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4 Life Lessons Ronda’s Success Can Teach Us

4 Life Lessons Ronda’s Success Can Teach Us

If you follow the UFC, then you have heard of Ronda Rousey. Ronda is a wonderkid. At the age of 27, not only has she managed to be the best female MMA fighter in her weight category, but she has managed to be a favorite in the media as well. By using all this attention she has received, she has paved her way into modeling, advertising and acting. You name it, she has been there, done that!

Not all the attention she has attracted has been good; a lot of drama outside the ring has involved her. Her bad relationships with fellow MMA players have gone viral and her straightforward way of speaking has been criticized repeatedly to the extent of questioning her abilities as a fighter. That has made some people grow skeptical of her. It is easy after seeing her so exposed in the media, either in a good or bad way, to start wondering if she is the real deal. However, whenever that happens, Ronda is there to prove herself. Not only is she front and center to prove whoever questions her wrong, but she can actually teach us a lesson or two. Here are 4 lessons you can learn from Ronda’s success.

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1. Stand for what you believe in.

Even if your ways seem unconventional to others, stand up for what you believe in. Very often Ronda passes herself off as too raw or straightforward. She has the confidence to make bold statements and pays little attention to the reactions that arise. She is also there to prove her statements true every time through her fights and effort. When you believe in yourself, you do not have to convince anyone. Your success will do the job for you.

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2. Don’t be afraid of what other people think of you.

If you take a look through the Facebook pages, YouTube videos, and published articles you can see that despite her millions of fans, there is also a lot of criticism about Ronda. Whenever confronted about the bad press, her answer is always the same: why care about something that is so easily manipulated and changeable? There is nothing more temporary than rumors and assumptions. What people think of you tends to change so easily, so you might as well treat it as what it is-–reversible and useless. Stay immune to opinions; just stick to what you do and do it well.

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3. Put all your energy in what you do and be amazing at it.

It all comes down to one thing in the end: are you good at what you do? Ronda has been questioned and challenged countless times. Each time her actions speak louder than words and her success earns her more and more respect. For example, when she had to deal with the challenge of facing Sara McMann, another Olympic game winner, there was a lot of talk about how Ronda might not be able to live up to the expectations. But Ronda not only did it, she looked better and more prepared than ever. If you are good at what you do, you have nothing to worry about. The truth will shine at the end.

4. Pay attention to detail.

It is not a coincidence that Ronda has managed to get all the media focused on her and it definitely does not only have to do with the ongoing drama. What is more important is the fact that the camera loves her. She might be a gorgeous girl by nature, but what really works here is her ritualistic attention to detail. From the way she will dress, pose, walk to the ring, to the way she puts her hair up in buns–-everything looks perfect and works for her. The effort she has put into her public image has been studied and optimized so that each and every small thing works for her. The result is just fabulous.

Featured photo credit: BALDUIN22 via fansshare.com

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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