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15 Habits of Exceptionally Likable People

15 Habits of Exceptionally Likable People

Do you know someone that only give people positive, respectable, and genuine impression?  These highly likeable people have habits, and these habits are what most of us strive to be good at.  Here are the habits of exceptionally likeable people.

 1. They have positive mental attitude

When an exceptionally likeable person walks into the room there is an eruption of positive energy that radiates into everyone else immediately.

2. They speak in a carefully disciplined and friendly tone

It is amazing that they always know exactly what to say and how to say it.  Even when they are in a stress situation, likeable people speak with a perfect mix of energy and calmness that is almost like a work of art.

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 3. They pay close attention to the person who is speaking to them

When you talk to them, exceptionally likeable people will give you their full attention and listen closely to what you have to say.  Even if it is noisy, they have an unique ability to tune out that noise and always hear what you have to say.

4. They are able to maintain their composure in all circumstances

It is very easy for them to keep their cook at all times regardless of the environment.  If they are challenged by another person, the exceptionally likeable person can always win by making the challenge both friendly and fun to all.

5. They are patient

Most people become irritable when things take longer than expected.  Exceptionally likeable people can keep up with the wait.  They manage their time wisely, therefore they theyhave extra time that others fret over.

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6. They have an open mind

Exceptionally likable people listen to what everyone has to say before making an important decision.  They know that two or more people are more efficient than one person, and together they will make wiser choices.

7. They smile when they speak to others

Early in life they determined the effects that smiling has on others.  You will often catch yourself smiling only because you just saw them smiling.  It is contagious.

8. They know that not all their thoughts need to be expressed

There is time to speak, and there is time to listen. Exceptionally likeable people know how to balance what needs to be said and what doesn’t.

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9. They don’t procrastinate

Do they even know what procrastination means? They do only to help others procrastinate less.

10. They engage in at least one good deed a day

One good deed a day is probably the minimum.  You will never see them walk through a door first because they are always the one holding the door for others.

11. They find a lesson in failure rather than brood over it

Even exceptionally likeable people fail.  But when they do, they will take a minute to acknowledge their failure as a lesson learned, and then move on immediately .

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12. They act as if the person they are speaking to is the most important in the world

When you talk to an exceptionally likeable person, you often feel deeply and greatly respected and complimented.

13.  They praise others in a genuine way without being excessive

How do they know exactly what to say, when to say, and how to say it?

14. They have someone they trust to point out their flaws

Something you probably don’t know, but likeable people actually ask others to point out their flaws and then immediately start improving on them.

15.  They don’t ask for anything

If something need to be done, they just do it.  Regardless how difficult the task is, they always persevere and complete it on time.

Do you know any exceptionally likeable people?  If you do, pay close attention to what they do and how they do it and then add those habits to your life, repeat them as often as possible. After some practices, you will become one of them.

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Last Updated on June 26, 2020

10 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong

10 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong

Problems and heartaches in life are inevitable. However, there are some things to remember when you’re right in the thick of it that can help you get through it. When everything seems to be going wrong, practice telling yourself these things.

1. This Too Shall Pass

Sometimes life’s rough patches feel like they’re going to last forever. Whether you’re dealing with work-related issues, family problems, or stressful situations, very few problems last for a lifetime. So remind yourself, that things won’t be this bad forever.

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2. Some Things are Going Right

When things are going wrong, it’s hard to recognize what is going right. It’s easy to screen out the good things and only focus on the bad things. Remind yourself that some things are going right. Purposely look for the positive, even if it is something very small.

3. I Have Some Control

One of the most most important things to remember is that you have some control of the situation. Even if you aren’t in complete control of the situation, one thing you can always control is your attitude and reaction. Focus on managing what is within your control.

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4. I Can Ask for Help

Asking for help can be hard sometimes. However, it’s one of the best ways to deal with tough situations. Tell people what you need specifically if they offer to help. Don’t be afraid to call on friends and family and ask them for help, whether you need financial assistance, emotional support, or practical help.

5. Much of This Won’t Matter in a Few Years

Most of the problems we worry about today won’t actually matter five years from now. Remind yourself that whatever is going wrong now is only a small percentage of your actual life. Even if you’re dealing with a major problem, like a loved one’s illness, remember that a lot of good things are likely to happen in the course of a year or two as well.

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6. I Can Handle This

A lack of confidence in handling tough times can add to stress. One of the best things to remember is that you can handle tough situations. Even though you might feel angry, hurt, disappointed, or sad, it won’t kill you. You can get through it.

7. Something Good Will Come Out of This

No matter how bad a situation is, it’s almost certain that something good will come out of it. At the very least, it’s likely that you will learn a life lesson. Perhaps you learn not to repeat the same mistake in the future or maybe you move on from a bad situation and find something better. Look for the one good thing that can result when bad things happen.

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8. I Can Accept What’s Out of my Control

There are many things that aren’t within your control. You can’t change the past, another person’s behavior, or a loved one’s health issues. Don’t waste time trying to force others to change or trying to make things be different if it isn’t within your control. Investing time and energy into trying to things you can’t will cause you to feel helpless and exhausted. Acceptance is one of the best way to establish resilience.

9. I Have Overcome Past Difficulties

One of the things to remember when you’re facing difficulties, is that you’ve handled problems in the past. Don’t overlook past difficulties that you’ve dealt with successfully. Remind yourself of all the past problems you’ve overcome and you’ll gain confidence in dealing with the current issues.

10. I Need to Take Care of Myself

When everything seems to be going wrong, take care of yourself. Get plenty of rest, get some exercise, eat healthy, and spend some time doing leisure activities. When you’re taking better care of yourself you’ll be better equipped to deal with your problems.

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