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10 Reasons Why Your Coworkers Have The Potential To Be Your Great Friends

10 Reasons Why Your Coworkers Have The Potential To Be Your Great Friends

Co-workers are the people that you spend the most time with, even more so than friends and family. They have seen you at your best and at your worst. Here are some reasons that your work friendships could easily develop into something more meaningful.

1. They see you at your worst

Seeing you when you are under immense pressure from a looming deadline or after a disagreement with your boss, they have not only seen you at a vulnerable time, but they stuck with you and lent a shoulder to lean on. They are familiar with how you act under stress and know when to offer some reassuring words or let you have your space. You have survived major work-related hardships because your co-worker crew has always been there when you were at your worse.

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2. They have seen you grow

Spending a majority of the work day together, your co-workers have watched you flourish, both professionally and personally. They have been there for the major life milestones, whether it was the day that you bought your first house or the time that you got promoted, they were right by your side sipping champagne and patting you on the back.

3. They put in the effort to celebrate your special days

Whether it’s your five year work anniversary or your birthday, your co-workers know how to throw an office party. From the thoughtfully handwritten sign to your favorite chocolate cupcakes, you always feel appreciated at work and in life because of them.

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4. They are always up for a little TV show gossip

It is an unspoken tradition that every Tuesday morning you and a couple of your co-workers will recap the highlights of The Voice in painstaking detail. These weekly conversations are the perfect mindless activity to take your mind off of the presentation that you have been stressing on for the past week and it also is a great way to bond.

5. They understand that you are not perfect

Your co-workers know all to well about your personal quirks and have learned to take them in stride. They are forgiving when you leave you dirty dishes in the sink, but also are straightforward with you and call you out on things, only because they have your best interests in mind.

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6. They understand a large piece of your life

Your world revolves around the office on weekdays and it is always nice to have people who are familiar with the same environment to commiserate with when you are venting about a work-related issue or recalling an inside joke that only your co-workers would understand the context for.

7. They understand your financial troubles

Having friends who understand your current financial struggles from a low paycheck are priceless, especially if they can relate firsthand like your co-workers can. They have either been there themselves or at the very least they know the unfair pay structure of your company and are willing to partake in $1 Taco Tuesday over handcrafted cocktails any time of the week.

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8. They already know the intimate details of your life

From your minor health mishaps to what you eat for breakfast every morning, your co-workers know things about you that only close friends confide in each other about. They are there to give you an Advil when your head is pounding from the night before or laugh with you as you recall an embarrassing encounter in the bathroom with your boss.

9. They want to hang out with you outside the office

On top of spending forty hours together during the week, they want to include you in their weekend plans and vice versa. Whether it is plans to see the latest action flick after work or chowing down on some seriously good Thai on the weekend, you always seem to be making plans to hang out.

10. They know your friends and family

Knowing your family is a key component to understand you and why are the way your are. They have heard all the stories of you growing up and how you always fought with your older sister about whose turn it was to take out the trash. Your co-workers also know who your closest friends are and why they are so important to you.

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

8 Life-Changing Skills You Can Learn in Less Than 6 Months

8 Life-Changing Skills You Can Learn in Less Than 6 Months

Everyone has the ability to learn a life-changing skill not just this year, but in the next 6 months.

By life-changing, I mean something that can have a positive impact in your life moving forward, even if it’s something you can’t envision today. Certain skills we can immediately reap the benefits of, while others will be life-changing when we least expect it.

In this article, we’ll share 8 life-changing skills you can learn in 6 months, where you can learn them, and how you can get started today.

1. Speed reading

Bill Gates has been known to state that if he had one superpower, it would be the ability to read faster. What Bill and the rest of the mega-successful understand is that knowledge is power. The ability to process information faster from books, articles, and reports is what will help us learn faster, and therefore improve each aspect of our life faster as well.

Where you can start learning: Speed reading courses are becoming more popular, as more people realize how important it is with the limited time we have. You can check out free courses like Read Speeder or you can start learning how to use Spritzlet, which allows you to speed read articles online with a browser extension.

2. Public speaking

Research shows that people fear public speaking more than death itself. There’s something terrifying about being in front of dozens or hundreds of people, and exposing yourself completely. It’s when you’re most vulnerable, but learning how to public speak is a life-changer.

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Warren Buffett has given advice to recent graduates that the number one skill you can have to succeed is public speaking skills. Everything from communication, confidence, and sales is developed when you develop your public speaking skills.

Where you can start learning: Luckily, there are great communities out there like Toastmasters that organize local meetups all around the world. You’ll find amazing public speakers that are looking to get to the next level to beginners that are just getting started. Check out Toastmasters’ website here.

3. Spanish

As the third most spoken language in the world, the ability to speak Spanish will allow you to reach over 500M people around the world. No matter where you live, knowing how to speak Spanish is becoming increasingly more important, with the Hispanic population and economy spreading quickly worldwide. If you’re living in the US, this is even more important, with over 30% of the population being Hispanic.

Spanish is also on this list, because it’s one of the easiest languages to learn. Sure, Mandarin is an important language to learn, but it’s an incredibly difficult one to learn. If we were to measure the level of importance and the time to learn for all the languages available, Spanish would make it to the top of the list.

One of the biggest reasons why people never reach fluency in any foreign language is: using the wrong method, and lack of time.

It turns out that humans retain only 5% of what we learn from lectures, 20% of what we learn from apps (visual cues), and 90% of what we learn from immediate immersion. Yet, how do 90% of learn a new foreign language? Language schools (lectures), books, Duolingo (apps), etc that don’t provide the real-life immersion required for our brains to learn faster.

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Where to get started: If you want the most effective way to learn a language, learning from real-life interactions is the best way to do it. There are great websites like Rype, which offers Spanish coaching for busy people, solving the issue of lack of time and bringing real-life immersion to your screen. With Rype, you can book as many lessons as you want, at any time of the day, any day of the week, allowing you to fit it into your schedule, no matter how busy you are.

4. Accounting

If you’re looking to get into business, accounting is one of the core fundamentals you’ll need to succeed. While you don’t need to be an expert, you definitely should understand the basics.

This skill can also be used to manage your personal finances, to meet your financial goals, and having more control over your life.

Where to get started learning: If you didn’t learn accounting in school, no worries. You can either teach yourself using books, or check out free accounting courses online.

5. Microsoft Excel

Most people reading this probably have a basic understanding of Microsoft Excel Spreadsheet. While this is a good start, there are so many powerful functionalities that are hidden, which could make your life a lot easier.

Excel is also a great asset to have whenever you’re looking for a job, as many corporations rely on Excel to organize and manage multiple parts of the business.

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Where to get started learning: With the popularity of Excel, you can find tons of free resources and videos online to learn. Check out Excel Exposure, Lynda, and Excel with Business.

6. Blogging/Vlogging

Blogging is a powerful tool if you want to spread your ideas, build your brand, or grow your business. Since it was introduced, blogging has taken on a life of its own, and today there are ~2M blog posts being written on a daily basis.

Where to get started learning: Anyone can start blogging today. All you need is a content-management system like WordPress, which is completely free. Personally, I think the best way to start learning how to blog is to just start writing. There are techniques you can learn on how to promote your blog, but the best way to grow your blog is to write great content.

7. Weight training

Yes, weight training is a skill. It’s not as advanced as learning how to code, nor will it take as long as learning a new language, if you just want to learn the basics.

We’re not promising that you’ll get a body like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but you will see much faster results for whatever goal you have, just by understanding how to workout properly. And of course, when you’re dealing with an activity that involves physical strain, you’ll always want to caution yourself.

Where to get started learning: There are amazing body builders that are sharing all of their secrets for free on Youtube. You can check out Bodybuilding.com’s Youtube channel to get started.

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8. Photo and video editing

In the digital world that we live in, from Youtube, Instagram, and Facebook, there is no avoiding photos and videos. In fact, social media has increasingly gone away from text sharing and almost everything to photo and video editing.

Where to get started learning: For photo editing, you can use Photoshop. For video editing, you can use iMovie or Final Cut Pro. Keep in mind, there are dozens of editing software tools for video and photo editing, but what’s more important are your editing skills, not the tool itself.

Check out education websites like CreativeLIVE or Skillshare, where you can learn from experts themselves on how to best use design and software tools.

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