have you take an exit interview.

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Smile…

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    Dude…that’s not real bacon…I swear, I’ll bite you…

    When all else fails, smile; it changes people’s perception of you. When you turn something in with a smile, they’ll want to talk to you about your day. You may even get a date out of it. A genuine and confident smile will always attract more attention than a lowered head and hunched shoulders holding up a grumpy Gus. Put a smile on your face and make the world a better place–if for no other reason than to piss off your haters.

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    Last Updated on September 23, 2020

    Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

    Do What You Love and Love What You Do to Achieve More

    Are you waking up each day looking for that perfect thing, activity, or job that will make your life work? Or, maybe you are looking for that perfect relationship. Once you “get” this new thing that will allow you to do what you love, you are sure that you will be happy forever.

    In reality, life doesn’t work like that, and we would probably get bored if it did. There is likely no one thing, experience, or activity that will keep you feeling passionate and engaged all the time. What’s important is staying connected to what you love and continuing to grow in the process.

    Here, we’ll talk about how to get started doing what you love and achieving more in life through the motivation it brings. Doing this doesn’t have to take a long time; it just takes determination and energy.

    Most People Already Know Their Passion

    So many people walk around in life “looking for” their passion. They look for it as if true passion is some mysterious thing that is difficult to find and runs away once you find it. However, the problem is rarely lack of passion.

    Most of us already know what we love to do. We know what excites us, even if we haven’t done it for years. Instead, we focus on what we think we “must” do.

    For example, maybe you love building model cars or painting pet portraits. Yet, each day you work a completely unrelated job and make no time for the activity you already know you love. The truth is you probably don’t need to find your passion; you just need to start doing what you already know you’re passionate about[1].

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    No Activity Is Exciting All the Time

    Even people who are living their dream lifestyle or working their dream job don’t love it all the time. Every job or lifestyle has parts of it that we won’t like.

    Let’s say your dream is to become an actress, and you succeed. You may not enjoy the process of auditioning and facing rejection. You may experience moments of boredom when you practice your lines over and over again. But the overall experience is totally worth it.

    Most of life is like that. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment by demanding that life be perfect all the time. If things were perfect and easy, you would ultimately stop learning and growing, and life would begin to lack even more meaning in that case.

    Be grateful for both the good and bad moments as they are both entirely necessary if you genuinely want to do what you love and love what you do.

    Doing What You Love May Not Be Easy

    Living a life you love is unlikely to be easy. If it was, you would not grow very much as a person. And, if you think about a great book or movie, the growth of the main character is what matters most.

    What if the challenges you meet along your path to living a life you love were designed to make you grow as a person? You may actually start looking forward to challenges instead of dreading them. An easy life hardly ever makes a compelling story.

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    If you struggle to overcome challenges, try writing them down each time you encounter one. Then, write down three ways you could tackle it. Try one, and if it doesn’t work, try another. This way, you’ll learn what does and doesn’t work for you.

    How to Do What You Love

    There are many small steps you can take to ensure you are making time to do the things you love. Start with these, and you’ll likely find that you’re already on the right track.

    1. Choose Your Priorities Wisely

    Many people claim they want to do something, yet they don’t do it. The truth is they might not really want to do it in the first place[2].

    We all end up following through on what matters most to us. We make decisions moment by moment about what we need to focus on. What we choose to do is what we deem most important in our lives.

    If there is something you claim you want to do but you don’t do it, try asking yourself how much you really want it or where it’s currently placed on priority list. Are there other things you want more?

    Be honest with yourself: what you currently do each day is a reflection of your priorities. Recognize that you can change your priorities at any time.

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    Make a list of your priorities. Really take the time to think this through. Then, ask yourself if what you are doing each day reflects them. For example, if you believe your top priority is spending more time with your family, but you consistently take on extra hours at work, you’re not really prioritizing things in the way you think you are.

    If this is happening, it’s time to make a change.

    2. Do One Small Thing Each Day

    As stated above, doing what you love doesn’t have to mean finding that perfect job that makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning. If you want to do what you love, start with one small thing each day.

    Maybe you love reading a good book. Take ten minutes before bed to read.

    Maybe you love swimming. Get a membership at the local YMCA, and go there for thirty minutes after work each day.

    Dedicating even a short amount of time to something that brings you joy each day will improve your life overall. You may find that, over time, a career path related to what you love to do pops up. After doing the thing you love each day, you’ll be more than prepared to take it on when the opportunity arises.

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    If you need help making time for your passions, check out this article to get started.

    3. Prepare to Make Sacrifices

    If you are an exceptionally busy person (aren’t we all?), you may have to make sacrifices in order to make space for the things you are passionate about. Maybe you take on less extra hours at the office or take thirty minutes away from another hobby in order to develop another that you enjoy.

    Looking at your priority list will help you decide what can get put on the back burner and what can’t. Remember, do this thinking about what will help you feel good about how you’re spending your time. 

    For example, if you love writing but rarely make time for it, consider getting up 30 minutes earlier than normal. Or instead of browsing your phone for 30 minutes before bed, you can write instead. There is always a way to find time for what you love.

    Final Thoughts

    If you love what you do, each day becomes a joyful adventure. If you don’t love what you are doing, life feels like a chore. The best way to achieve success is to design a life you love and live it every day.

    Remember, doing something you love doesn’t have to include big gestures or time-consuming projects. Start small and grow from there.

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