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7 Inspiring Life Lessons That are Hidden in Every Great Story

7 Inspiring Life Lessons That are Hidden in Every Great Story

Stories are metaphors of life. They make our lives easy when it is too complex to decipher the meaning. Being a filmmaker, I’ve discovered some inspiring lessons in every great story that one must know them to understand the paradoxes of life. Hope they would instill hope in you.

Choices define character

At crucial point in every great story, protagonist faces dilemma as we face occasionally in our own lives. The lesson we can learn from here is very simple: Choices define who we are. What we are is the result of the choices we have made. Life is full of choices so let us choose carefully for they decide our destiny.

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Ordeals are a way to glory

Life is a perennial ordeal; we have to be prepared to fight, not to escape from them, for they lead to glory. Heroes would never be called be heroes unless they haven’t been fought through ordeals. There is a reason for everything. Ordeals never come randomly, and they come purposefully to make you strong and cautious. Go ahead and fight away ordeals and glory is awaiting you.

Go for life beyond status quo

Every great quest of a protagonist starts with challenging the world and goes in search of something he deeply believes in. If you are skeptical of leaving the incomplete world and go in search for something you love, you never live truly. You will just survive; there is hell lot of difference between living and surviving. Decision is rightfully yours.

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Mistakes never define us

But what we have learnt from them does define us. Dwelling into the past and lamenting over the wrong choices is the least thing that we could do. Every protagonist realizes his mistakes at the end and resurrects in climax. Actually resurrection is a metaphor used in stories to make us understand to grow consciously beyond our mistakes and never repeat them. However we can surely make new mistakes.

Risking is the way of life

Show me one protagonist who has never risked his life in any story – none. So never be afraid to take risks because risking not is the biggest risk of life. Treat them with zest but be calculated. You cannot go into the deep waters without testing their depth. Let us make risking the way of life to dig out the hidden treasures of mankind that is possible only by risking truly.

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Follow the bliss

Bliss is something which you deeply love, you deeply believe.The protagonist in every story follows his own bliss nonetheless his life would be a deep mess. So, let us follow it; if we do that, we are enjoying that refreshment, that life within us all the time. When we can see that, we begin to meet people in the field of our bliss and the doors will be open. It would be quite surprising to relinquish all those moments. Don’t worry if you miss the chance, they keep on opening. That is the beauty of bliss.

Good wins over evil

This is pretty cliched lesson we can learn from every great story, but it’s worthy enough to ponder continuously. World itself has been formed on the principle of duality – Good and evil, love and hate, male and female and other unity of opposites. So we have no option. We just have to deal with the opposites. But what we opt for ultimately matters. If we opt for wrong choices, we fight ordeals with unfair means and hence make mistakes that can’t be regretted ending up in a deep mess. So, I guess you get the point.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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