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7 Tips to Turn Your After Dinner Speech Into a Memorable One

7 Tips to Turn Your After Dinner Speech Into a Memorable One

Many organizations and businesses hold meetings that include a dinner or some other type of meal. These types of meeting can be very popular. The idea of getting good free food and being able to have conversations with others is very appealing. The person that organizes these meetings will have different goals that they are trying to achieve. They may be looking to motivate employees or they may want to introduce a new product.

No matter what the reason is, having a great meal is only part of what will make this type of meeting successful. A good after dinner speaker is also essential to having a successful meeting. Not everyone will make a good after dinner speaker. It takes time to learn how to give a speech that will be well received. It also takes time to learn how to deliver the speech that is given after a meal.

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The problems a speaker faces

After dinner speakers may have to deal with several problems that can make it hard for them to deliver an effective speech. Many of these things are out of the speaker’s control. It is important that a speaker is aware of the pitfalls so that they can come up with a plan to overcome them. Here are the problems after dinner speakers face:

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  1. People are full. If the guests at the meeting have eaten a big meal, they may be full. A full stomach will cause people to get drowsy and to feel tired. A boring after dinner speaker will make this worse and people will fall asleep.
  2. People want to get out. Once a person has eaten their free meal, they may have a desire to get going. This is a bigger problem if the meeting is held later and people have been there a long time.
  3. People are still having conversations. The guests may have been having great conversations that they do not want to stop just because the speaker is ready to go.
  4. People have been drinking. If alcohol has been served, some of the people may have drunk more than they should have.

What to do about it

A good speaker cannot always control the things listed above that can happen. They may not have had a say in the time the meeting is held or the food and drink that was served. The after dinner speaker does have to find a way to deal with these problems. To avoid these problems you can head over to the JLA UK speakers bureau for more inspiration or you can use these 7 tips that can help you overcome the problems that may be faced.

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  1. Know who is at the meeting. The speaker should not only know the type of people that are at the meeting, they also need to know what has occurred before their speech. If they are aware of the mood of their audience, they can adjust their speech to make it more effective.
  2. Start out big. The first step to a great speech is to capture your audience. Make sure that you have a very strong start to overcome tired, drunk or satiated listeners.
  3. Don’t get stressed. You cannot control everything in the meeting and you should not try. Do not stress the problems that you may face. Work through them as best you can. Staying relaxed will make it easier for you to give the speech that you planed.
  4. Be ready to change. If you can tell your speech is not going over well, have a plan to change it. You need to have alternatives prepared ahead of time.
  5. Have a point. It is important that your speech has a beginning, middle and an end. It should not be a bunch of pointless words strung together.
  6. Practice. It is important to practice your speech before you try to give it. It is also important not to over rehearse the speech either. Try to find a place where you are comfortable with what you are saying without being too rehearsed.
  7. Don’t go on too long. A good after dinner speech will last between 20 to 45 minutes. If it is too long, all of the problems that can be faced will get worse. Keep your speech concise to capture your audience.

It takes time to become a good after dinner speaker. Every time that you give an after dinner speech, you should take some time to review what happened and look for ways to improve your speech the next time you are called upon. It is not always possible to give the perfect after dinner speech. If you use the tips above and take the time to learn from the work that you do, you can always get a little closer to the perfection that you want.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

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For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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