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7 Inspiring Life Lessons That are Hidden in Every Great Story

7 Inspiring Life Lessons That are Hidden in Every Great Story

Stories are metaphors of life. They make our lives easy when it is too complex to decipher the meaning. Being a filmmaker, I’ve discovered some inspiring lessons in every great story that one must know them to understand the paradoxes of life. Hope they would instill hope in you.

Choices define character

At crucial point in every great story, protagonist faces dilemma as we face occasionally in our own lives. The lesson we can learn from here is very simple: Choices define who we are. What we are is the result of the choices we have made. Life is full of choices so let us choose carefully for they decide our destiny.

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Ordeals are a way to glory

Life is a perennial ordeal; we have to be prepared to fight, not to escape from them, for they lead to glory. Heroes would never be called be heroes unless they haven’t been fought through ordeals. There is a reason for everything. Ordeals never come randomly, and they come purposefully to make you strong and cautious. Go ahead and fight away ordeals and glory is awaiting you.

Go for life beyond status quo

Every great quest of a protagonist starts with challenging the world and goes in search of something he deeply believes in. If you are skeptical of leaving the incomplete world and go in search for something you love, you never live truly. You will just survive; there is hell lot of difference between living and surviving. Decision is rightfully yours.

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Mistakes never define us

But what we have learnt from them does define us. Dwelling into the past and lamenting over the wrong choices is the least thing that we could do. Every protagonist realizes his mistakes at the end and resurrects in climax. Actually resurrection is a metaphor used in stories to make us understand to grow consciously beyond our mistakes and never repeat them. However we can surely make new mistakes.

Risking is the way of life

Show me one protagonist who has never risked his life in any story – none. So never be afraid to take risks because risking not is the biggest risk of life. Treat them with zest but be calculated. You cannot go into the deep waters without testing their depth. Let us make risking the way of life to dig out the hidden treasures of mankind that is possible only by risking truly.

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Follow the bliss

Bliss is something which you deeply love, you deeply believe.The protagonist in every story follows his own bliss nonetheless his life would be a deep mess. So, let us follow it; if we do that, we are enjoying that refreshment, that life within us all the time. When we can see that, we begin to meet people in the field of our bliss and the doors will be open. It would be quite surprising to relinquish all those moments. Don’t worry if you miss the chance, they keep on opening. That is the beauty of bliss.

Good wins over evil

This is pretty cliched lesson we can learn from every great story, but it’s worthy enough to ponder continuously. World itself has been formed on the principle of duality – Good and evil, love and hate, male and female and other unity of opposites. So we have no option. We just have to deal with the opposites. But what we opt for ultimately matters. If we opt for wrong choices, we fight ordeals with unfair means and hence make mistakes that can’t be regretted ending up in a deep mess. So, I guess you get the point.

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

4. What are my goals in life?

Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

6. What do I not like to do?

An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

“What do I want to do with my life?”

So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

Featured photo credit: Andrew Ly via unsplash.com

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