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8 Easy Ways To Get Better Sleep Tonight

8 Easy Ways To Get Better Sleep Tonight

I was always a lousy sleeper as a child. From the age of eight on I often survived on four or five hours of (anxiety-laden) sleep a night. The last few years I’ve been making a real effort to change that though – and I give thanks to a few tricks and habits I’ve developed over the years. If you want to get serious high-quality sleep then the following tips are perfect for you.

1. Cutback caffeine.

Caffeine is one of the biggest causes of being unable to fall asleep. It also lowers the quality of sleep. My new year’s resolution this year was to cut out caffeine entirely. Save for the rare cup of coffee I have… and I’ve slept so much better for it. You wouldn’t believe the difference it makes. Without caffeine pumping through my veins, I feel like I’ve slept twice as long as I actually have.

If you can’t bare to give up caffeine at least try to cutback to a couple of cups a day, and keep it to the morning/early afternoon. Switch to decaf, there’s barely any difference in taste, and it only contains about 1-2% of the regular amount of caffeine in most cases. Click here to read more about the effects of caffeine on sleep.

2. Drink warm milk before bed.

Whenever I used to struggle to sleep as a child, my mother would always make me a warm cup of milk. More often than not, it worked! This is another classic case of “mother knows best.”

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Milk contains an amino acid called trytophan that (without getting unnecessarily sciency) is converted to serotonin and then melatonin. Melatonin is known as the “sleep hormone” and will send you off to the land of nod in no time at all. Side note: Trytophan is also found in turkey, which is why you may feel particularly sleepy after your Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner.

3. Respect the sanctity of your bedroom.

Your bedroom should be somewhere you go for two reasons. Sleep and… well, you know. If you like to take your all manner of electronic gizmos to bed to tinker on then you’re confusing your brain. You’re giving it an overdose of stimulation, and then you wonder why you can’t get to sleep for hours.

If you want better sleep every night then make your bedroom an electronic-free zone. Teach your brain your bedroom is a place of rest.

4. Buy the best mattress, pillows and PJs you can afford.

When you consider how much time we spending sleeping, it’s amazing how little money we invest into it. Most people buy the cheapest mattress and pillows they can find – and are shocked by how uncomfortable they are at night when they try to go to sleep. If you want better sleep then you should be spending as much money as you can afford on high-quality mattress and pillows. For years I slept in a single bed with wonky springs and it ruined my sleep and gave me a bad back for years.

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Now I have an amazingly comfortable king-sized mattress that I sink into, and pillows to match. Next to cutting out caffeine this is the biggest improvement I’ve made to my sleep. Don’t skimp on your PJs either, get a thick, soft pair you’d want to where all day if you could. Make sleep-time a time to look forward to.

5. Make your room as dark as possible.

Light inhibits melatonin production. That means it’s a good idea to make your bedroom as dark as possible. This ensures you’ll get a better sleep each night. You can do this by buying a thick pair of curtains to block out external light, banning electronics from the bedroom (no blinking lights), turning off all lights upstairs, and closing your bedroom door. If your bedroom still isn’t dark enough you can buy yourself a sleep mask to block out all light.

6. If you can’t fall asleep within 30 minutes do something else.

If you’re still struggling to get to sleep, don’t beat yourself up about it. Get up and take a walk around the house, go outside for a few minutes, or read a book. Take the focus off the need to sleep and sleep will soon come to you.

7. Keep a diary.

“How on Earth would keeping a diary help me get a better sleep?” I hear you ask. Well it’s really quite simple. You know all those thoughts you can’t stop running through your mind as you scrunch your eyes closed convincing yourself you’re not crazy? Keeping a diary takes all those thoughts from your head, transfers them to a page and keeps them where they can’t disturb you.

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It’s like complaining about something to a friend. Once it’s off your chest, you feel the weight off your shoulders and it doesn’t bother you as much any more.

8. Try meditation or hypnotherapy shortly before bedtime.

If you want to send your sleep to the next level then meditation and hypnotherapy can do just that. Both are very similar in that they quiet the conscious mind. In meditation you focus on one thing (and ultimately nothing AND everything), while in hypnotherapy you focus on an aspect of yourself you’d like to improve and mentally repeat suggestions to that effect.

A simple meditation exercise I use each night is to focus my thoughts on my breathing. I take mental notes of how the air feels cold as I inhale, and warm as I exhale, how my belly expands then contracts. Because I’m entirely focused on my breathing, no unwanted thoughts enter my head.

Just 10 minutes of meditation before you go to sleep makes a HUGE difference to the quality of sleep. It feels like you’ve added hours to the length of your sleep when you wake up the next morning.

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Those are eight of my favorite ways to get better sleep. Do you have any tips of your own? Leave a comment and let me know, I’d love to read them!

Featured photo credit: Sleepy Time by Alexandra Guerson via flickr.com

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Last Updated on January 17, 2019

8 Simple Mindfulness Exercises to Bring Peace and Happiness to Your Life

8 Simple Mindfulness Exercises to Bring Peace and Happiness to Your Life

In life, we all need to be conscientious of what we are doing. You don’t need to live a life of stress if you don’t want to. You can achieve peace and happiness in life by carefully building mindfulness exercises into your life’s routine.

Exercising mindfulness isn’t rocket science and as importantly, you can do it. It will, however, take a few tries to get into the groove of things but once you get it, it is like riding a bike, you will never lose it.

Trust me. It’s in your best interest to learn and put these mindfulness exercises into practice. In this article, I will share with you 8 mindfulness exercises that will help you to boost your energy, vitality and live a more peaceful and happier life.

Why Is It Hard to Live A Peaceful And Happy Life?

Our Habitat Has Become Too Technological

The world has accepted the idea that technology is often the cure for all evil. We have accepted, as a society, that everything technological will make us live a better life without fully investigating the many side effects that modernity brings.

There are a number of technological side effects that have a tremendous impact on your life that the media rarely tells you about.[1] Some of them include self-harm, economic inequality, having less sex, and even suicide. The global community is becoming less happy because of technology.

How can anybody live a peaceful and happy life when they are depressed? Technology advancements, ladies and gents, is a major reason for why we are living a poor life because it has infiltrated our lives too much.

According to my research, Americans spend an average of 8 hours a day looking at the computer screen — The average screen time spent on smartphones alone is about 20 hours per week. That’s a lot! No wonder why living a happy and peaceful life is so difficult these days.

Too Many People Don’t Want to Unplug

Americans check their phones an average of 80 times during vacation.[2] Some admit to checking their smartphones 300 times every single day. In countries like Brazil, India and China, the situation is no different.

The reality is that people are constantly plugged into technological devices and this behavior is literally making people all over the globe fight an inner war with themselves, which consequently makes them very sad. As we know, war is the enemy of peace which won’t make anybody happy.

Listen carefully:

We have a global anxiety epidemic because people don’t want to unplug from their smartphones and most people aren’t doing anything to fix it. It is a sad state of affairs but very real. This obsession with technology is turning us into perishable robots who live terrible lives.

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The era of anxiety is here to stay. There is little doubt about it. We can, however, fight back with the best remedy of all — We call it mindfulness!

Thank God there is an antidote to this whole technological madness. Without further ado, let’s go straight to the mindful exercises.

8 Mindfulness Exercises to Start Practicing

There are tons of mindfulness exercises available for you to engage with out there.[3] In the paragraphs below, I will include the best ones I’ve personally tried or have seen my close friends and family members try.

Are you ready for it? Let’s go!

1. Pray Daily

You should pray on a daily basis. Why is that you may ask — Well, because science has told us to do so.

When people pray, they feel peaceful, almost eliminating anxiety. Worries become secondary, and often gives people energy and hope to cope with the difficulties of life.

Prayer can make you more confident and focused. Prayer also helps you with self-control, helps to control pain, and can protect you against illnesses and disorders like cancer and high blood pressure. At least, this is what researchers from Harvard Medical School have said.[4]

Pray. You won’t regret it.[5]

2. Pay Attention to Your Inner Thoughts

A lot of people allow themselves to be influenced by their negative thoughts. Be different and resist believing in them. It is a bad habit that can lead to unhappiness.

By the way, if you do feel this way, chances are high that somebody other than you put these thoughts into your head.

Here is my secret to combat this cancer — look at things objectively. I bet that if you look at things as they are, you will realize that most if not all of your negative thoughts are only inside of your head.

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If you pay close attention, you will quickly realize that these voices aren’t worth your time. Believe me — Ignoring them and looking at things with objectivity is often the best course of action.

This article can guide you to beat negative thoughts:

How to Stop Automatic Negative Thoughts When You’re Overwhelmed

3. Smile Often

Smiling will slow down your heart. It will also relax your body because when you smile, your body releases endorphins which in itself has a number of positive benefits for you as a person.

Smile often! You may want to smile early in the morning, during the day, and late in the evening. It is amazing what happens to you when you decide to smile instead of being grumpy.

Surrender your problems to a nice smile. You will notice two things. First, most people just don’t which makes them live a miserable life. Second, if you decide to smile often, you will eventually smile unconsciously which is the ideal.

The moment that you smile unconsciously, you then know that you are truly happy.

4. Organize Your Working Desk

A messy desk will make you less productive and can agitate and overstimulate you. You don’t want that.

When you clear your desk, you engage in deep inner-thinking and your systematic decision making ends up becoming therapeutic.

Most people realize that they are most creative when their creative space is clean and organized. The former often makes people more aware of what they are doing which lends to less stress and more productivity.

Organizing your desk will also make you more energetic and focused because order often decreases chaos which is a condition that often slows down daily progress.

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5. Celebrate Your Friend’s Victories

I love this mindful exercise. One of the best ways to live a happy and peaceful life is to celebrate the victories of others. When you do that, you automatically make your friends in a better mood which makes you in a better mood, as well.

Happiness is contagious! We might as well celebrate others as much as we can. If you find out that your peer has won an award, celebrate with him! If your friend is the recipient of a local charity award, celebrate with her!

What is also awesome is that when you celebrate with others, they often celebrate with you in return. This, ladies and gentleman, will make you feel fantastic. You can’t go wrong with this one, period.

6. Listen to Your Spouse/Partner

God put someone in your life for a reason. You might as well listen to him or her.

I listen to my wife everyday. In fact, I often ask the following question to her, “Amanda, what are your thoughts about…” or “What am I missing about…” It is shocking what I hear back from her. Without her having much context and perspective, by the art of observation in my own nonverbal behavior and the behavior of others, she accurately gives me incredible insights which helps me out with living my life to the fullest.

I’m a firm believer that spouses are supposed to engage in interpersonal communication every day. I most definitely do and will continue doing it. You should do the same.

7. Give Yourself a Break from Technology

You can’t be in total equilibrium if your computerized devices control your life. You must get away from technology on a daily basis.[6]

How do you do that? This is my formula:

First, take this smartphone control test. It is only ten questions but this test will place you somewhere in the human robot cycle continuum.

If your score is between 25-30, take a break from the computer (or smartphone, pad, laptop/desktop) every twenty minutes and stop being on a computerized device after 8:00pm.

If you score between 30-35, still take a break every 20 minutes but stop being on these devices at 5:00pm.

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If you score more than 35, you need to take action immediately.

Limit computer use as much as possible throughout the day. Give yourself as many breaks from the computer as possible. Are you ready for the challenge?

8. Go Exercise

Go exercise at least three times a week. I don’t care if you need to workout early in the morning, late in the evening, on the weekends or during work days. Working out is absolutely imperative for you to live happy and peaceful life.

The stresses of the modern world are too much for you to neglect this important mindfulness exercise. When you go to the gym, you burn calories, focus on activities one step at a time, your mind relaxes, anxiety decreases, you sweat and often think about topics unrelated to your work place among many other benefits.

You must exercise at least three hours each week for optimum results. Why? Just take a look at all the benefits of regular exercising:

12 Benefits of Regular Exercise You Should Know

The Bottom Line

It’s in your best interest to learn and put these mindfulness exercises into practice. Now that our habitat has become too technological and many people just don’t want to unplug, engaging in daily prayer, celebrate your friends’ victories, and listening to your spouse are among the best ways to be mindful about what you are doing and how you are living.

It is possible to live a happy and peaceful life. It only depends on you.

Go exercise! Take a break from technology and invest in you! Life is too short for distractions.

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