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7 Inspiring Life Lessons That are Hidden in Every Great Story

7 Inspiring Life Lessons That are Hidden in Every Great Story

Stories are metaphors of life. They make our lives easy when it is too complex to decipher the meaning. Being a filmmaker, I’ve discovered some inspiring lessons in every great story that one must know them to understand the paradoxes of life. Hope they would instill hope in you.

Choices define character

At crucial point in every great story, protagonist faces dilemma as we face occasionally in our own lives. The lesson we can learn from here is very simple: Choices define who we are. What we are is the result of the choices we have made. Life is full of choices so let us choose carefully for they decide our destiny.

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Ordeals are a way to glory

Life is a perennial ordeal; we have to be prepared to fight, not to escape from them, for they lead to glory. Heroes would never be called be heroes unless they haven’t been fought through ordeals. There is a reason for everything. Ordeals never come randomly, and they come purposefully to make you strong and cautious. Go ahead and fight away ordeals and glory is awaiting you.

Go for life beyond status quo

Every great quest of a protagonist starts with challenging the world and goes in search of something he deeply believes in. If you are skeptical of leaving the incomplete world and go in search for something you love, you never live truly. You will just survive; there is hell lot of difference between living and surviving. Decision is rightfully yours.

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Mistakes never define us

But what we have learnt from them does define us. Dwelling into the past and lamenting over the wrong choices is the least thing that we could do. Every protagonist realizes his mistakes at the end and resurrects in climax. Actually resurrection is a metaphor used in stories to make us understand to grow consciously beyond our mistakes and never repeat them. However we can surely make new mistakes.

Risking is the way of life

Show me one protagonist who has never risked his life in any story – none. So never be afraid to take risks because risking not is the biggest risk of life. Treat them with zest but be calculated. You cannot go into the deep waters without testing their depth. Let us make risking the way of life to dig out the hidden treasures of mankind that is possible only by risking truly.

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Follow the bliss

Bliss is something which you deeply love, you deeply believe.The protagonist in every story follows his own bliss nonetheless his life would be a deep mess. So, let us follow it; if we do that, we are enjoying that refreshment, that life within us all the time. When we can see that, we begin to meet people in the field of our bliss and the doors will be open. It would be quite surprising to relinquish all those moments. Don’t worry if you miss the chance, they keep on opening. That is the beauty of bliss.

Good wins over evil

This is pretty cliched lesson we can learn from every great story, but it’s worthy enough to ponder continuously. World itself has been formed on the principle of duality – Good and evil, love and hate, male and female and other unity of opposites. So we have no option. We just have to deal with the opposites. But what we opt for ultimately matters. If we opt for wrong choices, we fight ordeals with unfair means and hence make mistakes that can’t be regretted ending up in a deep mess. So, I guess you get the point.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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