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7 Ways to Enjoy Working Toward Your Dream

7 Ways to Enjoy Working Toward Your Dream

Working toward your big dream is hard work. Some dreams take years to achieve and a huge amount of effort. Although pursuing your dream is hard work, there’s good things about the process too. It’s easy, and only natural, to get overwhelmed from time to time, but it’s important to enjoy working toward your dream. Often it’s as simple as knowing how to look at your situation. Here are seven ways to enjoy working toward your dream.

1. Allow yourself time for exploration without forcing a result

One of the best things about working toward a dream is that there’s room to explore. When your dream isn’t set in stone, there’s time to discover many wonderful possibilities. Although your to-do list might seem overwhelming sometimes, always give yourself the time to explore. You never know what exciting new things might come from it.

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2. Take time off to recharge your batteries

When you’re working toward your dream, it’s easy to fall into the trap of wanting to be active all the time. However, this is not healthy and won’t do you any favors in the long run. Always take time off to recharge your batteries. If you’re feeling strain, it’s a sign from your body that you need to slow down. Make sure you listen to it. Your body will thank you, and your mind will reward you with fresher and more innovative ideas when you do get back to work.

3. Be open to new things

When you’re working toward your dream, nothing is set in stone. That’s a great thing. Be open to new things, and always give yourself room to change course if necessary. You can’t always predict the direction things will take or what opportunities might come your way. Always be open to new possibilities, and you’ll be rewarded handsomely.

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4. Get to know the people you meet along the way

The people you meet along the way to achieving your dream are some of the most important people you’ll ever meet. Don’t rush through so quickly that you don’t get the chance to really know them. These people are your peers and mentors, so make the most of your time together. If you invest your time in getting to know the people you meet along the way, these relationships can be truly invaluable and last a lifetime.

5. Take joy in the unexpected discoveries

When you’re working toward your dream, there are so many new things happening that unexpected discoveries are bound to come your way. Take joy in these things no matter how small they are. After all, it’s the little things that count.

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6. Make the most of the spare time you have

No matter how hard you’re working toward your dream, there’s always going to be those special pockets of spare time. Make the most of them by getting out and doing something fun. Go on adventures, meet new people and let loose. You deserve it. Whether you’ve got the time and money for an amazing overseas adventure in an exotic location or simply an afternoon walk in your local park, get out there and do something.

7. Always remember why you started

You started on this path because you believed in something with all your heart, so much so that you were willing to pour everything into it. When the going gets tough, take a moment to remember why you started in the first place. By coming back to the core reason of your endeavors, you’ll re-center your motivation and find the energy to keep going.

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Are you working toward a big dream? What are some things you do everyday to enjoy working toward it?

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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