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15 Habits of Exceptionally Likable People

15 Habits of Exceptionally Likable People

Do you know someone that only give people positive, respectable, and genuine impression?  These highly likeable people have habits, and these habits are what most of us strive to be good at.  Here are the habits of exceptionally likeable people.

 1. They have positive mental attitude

When an exceptionally likeable person walks into the room there is an eruption of positive energy that radiates into everyone else immediately.

2. They speak in a carefully disciplined and friendly tone

It is amazing that they always know exactly what to say and how to say it.  Even when they are in a stress situation, likeable people speak with a perfect mix of energy and calmness that is almost like a work of art.

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 3. They pay close attention to the person who is speaking to them

When you talk to them, exceptionally likeable people will give you their full attention and listen closely to what you have to say.  Even if it is noisy, they have an unique ability to tune out that noise and always hear what you have to say.

4. They are able to maintain their composure in all circumstances

It is very easy for them to keep their cook at all times regardless of the environment.  If they are challenged by another person, the exceptionally likeable person can always win by making the challenge both friendly and fun to all.

5. They are patient

Most people become irritable when things take longer than expected.  Exceptionally likeable people can keep up with the wait.  They manage their time wisely, therefore they theyhave extra time that others fret over.

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6. They have an open mind

Exceptionally likable people listen to what everyone has to say before making an important decision.  They know that two or more people are more efficient than one person, and together they will make wiser choices.

7. They smile when they speak to others

Early in life they determined the effects that smiling has on others.  You will often catch yourself smiling only because you just saw them smiling.  It is contagious.

8. They know that not all their thoughts need to be expressed

There is time to speak, and there is time to listen. Exceptionally likeable people know how to balance what needs to be said and what doesn’t.

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9. They don’t procrastinate

Do they even know what procrastination means? They do only to help others procrastinate less.

10. They engage in at least one good deed a day

One good deed a day is probably the minimum.  You will never see them walk through a door first because they are always the one holding the door for others.

11. They find a lesson in failure rather than brood over it

Even exceptionally likeable people fail.  But when they do, they will take a minute to acknowledge their failure as a lesson learned, and then move on immediately .

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12. They act as if the person they are speaking to is the most important in the world

When you talk to an exceptionally likeable person, you often feel deeply and greatly respected and complimented.

13.  They praise others in a genuine way without being excessive

How do they know exactly what to say, when to say, and how to say it?

14. They have someone they trust to point out their flaws

Something you probably don’t know, but likeable people actually ask others to point out their flaws and then immediately start improving on them.

15.  They don’t ask for anything

If something need to be done, they just do it.  Regardless how difficult the task is, they always persevere and complete it on time.

Do you know any exceptionally likeable people?  If you do, pay close attention to what they do and how they do it and then add those habits to your life, repeat them as often as possible. After some practices, you will become one of them.

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Last Updated on August 12, 2019

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life.

Take a look at these 13 things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become mentally stronger.

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves

Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power

They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

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3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change

Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control

You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone

Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks

They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.

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7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past

Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it.

However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over

Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success

Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

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10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure

Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.

11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time

Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive.

They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything

Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.

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13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results

Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.

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